My boyfriend gave me purple eyes my head is swollen like freddy cooger. He was drunk an dosent remember I have no car an my school is in our city but I want to move back to Las angeles. Please tell me what is the fastes way to get out to keep myself together. I am young an I cant belive the way I look an I still love him
2007-01-05 05:26:02 · 10 answers · asked by christina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Girl,
Run......Call a Taxi.......Buy a Bus ticket......My dad used that excuse I am so sorry....I was drunk......BULLCRAP.....I got drunk once and I remember everything that I did......
2007-01-05 05:30:02 · answer #1 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are all kinds of support groups out there that would
help you. When you're boyfriend is not around call one of the
abuse hotlines and get yourself out of there before something worst happens. Also, if you have family or friends that you can
confide in do so you will be surprised at how much support you will receive. You say you still love him but in time this will change, he obviously doesn't love you to do this to you.
2007-01-05 13:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by pegleg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I would go on the net and find a center for battered women and stay there till you can get back home.They have programs to help you to stop forgiving and to stand up for yourself and never go back to him.
I am sorry you had this happen to you.But don't delay leaving any longer no matter what.You may still love him but that love just might get you killed next time.
If you cant find a center on the Internet than find a salvation army headquarters or a local church and someone there should be able to steer you in the right direction.Good luck to you and be well!
2007-01-05 13:31:26 · answer #3 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave now. Call a friend, a family member or get to a shelter, just get away from him. In my experience, if he hit you once he will do it again. You may still love him but he doesnt love you.. Im sorry to say that but think about it, if he did why would he treat you like that?
2007-01-05 13:34:09 · answer #4 · answered by Christie G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your nearest battered women's shelter. they will help you with transitional housing and help you to keep yourself in school. Call the police and press charges and file a restraining order. This is no joke and you need to get out as quickly as you can. If he did it once he will do it again and the drunken can't remember crap is just an excuse and a crappy one at that!
2007-01-05 13:30:01 · answer #5 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call your local women's shelter. If you don't know how to look it up call a WIC office, a Health Clinic and ask for the # or maybe call a few churches and ask. They will come and get you and move you to safety for the time and give you resources to get out of that!
2007-01-05 13:32:07 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is going to be hard. But it is for the best. I would go by bus. Or better yet, get one of your girlfriend to take you. Call a freakin Road trip and Go. If not there is always mom and dad. No matter what you have to get away from him.
2007-01-05 13:30:42 · answer #7 · answered by B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the hospital. they will make sure you are ok. (physically)
they could probably steer you in the right direction as to a domestic violence shelter in your area. from there the people at the shelter will help you to get where you need to go.
sometimes we love people even though we don't like how they treat us. just do get away from him, alcohol abuse is no excuse for what he did to you. and believe me, he won't stop. oh, he will promise you the moon, if you just stay, PLEASE DONT. He might kill you next time. sounds like he almost did this time.
2007-01-05 13:35:42 · answer #8 · answered by angel1 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to find someone to help. To get away from him immediately, go to a womens shelter, they will help. There are a lot of groups that help you relocate. Good luck and you need to get away now as well as medical attention to make sure you are okay.
2007-01-05 13:28:58 · answer #9 · answered by bdgirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why should YOU have to leave.
I know a place where he can go and they will give him a pair of eyes to match yours.
Nice place
three meals a day
nice clothing (orange jumpsuit, color may vary)
fantastic jewelry (hand cuffs)
and a limo ride (squad car)
CALL THE POLICE
and order him a luxury room TODAY!
If you love him, fine, love YOURSELF More and declare that you are better than that situation
2007-01-05 13:39:38 · answer #10 · answered by karen g 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋