ok my parents have a werid privacy issue i have no clue why they cannot trust me my dads fine but my mom feels she need to be in control of everything so she goes through my cell phone and when she feels like it she calls up my friends or my girlfriend and deicdes to ask them questions, one time i even caught her going through my school bag expecting to find what i dont know becasue i dont smoke and i drink sometimes but its not somthing i do alot. she also feels the need to go through my computer when im at school and delete stuff on it she even does that on msn she deletes random contacts..by the way im 16 turing 17 and i have no clue what shes trying to get at but its not helping and it just embarrsess me when my friends tell me that my mom called them? what should i do? becasue this is really starting to piss me off...
2007-01-05 07:03:16 · 7 answers · asked by mike d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
my mum use to do that alot until one day I sat infront of her and told her what she was doing was embarrsing and she needed to stop because she is making a fool out of both of us but especially her. I also told her that I am a teenage and would always come to her for advice or help if I needed one. YOU need to tell her straight how you feel and ask her how would she feel if it was her mother doing it to her or if you where doing it to her yourself.... she does need to think about it ......... and if it's because she wants to get closer to you or whatever then tell her that what she is doing would not get you guys to get along but would do the opposite....
good luck
2007-01-05 07:37:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well most cellphones you can put a lock on it so you only know the password, as well as your computer. if its your own personal computer you can make it so only you can access it through the log in screen. and how does she even have your account info for msn? maybe try aim or yahoo and not share that. or just get a whole new msn account and not share the password. theres little things you can do so she can't snoop. and in your notebag, just write a note with something like "hi mom, i know what your looking for and i don't do that".
2007-01-05 17:16:26 · answer #2 · answered by LaRae L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's just because your parents love you and want you to be safe and have a good life. They are just worried with all the stuff out there that kids can get involved in. Do your part to be open and honest with your parents so they know you can be trusted. It's your parents job to protect you....one day when you are older you will understand how they feel. Be glad that you have parents who care about you.
2007-01-05 07:44:00 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 12:04:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright my cousin had the same thing what I told her to do is say,Mom why are you going through my stuff you can trust me I dont smoke dont drink and dont do drugs I can trust you you may trust me plz its so embarrising having you calling my friends deleting my contact and going through my cellphone and my BACKpack plz stop you can trust me kaitlyn D.b
2007-01-05 07:21:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this problem is a trust issue. Honesty is very important with your parents. Let your parents know that you are responsible, try to get her to trust you.
2007-01-05 07:18:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
******* hell you are nearly seventeen?
you have a very controlling and perhaps paranoid mother (no offense)
just ask her to stop it
if no
just start rooting around in all of her belongings see hoe she likes it make sure that she catches you doing it and leave evidence and messages etc of things that you have/haven't done like in a message
"that was great sex last night" something like that etc
then she will have something to be paranoid about
2007-01-05 07:22:00 · answer #7 · answered by metallicash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋