Family - January 2007

I'm 17years old and my mom walked out on me, and no one has custidy of me or my 13 year old brother so we live with my grandma but a few months ago i lived with my boyfriend, we love eachother so much but then his parents told me that we shouldn't live together and my dad made me move back home so now my aunt and uncle who dosen't even own me control me, I cleaned alot at my boyfriends house and I didn't mind helping out with bills and stuff i was so happy but when i moved back i got so horribly depressed and i hate it here....i miss my boyfriend so much, and when my aunt and uncle yell at me about how i don't clean or help out i get depressed i really don't understand why i don't do anything i just want to be with jesse so bad. I felt as if I was finally doing something with my life but then I came back home and i feel traped....in a few months jesse is getting an apartment and I'm suposed to move in with him but my aunt and uncle said no because i'm not 18, what would you do?

2007-01-05 13:51:11 · 9 answers · asked by ~*.::.Baby Love.::.*~ 1

my sister and I want to do something together being we havnet had any time to see eachother. Were both in our 20's and we are past the bar hopping scene so anyone got any ideas for what we can do?

2007-01-05 13:40:18 · 5 answers · asked by Beth 3

do you remember the events and or sayings that your mom,dad or anybody shared with you that helped you threw a learning curve or learning process? thanks for sharing

2007-01-05 13:38:51 · 10 answers · asked by Scot 2

2007-01-05 13:31:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, my dad died when i was four and my mom remarried shortly after. that was what? 9, 8 years ago. im still not over my dads death, and i really dont like my stepdad. my older brother and i feel like he treats his kids differently, treats them somewhat better. hes in the navy, and hes a real strong christian. so clearly hes very very strict. hes always on his butt watching sports when he comes home from work, and he never helps with chores. my mom does alot around the house, and my brother and i help as much as we can. i just feel so neglected or hated or something when hes around. i get depressed because i miss my dad and i feel like my stepdad is trying to replace him. he changed my brothers and my last name to his like, 5 years ago and we have to call HIM dad and address our real dad by his name. i think thats real unfair, and my friends do too. i just need help or advice on what to do. my brother says hes going to disown himself in a year (hes 15) but then id be alone. PLZ HELP!

2007-01-05 13:25:11 · 4 answers · asked by Bohemo 2

Okay my son is seventeen and lived with his grandmother but she let him move in with his 21 yr old friend whos a guy and is studying to become a socail worker.

She has his custodety and my daughters because my husband was abusing my son and I didnt know he never told me when I was in the courtroom I thought that he was lying, so I screamed at him the whole time.

Now I'm married again to his father's brother and he really cares but my son won't come live with us because he said he's tired of me calling him names (I only called him a **** once, -.-), but hes scared of my husband because my husband locked him in the closet when he told my uncle he had to do his homework.

Do you think I can get him back? I really think so, my other husband didn't hit him that hard, they only left brusies because my son allowed it to happen.

2007-01-05 13:05:21 · 7 answers · asked by 4g3t1t 1

My mother has spend a fortune on me for the past 15 or so years, (but never on herself) I was told tonight that in one year I won't get my fathers social security money anymore. I'm scared, and so is my mother. We are living on Section 8 housing, and have been for years. My mother has a disability, and she also gets disability. What can I do to help her, what suggestions can I make. She needs to save money. We only need to save money. we don't need anything but a to keep what we have and emergency car repair. We have no family here to help us in anyway. It's just me and my mother. My mother owes about $3000.00 in bills, and that' it. Maybe you can give me some advice as how I can help my mother and get some money saved.

2007-01-05 12:54:15 · 20 answers · asked by jcanime@sbcglobal.net 2

contact rules means she should return my neice on the arranged date not change it to suit herself. she was placed in my custody by social workers as the mother has a drink problem but she rings and demands visitation whenever she wants and i have to pay for the three hour journey each time. help i need to know where i stand and what are my rights

2007-01-05 12:46:28 · 3 answers · asked by richard s 2

I have 2 brothers and i'm getting suspicious of them smoking weed. My brother who is only in 9th grade has been caught with lighters and stuff but never weed, he's been caught with his window open in his room, and now I think he's getting my 7th grade brother into it? They both claim that they're "taking the dog out" they never take the dog out at the same time? And they do it like.. 3 times an hour, when they get back in the house.. they don't act like their normal selves, they're ussually moody and don't talk, they only talk to each other they exclude me from everything they do.. it's kinda depressing that my brother's and I have a horrible relationship. But after they come back in they're all giggly.. they also claim they're "going to the park" sometimes.. they're 7th and 9th graders.. they're not playing on swing sets come on.. i suspect them of smoking weed because i myself used to.. and acted like they did. But, what can I do to find out if they do, how do i make them stop? and how do I form a better relation ship with my brothers? We used to be good friends, I talk to my 7th grade brother sometimes (we joke) but my 9th grade brother seems to not like to talk to me.. (i'm in 11th grade) I think the reason is we have nothing in common.. Like he likes to act "gangsta" and i'm more casual... you know and I just hate that my brothers can't act like normal people.. considering we live in the suburbs.. I'm beggining to become worried about their futures.. anyways any advice on how i could

- create a better relation ship with my brothers
- find out if they smoke weed and get them to stop
- convince them that although we're african americans, we're not ghetto hooligans, our parents were actually born in Africa, not the ghettos of America.


Please, someone help thank you

2007-01-05 12:42:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

WE ARE STILL FRIENDS AND SHARE CUSTODY OF A DOG
MY GIRLFRIEND LIKES HER BUT I THINK SHE MIGHT BE PISSED
WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2007-01-05 12:34:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

and where are you from?

2007-01-05 12:27:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

i do
my sister is the most annoying creature ever what should i do??!!

2007-01-05 12:22:49 · 3 answers · asked by ♥ 3

I've had a step mom since i was 11years old and im am now 19. She has treated me horrible since i was little until i had my little girl and now she can't understand why i won't let her call herself grandma to my daughter... When i say she treated me horrible it consists of smashing answer machines, name calling, telling me that im not "daddys little princess anymore" " My dad now has two other daughters" and talking bad about my mom in front of me to others... I need some advice Should i let her be a grandma to her and put all that mean stuff behind or Stick with it and keep telling her to stop? (by the way my baby is only 6mos if that tells you how soon she decided to be nice to me)

2007-01-05 12:22:13 · 9 answers · asked by Alyssasmommy06 1

i reacently adopted my 5 year old cuzn due to mer mother passing to cancer and her father not being around she wont talk to anyone and just started eating again our beloved grandmother is preety much on her death bed but my cuzn/daughter doesnt know it yet how do i tell her with out hurting her even more?

2007-01-05 12:18:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Be honest now, with yourself and answer from the heart.

2007-01-05 12:13:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was just woundering how moms feel about the "daughters-in-law". My mom is very critical of every guy I date......NO MATTER WHAT. I feel like I want my "mother-in-law" to like me but what if she's like my mom. What do moms think?

2007-01-05 12:05:24 · 1 answers · asked by miley 2

She went back with mom over 7 months ago and now wants to come back and visit after being rude disrespectfull and just plain not nice. Whats up? I think something is. Am i wrong to think this?

2007-01-05 11:48:12 · 7 answers · asked by denise l 1

Every Friday when I leave work and pick my kids up from my parents, I somehow end up with my older brother's child. My brother usually says that he'll be there to pick him up in about an hour. But, I end up feeding him dinner and entertaining him until 9 or 9:30 when my sister in law comes to pick him up. I'm not sure what my brother is (but I have my ideas!) instead of spending time with his son but I'm really tired of being the resident babysitter. On a rare basis I wouldn't mind, but this is constant... On a Friday afternoon, I don't want to do anything except come home and spend time with my kids. What can I say to him without starting a family war?

2007-01-05 11:46:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband's ex wife gave her parental rights to her son so he could get guardianship of his half siblings, when we went to court we won back custody of the kids. Since he lost does that mean she lost also?

2007-01-05 11:33:14 · 2 answers · asked by peggy y 1

So I am at my friends right and and they said that I could spend the night and but not my brother and sister should I go home or should I stay here even though my dad said that I could stay here?

2007-01-05 11:29:33 · 4 answers · asked by blair 2

I have always been the pretty gril and my sister is then not so pretty girl but SO smart and i dont now why my parents (specialy dad) do everything she saids and I feel that they dont triet me the same ???

2007-01-05 11:26:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

On New Years eve, I came home really drunk, and I pissed all over his car. When he came out, I started pissing on him. Then I threw up in his truck while I was trying to go get McDonalds. I woke up the next morning and he asked if I took his truck. I said no. He hasn't said a word to me since.

2007-01-05 11:23:27 · 26 answers · asked by Arnold 3

i got held back in the 3rd grade, but i wanna celebrate my sweet 16 when i turn 16. my mom and dad say i should celebrate it at 17 than people wont be asking to many questions. just not that but if i celebrate at 17 i'll get to celebrate with my friends who are of course a year younger than me. what should i do?

2007-01-05 11:18:42 · 4 answers · asked by vanessa 2

2007-01-05 11:15:12 · 9 answers · asked by mom of 2 6

I was born to married parents and I think they were both about 27 or so. They divorced when I was a few weeks old. I never saw my dad again. My mother (or somebody else who was in our house - nobody knows) threw me against a wall when I was 6 weeks old because I wouldn't stop crying. I fractured my skulll. A few weeks later I was put into foster care where I was sexually abused. Nobody in my mother or father's extended famliy ever came to get me and I remained in foster care for my entire chldhood and teens.

I wound up going to an Ivy League school and forging a good career. But I still have issues with depression and sadness, even though I'm in therapy.

My question is, why was somebody like me even born? I can never be as "good" as a child who was wanted and cherished and loved by its parents....

2007-01-05 10:58:06 · 20 answers · asked by Very Nice Indeed! 1

2007-01-05 10:33:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been so aggrivated with my daughter lately for not listening and whining a lot (she is 6). My father told me he is going to take her tonight to his house (for her to visit overnight, she does that once in a while) Well, I am so excited about her going because it will give me a little bit bit of a break (my husband to). My son is staying here with us (he is 1), but her going will at least give us a little bit of a break. I am really happy, but on the other hand I feel guilty about being happy that she is going. Should I feel guilty?

2007-01-05 10:30:08 · 20 answers · asked by Billys girl 3

She's a whiny little BRAT, and makes every nerve in my body hurt.

2007-01-05 10:22:37 · 15 answers · asked by Aggrevated 1

My step son is 16 and keeps smoking grass and pot.....

We have chatted to him and threatened him with him loosing his job (he works for us), we told him to lay off it and don't ever bring it into our house, we have 3 other children all younger, our 6 year picked up his grinder thingy after it fell out of his pocket covered in grass.....

Well just been in his room to collect plates etc and he has been at it again?

What can we do? He is my partners ex wife's from her first marriage and we let him stay with us because his father has never met him and his mum didnt want him.....we are all he has

We have tried to be good parents

2007-01-05 10:20:07 · 11 answers · asked by xXx Orange Breezer xXx 5

My dad died one year ago today and I'm still hurting he and I were close. I'm nearly 13 so I don't know maybe I only miss him on bad days when my hormones are through the roof.I just want to know when this will stop... I miss him alot but I want to be happy

2007-01-05 10:19:59 · 6 answers · asked by help:) 3