On New Years eve, I came home really drunk, and I pissed all over his car. When he came out, I started pissing on him. Then I threw up in his truck while I was trying to go get McDonalds. I woke up the next morning and he asked if I took his truck. I said no. He hasn't said a word to me since.
2007-01-05 11:23:27 · 26 answers · asked by Arnold 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'm only 13 years old..
2007-01-05 11:26:41 · update #1
You need help dude. I wouldnt be surprised if he disowned you
2007-01-05 11:25:52 · answer #1 · answered by lalanoesbest 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like you are the one who hates your dad. Be honest with yourself. You wouldn't have done those things (drunk or not) to your dad or his car/truck if you really love him. My best advice is to talk to HIM. He's probably too mad at you to talk to you right now. Before you do talk to him, go out there and completely wash both his car and truck inside and out. Shampoo the interior, wash the windows... . When you are done, go in and tell him how very sorry you are and beg his forgiveness. You have some growing up to do, but if you can prove to him how sorry you are, than maybe he can begin to forgive you. You are going to need to work on this over time and put up with whatever he deals to you from now on. If you can't do this stuff, don't bother apologizing.
2007-01-05 19:30:04 · answer #2 · answered by Goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said he hasn't said a word to you since New Year's. Did you apologize to him for what you did on New Year's Eve?
Wash the car/truck and then apologize to your dad (again). Ask him what you can do to make amends to him and then do it.
2007-01-05 19:29:47 · answer #3 · answered by dragonsong 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did something stupid. The very least you could do is apologize and clean his truck. I don't think he hates you......but I'm sure you hurt his feelings pretty bad. You and him need to talk this over and put this behind you. This isn't a good way to start the New Year.
2007-01-05 19:27:54 · answer #4 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Having been on both ends of the child/parent relationship. I can tell you that it is impossible for a parent, (if sane) to hate their child. Blood is thicker then water. He might be angry and he will get over it just communicate with him and give it some time. He doesn't hate you. No one can turn love on and off like a faucet.
2007-01-05 19:28:52 · answer #5 · answered by Winwon (Cherokee Nation) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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THat is hilarious dude. Your dad doesn't hate you he loves you. He is however highly pissed off ...er on, regarding you.
You guys will howl about this event someday. Behave for awhile. Put your tail between your legs and lay real still for a day or two. Then move real slow for awhile after that. It works.
2007-01-05 19:28:10 · answer #6 · answered by Bullwinkle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will eventually forgive you, at least that's what I thought when I was first reading it, that was until I read that your 13. You see, yes sometime in life he will probably forgive you, but I hope you have learned from you mistake. He has a perfectly good right to not talk to you for awhile!!
2007-01-05 20:33:21 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Sydd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dads expect kids to make mistakes. i am sure he is going to forgive you (he probably has already) he just hasnt forgotten. try being honest. give hime a little space for now then go and tell him. he pretty much already knows you took the truck. good luck with all.
2007-01-05 19:28:09 · answer #8 · answered by Mary W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your dad is mad at you and it probably hurt him to see you in that condition at such a young age. the fact you took his truck without permission probably made him feel like you had no respect for him either. you say he hasnt said a word to you why havent you said a few words to him like sorry dad i let you down ill clean up your truck i really messed up .can you forgive me
2007-01-05 19:52:16 · answer #9 · answered by catfancy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you are never going to see another birthday or Christmas present for a long, long time. I also expect you will be grounded and if you had an allowance, it has been stopped.
I would suggest that you clean your Dad's car ASAP, as that might bring him around.
2007-01-05 19:28:51 · answer #10 · answered by D N 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, yo im 15 and i've never did anything like that. well sooner or later he will have to forgive you, hes just upset right now, give him some time. get good grades, dont stay out too late with friends, and do w.e it takes to make ur parents happy. you should also apologize to ur dad and clean up the car. good luck.
2007-01-05 19:37:48 · answer #11 · answered by vanessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋