One year later....?

Question

My dad died one year ago today and I'm still hurting he and I were close. I'm nearly 13 so I don't know maybe I only miss him on bad days when my hormones are through the roof.I just want to know when this will stop... I miss him alot but I want to be happy

Answer 1

I know how you feel because my dad passed away on 10/18/2004 when I was 18. The only problem is that I didn't have a good relationship with. Now that I'm 20 I regret never telling him that I loved him and never thanked him for all the things that he has done for me. Still whenever I have time away I go and visit his grave and bring him flowers and stuff for the occasion. Don't worry, be strong and just remember that he will always be with you in spirit and be watching over you.

Answer 2

It will get easier, but you probably will always miss him. I was older when my father died but it took awhile for me to not hurt. Now I can smile when I think of him. Just remember the good times and how much he loved you.

Answer 3

youll never stop!! trust me.. well my dad is still here but we hate eachother and my papa(g-pa) was more there for me then my own father so i saw him more like my daddy and when i saw him pass away a part of me died. that was 3 years ago and sometimes i still cry over him when i reall y need him but ive gotten better by thinking of the good times and keeping myself busy...

Answer 4

honey i understand what you are feeling.my daughter passed away almost 4 years ago,and it hurts everyday.im 30 and she was 7 months old,but it will get easier,holidays are rough and birthday.but i think of her in a better place.called heaven.just hang in there and if you need to talk im here. [e-mail]....

Answer 5

I lost my sister in 2004 in a fatal car accident. If that isnt worse, she died on my b-day. It really hurt to the core when she died. I was so devestated and depressed. Still, we are in 2007 now, and for Dec 31, 2006 I was feeling like crap. I was thinking about how much I missed her. She was my best friend, my only friend that understood me no matter how much we argued or called each other names. I am hurting right now as I talk about her. I thought that maybe I wouldnt hurt so much if only a year passed. I was wrong. I continue to hurt. Sometimes, I just burst out in tears. When I pray to GOD for her to be in his glory, I cry. I think that I will continue to hurt for as long as I am alive. Love is such a great and wonderful feeling, but its strong too. So strong that it cannot be replaced with anything but pain. Pain that you loved that person and is not here to spend the rest of your life with. She left two children behind, a boy and a girl. Everytime I look at her, it makes me want to cry. She looks exactly like my sister. If I am out shopping, and I see something that used to be her style of clothing, I mummer to myself, "wow, she would've like this".

It hurts and I dont think it will ever go away. You just have to live with the fact that they are gone and if you believe in god, you will someday see him again.

I believe in spirits, and although what I am about to say sounds crazy, I still talk to her. My mother has dreams about her, that their talking. One time she had a dream of my sister, and in that dream my mother asked her if she knew she was dead, my sister replies, yes mom - I know that I am dead. I know, it sounds crazy, but I believe that my sister spoke to her. I have yet to have a dream with a conversation with her.

Just know in your heart that he is waiting for you when your time comes to go to heaven. It will be a great reunion. It will get easier to deal with the emotion as time goes by, but you will still miss him. I have learned to deal with my sister being gone, and it hurts when its my b-day and I dont celebrate it because its no longer a celebration of my birth, but the mourning of my sister. Yet, time goes by, my emotions are dealt better, but I will never forget her.

Answer 6

hang in there ! you never get over it - it just gets easier to deal with ! god be with you !!