2007-01-05 10:33:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
if, it's to hard move back home.Sigh the ex up for child support
2007-01-05 10:37:19 · answer #1 · answered by Monet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been a single parent for 4 years I have a 5 year old. It was easy for me because of the situation i was in with him at the time. I had made my final decion never to return to him again, after what he did to me in front of my child. Stay strong. Get Empowered, love your child, get support you need, and then you will get your life on track Everyday is a new day, if your b/f left you and your child, he is not a man to take care of his own. You need to step up and take care of yourself and your child. Who is more important? A man or your child?
2007-01-05 19:12:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry this had happened to you, but all I can recommend is you just pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again. Also, I strongly urge you to just concentrate on your child. Your daughter or son should be the center of your world right now. Good Luck.
2007-01-05 18:38:37 · answer #3 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont do anything dif than when you were with the boyfriend except NOW you do it all by yourself. Take him to court for child support to help with the financial needs of the child.
2007-01-05 19:10:55 · answer #4 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend the time making yourself a better person, instead of wasting it grieving on a no good, that wouldn't have been there for u for long anyway. go to school, pick a career, get a job, focus on your child, and be glad u found him out before u married him, or had more children. don't focus on a situation that u couldn't have done much about anyway.
2007-01-05 19:19:15 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not worth to cry over if he left his child. no person is. your child will need you now more than ever. and the resposability can be used as a scapegoat. just shift your focus and a little tears always makes you feel better.and treat yourself to doing what you love the most!
2007-01-05 19:12:07 · answer #6 · answered by stormflutter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you, but don't let him get you down that it causes you hurt, but what can I say..except this BETTER yourself, look into schools if you need college don't be afraid the next one will leave everyone is different..ok..it will be ok, turn to friends and family, do not care about the man who just left you, you make sure you act like you don't need him even if you do in your heart, don't let him bring you down ok ,,, you can do it..
2007-01-05 18:39:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is to precious to sit back and cry and get depressed and think bad thoughts.you have a wonderful child and your a good mother.you will find someone that loves you and your child.have you ever heard the old saying......."what goes around,comes around"think of that...
2007-01-05 18:53:29 · answer #8 · answered by sweet_4_dale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just rememebr that you have to be strong for your child. They are #1.
2007-01-05 18:52:09 · answer #9 · answered by dmstanley02 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick yourself up, go to college and prove to him and yourself you didn't need him anyway. Could be a blessing in disguise.
2007-01-05 18:45:07 · answer #10 · answered by Akida 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋