She went back with mom over 7 months ago and now wants to come back and visit after being rude disrespectfull and just plain not nice. Whats up? I think something is. Am i wrong to think this?
2007-01-05 11:48:12 · 7 answers · asked by denise l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Give her the chance! You are the adult here so act like it. All kids go through bratty-punk stages. Insist on respect in your home and lead by showing her respect.That certainly doesn't mean be a doormat. Let her know you love her (or care about her), and she is welcome in your home as long as she treats the family with the love and decency you all deserve.
2007-01-05 13:32:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would think that because of her past behavior that she has just found that things are less pleasant at her mom's than at your house. It is possible that she has had a change of heart, but I am thinking that is not very likely for a teen. If a teen has been bold enough to act like she acted 7 mos ago, then the chances of her having matured and gained insight so quickly just seems sort of slight. HOWEVER. Do give her another chance. She is still a kid who acted unwisely. You might regret it later if you don't give her a chance to at least visit.
2007-01-05 19:57:52 · answer #2 · answered by Cris O 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
BEWARE! my step-daughter did this too. a lot of times. the only time she came was to see what was going on in the house. see if her dad was working--went through my purse to see how much we had in our checking account--caused fights between my husband and me-- terrorized my boys (which were toddlers)--
memorized our license plate number (the police pulled us over 10 minutes after we left her house after dropping her off)---she would tell her dad that if he bought her this or that she would come on a regular basis( naturally old dad would shell out the bucks and buy whatever she wanted. one time it was three hundred dollars in new school clothes) then she wouldn't come
until she wanted to again. i have many "bad " memories of the step-daughter. my husband didn't want to "hurt" the girl (because she still wanted daddy and mommy together) so he refused to even kiss me, hold my hand, or spend time with me while she was in the house (not even in the privacy of our bedroom) he was afraid she might come in. it might sound like jealousy,but i found it down right weird that he acted that way.
2007-01-05 20:06:15 · answer #3 · answered by angel1 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Is it possible that she still loves her dad and wants to spend time with him. Even though you may not have a good relationship with her, doesn't mean that her and her father can't still have one. Sometimes thats just the way things are.
2007-01-05 20:55:45 · answer #4 · answered by AngelWings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe shes changed. dont avoid her though, because when u married her parent, you got her too. maybe something is wrong between her and her mom. try and find out. best of luck
2007-01-05 19:54:35 · answer #5 · answered by sweetxbloodx91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're wrong..... maybe she grew up! So now maybe it's time you do too!
2007-01-05 19:56:46 · answer #6 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
avoid her
2007-01-05 19:52:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋