2007-01-05 11:15:12 · 9 answers · asked by mom of 2 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Does this person know how much of an impact that they are having on your thinking? No. Do they care if you're bothered? No. Are they hurting? No. .....Now...do yourself a favor and "let it go Lewie!" cause the only one you are wounding is yourself. Here is one way to do that:
Write all of the crap you feel about this person on paper; really write what's in your mind and heart! Get it all out! Then have a little ceremony at the BBQ pit and burn the pages....as they go up in smoke and flames, so will your bad feelings. You will be letting them go permanently. Godloveya.
2007-01-05 11:27:25 · answer #1 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Start having good thoughts about that person. Surprise yourself by thinking positively and these thoughts will come back to you one hundred fold. You do not accomplish much if you only love the people who love you and then hold a grudge against the ones who have hurt you. This is the principle of forgiveness and after you have done so, you will love yourself a whole lot more knowing that no one, no one can hurt you unless you let him/her. That "difficult" person will be ERASED and replaced by a light, loving, tender heart.
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2007-01-05 19:35:37 · answer #2 · answered by alpha & omega 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek help from Jim Carrey
2007-01-05 19:17:44 · answer #3 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
think more of yourself and less of this person. you are the only person that has control over your life. never let anyone else have or conquer that power.
2007-01-05 19:20:17 · answer #4 · answered by try 2 help 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find an interesting new friend
that difficult person will allways be there but you can decide how often
2007-01-05 19:20:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She bothers you, she is difficult, you don't need people like that in your life. "out of sight, out of mind" .........g o n e!!!!
2007-01-05 19:22:16 · answer #6 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By replacing something or someone else there.
2007-01-05 19:18:19 · answer #7 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just takes time
2007-01-05 19:20:03 · answer #8 · answered by nodaybuttoday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new girlfriend???
2007-01-05 19:18:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋