with my gfs mom a few days ago, and I feel real guilty cause her mom peer pressured me into it, I feel so guilty about it, I'm going to be honest to my gf though shell leave me for such a bad thing I have done is there anyway I can keep her before I hang myself in my bathroom?
2007-01-04 17:25:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
IT WAS ALL A DREAM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-04 17:46:02 · update #1
IT WAS ALL A DREAM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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they both suckered me!
2007-01-04 17:46:52 · update #2
you really need to get a real life !
2007-01-04 19:37:55 · answer #1 · answered by luckylady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If her mom pressured u into it (although I don't believe there is such a thing as being pressured into having an affair) then tell ur g/f in front of her mom exactly what happened - in that way u can lay the blame at her mom's feet. Quite frankly a mother who can do that deserves no respect or love at all. She has been watching too much Bold & Beautiful and is trying to be like Brooke - or else she is just really a NOT nice person !! And if u had an affair with my mother there is no way I'd forgive u - that is a serious slap in the face.
2007-01-05 01:32:32 · answer #2 · answered by Tequila Sheila SA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! You learned a big lesson. First of all you made a mistake. It isn't worth your life. It is wrong and I don't know if you will find the right answers on here. You have the mom and daughter's relationship at hand here. I think the daughter needs to know. I would want to know if my mom was doing me that way. And she needs to know that you did her that way. You did what you wanted to do no one made you. Sorry! I am more shocked over the mom doing this. The heartbreak from both of you betraying her will hurt her. She might forgive you but she may never trust you again. I wouldn't. No matter what you live and learn and hanging yourself is not the answer. I always pray when things are tough it helps! Good Luck! By the way how old are you?
2007-01-05 01:39:55 · answer #3 · answered by holliemay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you afraid your gf will dump you why should you care if you don't love her i mean come on having sex with her mom! That is so gross and the mom didn't peer pressure you it takes 2 to tango dude. Tell her the truth. I don't think you should keep this a secret it will only make her even more mad. And suicide is not the answer i think instead of coming on here you need to seek professional help.
2007-01-05 01:36:45 · answer #4 · answered by Momof1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
damn , this is where self disipline should have come in. If i were you avoid being at her house where her mom is & have her meet you at your house or s friends. Obviously her mom is having issues & fantasy's. If u tell her she's gonna freak out im telling u & her mom will probably say u came on to her . Pray about it man cuz damn u need Jesus about now & if u love her avoid her mom at all costs & im not sure about u telling her that's a low blow , but it's up to u, the balme is on u & the mom though she's too old to be betraying her duahgter & being childish, but that's deep
2007-01-05 02:11:01 · answer #5 · answered by pammybear1971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious?
Ok first of all i have to say her mom did not PEER pressure you into it because she is NOT YOUR PEER. Your gf is your peer. But anyways...
Break up with your gf. If you actually slept with her mom that is SICK and she will not want to know it. Don't wreck her relationship with her mom. Do something decent and just leave her, don't tell her the truth. UGH. Disgusting (but i doubt this is real).
2007-01-05 01:29:35 · answer #6 · answered by Principessa 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
there is benefits from each choice:
you could tell your gf and she will probably dump you and never speak to her mom again. or she just won't believe you.
or you could not tell her. i don't think the mom will be quick to tell her daughter what happened. you'll just have to avoid her and dont let it happen again. dont listen to these other guys saying that if you tell her YOU will be ruining her life. if was you and her mom. if she dumps you she will be more than likely not speak to her mom again.
so the choice is yours, tell her and wreck both of the relationships or dont tell her and hope for the best.
2007-01-05 01:36:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK first off let her know what happened with her mother and then if she doesn't believe you then all you do is show her how you feel about her please don't hang your self you have your whole life ahead of you and no one is worth dying. Dying is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. There are people that will miss you when you are gone you have to think about them think about how they will feel if you die. You don't want to cause them any pain.
2007-01-05 01:34:48 · answer #8 · answered by leespitt 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whoa dude. For now just chill. Yep your gf would probably leave ya but she is really really going to be mad at her mom. Give yourself a break for being a human. Figure out what went wrong and what to do if this craziness ever happens again.
2007-01-05 01:31:33 · answer #9 · answered by rokdude5 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You slept with your girlfriend’s mother that is so wrong. At least you’re going to admit your mistake that takes some maturity.
Whatever you do don’t hang yourself, you made a mistake now you just need to accept the consequences of your actions and move on as hard and painfully as that may be.
2007-01-05 01:30:32 · answer #10 · answered by Spread Peace and Love 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If her mom took you on, it is a bad road the girl is on and it will be painful. Just tell her that the relationship did not work for you and move on, but don't forget that the other woman can always make a move on you, and you should not fall for it again even if it is tempting. "Don't defaecate and make love in the same bed."
2007-01-05 01:29:28 · answer #11 · answered by zclifton2 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋