My brother is 9 years oldr then me and I wanted a better relationship(we where never close but very nice(birthdays,get togethers)so I wrote him and he sent me a letter back saying he wanted nothing to do with me or the family and wont say why except after 10 years of embarrasing situations he had enough,.He was a cop in our town and my husband and I had a few fights early inour marriage plus my daughter was raped and he was the case leader.I think he is worried more about his image then his family(me)should I persue him over the next few months.I tried inviting him and his family for christmas no response again..I dont even know what I did?
2007-01-04 21:02:22 · 7 answers · asked by karen e 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
seems you 're to old to get away with murder !
my wife has the same problem w/ her sister.
doesn't speak for 2 yrs. then out of the blue wants to come and visit ??
they say blood 's thicker than water but some water is sewerage!
let him go. (advise i gave my wife too)
you never going to change him, sorry to say !
2007-01-04 21:09:06 · answer #1 · answered by Deprie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's very sad that your brother would do that to you. Him being your older brother he should be there to protect you and on top of that he is the protector of your town. If he feels this way let him be for a while. It maybe that he is going threw a hard time right now and with time things might change. It's not easy being a cop and when they have family members with negative files in the system it makes it that much harder. Give him time and if time isn't enough for him to come around let him know your home is always open for him.
2007-01-04 21:20:34 · answer #2 · answered by quel772o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am so sorry for you. obviously he is very upset about something and personally i would just give him some time and then maybe try to contact him again. if he does the same thing again, you may have to let it ride, even though it would be very upsetting. maybe another sibling or family member would be able to find out the problem. hope this helps
2007-01-04 21:11:45 · answer #3 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 20:46:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad to say, but it is time to let go. It probably has nothing to do with what you have done or your family; just his ability to cope with life and problems in general, which is not within your control. None of us can chose are relatives...it is like "Forrest Gump" and like a box of chocolates and we get what we get and don't throw a fit, but accept that chocholate covered cherries are not to our liking either, accept it and move on...do you get what I am saying?
2007-01-04 21:06:57 · answer #5 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends.. perhaps he does not want to be responsible for you and your family again.. just let him be and make a better life for yourself and your family.. perhaps one day he'll see u differently
2007-01-04 21:32:17 · answer #6 · answered by msweets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best thing time will tell all dont stop life over him
2007-01-04 21:05:50 · answer #7 · answered by Dana F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋