I gave birth to my first son 10/4/92. I hemmoraged from placento abrupto. I was on morphine for ten days. I was sent home with my precious baby with mega drug refills. I became hooked on hydrocodine which is my own fault. I began calling in my own refills acking like I was a nurse. I am appauled at my behavior but because of this I have been on probation for 14 years. It's killing me. I'm due to get of in 07 but this probation thing has taking a big time toll on my life. I have tried two times to get out of this world...didn't work. I really need some help but not pitty. Who do I talk to?
2007-01-04 15:53:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You are almost done - congratulations. While there is not likely anything you can do to speed up the end, you can put this time to good use. Make plans about what you want to do when it is over. Save money for a celebration if you can. Be sure to stay on the straight and narrow until you have the papers that say you are totally free. Hang in there.
Peace!
PS - don't beat yourself up at your earlier behavior. We go through dramatic changes in our journey into parenthood and it sometimes makes us do things we would not ordinarily do. The past is behind you and likely the time you spent on probation will turn out to be an important time for you. I know that when I look back on the problems I feel I've had in my life I can very often see that it was a necessary detour to help me in the long run.
2007-01-04 15:57:56 · answer #1 · answered by carole 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There should be a Distress Centre or Crisis Centre near you that you can call 24 hours for referrals and confidential/annonymous councelling. It sounds like it's a big problem for you, so it may be a good idea to actually go and see a professional face to face. I know a lot of ppl are against seeing a social worker/crisis councellor/psychologist, etc. but they are your best bet for referrals to organizations, and they have the best options...that's what they're there for! check your phone book for councelling, or even call the nearest hospital b/c they always have a psychologist or social worker there waiting. I'm 100% sure you won't be admitted if you aren't suicidal. They are great to talk to...seriously...if not for yourself, then for your family. good luck
2007-01-04 16:00:24 · answer #2 · answered by way_2_short84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first of all you do need to talk to someone qualified to help you through this. A counselor is a must. No reason to be afraid. Find a good one and go. Then keep all appointments with him or her. Finally when the counselor tells you no need for a next appointment......enjoy life. One more thing......no more drugs......all you need is your baby.
2007-01-04 16:01:38 · answer #3 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go talk to a Psychologist, there should be some in your town that base the charges on your income, you might even be able to get help for free. Or you could always go talk to a Preacher or priest. Talk to your family Dr. and see what he recommends.
Good Luck
2007-01-04 15:58:39 · answer #4 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't see if you can find a local church that offers counseling or a program for young women having difficult times? If you can find a good church with some loving, supportive people who know how to pray, it would be the best thing for you. Jesus can turn your life around. Believe me, I know.
2007-01-04 15:57:17 · answer #5 · answered by beautifulchaos4me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DFACS (department of family and children services. To come take your baby away. Or maybe someone else can call for you if it's too hard for you to do, yep, just tell a stranger all about it so they can get your license plate and the police can find you and drag you downtown while your screaming baby is being taken away to someone else. Jeez....idiots
2007-01-04 16:00:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
go seek some perfesoinal help. talk to your Doctor & he will point you in the right direction. are you still using? if so, find a relable person to take your baby & check your self into rehab. it helps alot! make sure to tell them everything you have told us so they know how to help you. some of them us blocking pills so even if you use, it will not do anything. i hope you get the help you need!
2007-01-04 16:02:33 · answer #7 · answered by rblankenship_rblankenship 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not like the answer, but please talk to Jesus. I believe there are a few good Christians or a church near you...start there. Do not expect a perfect person but rather expect an understanding and loving helper that Jesus will send your way.
2007-01-04 16:02:57 · answer #8 · answered by Tommy M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A counsler! You are going to have major problems without talking to somebody! Quick! Poor baby to have a drugged mother!
2007-01-04 15:56:00 · answer #9 · answered by Sofia H 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You need to find professional help.
Good Luck to you And I pray that you will find your peace
2007-01-04 15:57:36 · answer #10 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋