So our maid was accused of stealing by my mother. Don't get me wrong, but our maid is really nice and she wouldn't steal a penny.
Now my mom, right now I just want to hurt her because everytime she loses money, she accuses our maid. There was even a time she accused me, but I DIDN'T steal her money. Then there was this time where she accused my cousin, maid and other maid for stealing and it turns out the money was in her bag all along.
Now today, 2 people could have been the suspect. My cousin (mom's fave) and our maid. But the only person she's suspecting is our maid, and our maid even started sobbing because she really didn't do it. And I KNOW you really couldn't trust my cousin, but my mom doesn't know that...
What will you say to your mom if you were in a situation like this? What words will you say to slap some sense to your mom and make her REALLY FEEL SORRY for what she did?
2007-01-04 23:13:49 · 7 answers · asked by Galadriel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
To me, your mom sounds like she is a tad forgetful and very much malicious. I don't know how old she is, but is it possible she's experiencing memory loss or paranoia? I have a feeling your maid will be leaving your mom's employ soon if this keeps up.
Remind your mom that she's 'lost' money in the past, that the maid was not to blame, and that she is looking foolish by making unfounded accusations all around. She may also need to speak with her doctor, in case this is the early sign of other disorders or illnesses.
Maybe Santa stole the money for crying out loud!
2007-01-04 23:18:02 · answer #1 · answered by The_Cookie_Goddess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is Mom really losing this money or do you think she is in the early stages of Alzheimer's disease? My Grandma was accusing people,fighting with them and then we found money in the garbage can.
So your Mom needs a check up pronto.. there is nothing to cure it but they might have something that can at least slow it down for awhile.
2007-01-04 23:18:36 · answer #2 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you heard the maid was suing her for slander and ask her if she's ABSOLUTELY sure she couldn't have been mistaken because she'll have to pay out megabucks if the court rules against her
2007-01-04 23:17:57 · answer #3 · answered by SteveT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW. that is really unfair!!!!!
heres what you sould say:
" mom i don't think it's fair that you always accuse the maid of stealing. every time you accuse her it always turns out that she didn't do it. i think that if you REALLY think she did you should ask her swar that didn't do it. and she even started SOPING. and it's kinda hard to accuse someone so much that she starts soping!!! and someone like HER she would NEVER sop! but now look! that just proves that she didn't do it."
2007-01-04 23:20:25 · answer #4 · answered by Morgy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey little lady, better call Scotland Yard!!!
2007-01-04 23:16:21 · answer #5 · answered by smokindoggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her your question and all the answers you got. Good luck!
2007-01-05 00:31:51 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a butler she would like that.
2007-01-04 23:16:15 · answer #7 · answered by spud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋