My husband and I have been married for 2 1/2 years and been together for 3 years. My husband parents have been divorced for a long time. My father in law seemed to like me when we where dating but shortly after my husband and I got married he started telling my husband that I had been hanging out a lot with my brother in laws and a gay cousin this is true. He accused me of cheating on my husband with my brother in laws and gay cousin and called me a whore. My husband wasn't home at the time he was deployed I could see how that came across in a bad way...but come on they are my Brother in laws. Anyway I later learned that my father in law and his other siblings didn't agree of anyone that wasn't there own blood. 2 of my brother in laws are not blood related they are my husband step brothers. All of my husband’s family except my 3 brother in laws and one uncle and aunt and cousin and mother in law are the only ones that really talk to us.
2007-01-05 09:25:26 · 3 answers · asked by LuLu 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
During the past 2 1/2 years all that my father in law and his other siblings have done is try to cause problems between my husband and me. We have gotten in several arguments and we have disowned them. My husbands little brother is going to get married soon. He has invited us to his wedding and we want to attend but we are afraid that if we do make an appearance that my father in law and his siblings will try to cause problems and we don’t want to ruin my brother in laws wedding. In the other hand I want to attend just to show them that we aren’t afraid of them and that we are happily married…we will not cause trouble all we would simply do is ignore them and enjoy the wedding.
I really don’t know what to do about this situation… PLEASE HELP! What do you guys think I should do?
2007-01-05 09:26:04 · update #1
You gave your own answer. Just ignore them...try to keep away from them. Be civil, but if they try to start something, don't address the issue...don't even answer any issue they try to create...just walk away.
2007-01-05 09:50:23 · answer #1 · answered by mottthedog 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its your husbands younger brother that is getting married.....its his day and the brides.
Stop reverse the roles and think about it being your special day....................
You know your Father in law and you know his attitude, this would just give him the opportunity to make a stance and truly put you on the spot.
I wouldn't want to be the spot light on someones special day.
I think I would send a nice gift and offer to together with them for a special dinner to celebrate. Make a phone call and tell them that you really would like to attend but due to the circumstances you think it would be better to sit this one out. They will tell you its alright....but again....think....they are being polite.
You should to....by remembering its their day.
New beginnings shouldn't be the build on a family feud.
I would stand this one out and wait for a better time....
2007-01-05 17:37:09 · answer #2 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jerry springer......JERRY JERRY ..JERRY
2007-01-05 17:30:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋