Ok, my mom told me she's taking me to a child physcyatrist. But I don't need one. She came into my room one day and I was listening to Bullet for my Valentine, and wearing a black shirt with black jeans. She must think I'm going goth or something but I'm not. It's just who I am ok? I've been to them before, but they've always gotten mad at me and kicked us out. She's worried about me for no reason! And it's really annoying. How can I tell her there's nothing wrong with me?
2007-01-05 08:08:13 · 14 answers · asked by NinjaSquirrel 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
why dont you talk to your mom and find out the real reason she keeps sending you to therapy. Dont yell at her either, have a civil conversation so she will take it seriously, and not just as teenage angst or something like that. and if the reason really is because youre 'goth' or whatnot, then maybe your mom is one of those old fashioned conservative types and you should tone it down when youre around her house. That doesnt mean change who you are, because your clothes shouldnt make who you are anyway. But i doubt thats really the underlying reason shes sending you to psychs. just talk to her.
2007-01-05 08:11:53 · answer #1 · answered by idbangrobertplant 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not the look it is the behavior. You probably seem depressed. I don’t know much about “Goth” but many of those kids seem weird to me. what are they angry at? I am a preppy nerd by appearance, but it is so much sh!t in this world that gets on my nerves you would be amazed. The secret is I know there are not many happy people out there despite how phoney they all seem. A lot of stuff is start f-upped. It does not matter if it is rich poor, white black, or whatever. It is messed up for everybody. So I really just look out for me. No need for me to worry about other folks, do stuff to myself to say f-u to everyone else. I just go through life a look at the lie so many folks are living.
2007-01-05 08:52:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no longer believing in God does no longer make you a undesirable guy or woman. Homeschooling could be a undesirable thought, yet i do no longer understand in the experience that your mothers and fathers must be persuaded of that. you're a minor and based on your mothers and fathers so your strategies are quite limited, yet my suggestion could be that, once you're nonetheless attending public college, attempt speaking with a instructor or your college counselor approximately this. i won't be able to truly enable you recognize if which will make issues greater beneficial or worse yet you sound such as you're between a rock and a tricky place, right here. in spite of the shown fact which you ought to attempt explaining the form you experience on your mothers and fathers, and emphasize that at the same time as you have an interest in gaining information of technology and are skeptical of religion, you nonetheless love them and don't think of evolutionary concept is satanic in any admire. you ought to attempt telling them that if Newton's concept of gravity does no longer justify leaping off a bridge than Darwin's concept of evolution does no longer justify absolutely everyone appearing "beastly".
2016-12-12 04:41:53 · answer #3 · answered by trip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know that! Tell as many times as it takes for her to listen. I was like that to I wanted to paint my room black once and my parents thought I was going crazy. It was just a thing I went threw nothing big about it. Your mom shouldn't jump the gun just because of the clothes you wear and music you listen to.
2007-01-05 09:05:57 · answer #4 · answered by sexysweet2589 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She your mother, it's her job to worry about you and yes it is really annoying but being a son and a now a Dad I can see both side now. So go a tell her what you just told us. But you have tell her the right way. You have to be calm, no attitude in your voice, honest and tell her everything. You also have to listen to your mother and her concerns and address them..
Good Luck
2007-01-05 08:18:00 · answer #5 · answered by David 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is your mom and if going to talk to someone will make her happy then just do it. Believe it or not everyone needs someone to talk to even if it is about nothing. Why do they get mad at you ? Sit down and talk with your mom. Let her know how you feel. Having someone you can talk to has to be nice. I keep everything bottled up inside me and only talk to the lord.
2007-01-05 08:13:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to prove you do not need a psychiatrist, is to go see him and he will convey it to your mom. If you don't need him it will be obvious to him!
But...sounds to me if you got kicked out of therapy before, you probably need to be going. But that's just a thought.
2007-01-05 08:14:38 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can not make you talk with anyone if you do not want to. Just tell her you are not going and if she forces you it will be a waste of time because you will not cooperate.
2007-01-05 08:20:57 · answer #8 · answered by badmikey4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your mom that you are not goth, that this is you, you like the color and style and tell her that you are glad she is looking out for you but that there is nothing wrong.
2007-01-05 08:48:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she wants to get and know you more is there alot of love between you and your mom all you have todo is open up to her and talk to her about every thing you are going through
2007-01-05 08:12:34 · answer #10 · answered by timothy e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋