My little brother ,who is 12, is looking at porn now...is that normal??

Question

also should i tell my parents or no??

Answer 1

He is probably going through puberty and sexual intensions and all. Its pretty normal for this. Its like masturbating somehow., For personal pleasure, usually a person would feel guilty or emabarred after this so at that moment you should try talking to him. By telling your parents you'll probably create a bigger problem for your bro and your family. He's going through a phase right now and you can help him a lot. Explain to him more about his puberty and changes and avoid the parent fact because parents will probably take this ting too far. But if your brother doesn't stop after a very serious converstaion and understanding than talk to the softer hearted and forgiving parent to resolve this situation. GOOD LUCK!:):):)))))))

Answer 2

I would not tell your parents because they might over react...that would not be good....just let him know that porn is pretty much fantasy...and having a real relationship with a girl one day will be a big turn on and that women need to be respected...and that the reason there is porn out there is so people can make money off others...how sad...maybe if he understood how hurtful and degrading it is for women to earn money that way he might look at it less

Answer 3

There are things your little brother is just becoming aware of, and I think all young boys would be interested in porn, but that does not make it okay. For him to want to look is NORMAL but not HEALTHY. He is developing his view of women, and looking at porn is not a good way to do this. You do need to tell your parents so they can block his access and keep closer tabs on him.

Answer 4

It's normal, and I doubt his friends held his eyelids open and forced him to look. Don't tell, all boys take at least a few peeks at porn, and have been doing it for generations. If you have to have a chat, do be the cool big sister, but warn him to be careful about a couple things, like substituting porn for the real thing, and catching computer viruses, or whatever. After all porn is anything but realistic, so a little balance (not too much) is called for. Parents tend to get all emotional and upset about their kids and anything sexual, so don't tell on him, it wouldn't be any help to him for the situation to get to be trauma drama.

Answer 5

You don't necessarily have to tell your parents. But someone has to step in and talk to him. Sexual curiosity, and lets face it, "horniness", is normal... especially at that age. But looking at porn can be very misleading to a young person as far as what sex is supposed to be like. He will probably figure out on his own that not all women like to be tied up (or whatever weird fetish he may see online or in magazines) but what if he doesn't. A lot of people tend to learn a certain sense of sexual disrespect for other people from watching porn.

Answer 6

First, Where is the cp? Have it out in a room where ppl are, like the livingroom and everyone can see the monitor. Porn is too easy for kids to get at. Maybe you can talk to your parents about it and they would know what to do and your brother would never know it was you who told.

Answer 7

Your brother at that age should not have that kind of internet access. Yes, tell your parents and have them put parental blocks on his pc.

Answer 8

I'd say that he's just using what may be being placed in front of him.

Where is he getting porn though? I can see curiousity being bnormal, but wonder about further things.

Answer 9

Yes,tell your parents.

Answer 10

Leave the kid alone. Its his business not yurs. If a big deal is made of it,he will think hes doing something wrong and it will affect him later in life feeling like sex is a dirty bad thing that you should hide or be ashamed of.