Family - January 2007

My neighbor is so nice, and she just lost her husband to lung cancer that spread into his brain. He passed away the day after Christmas. At the wake, she told me she wanted me to visit her, and I told her I'd be glad to! I love spending time with her and her family. Everyone I know in her family is just so sweet, I feel like they are my family, because my family on my dad's side is mean to me.
Anyways, when I go visit her, what topics should I stick to while conversing with her?

Thanks!

God Bless Everyone!<3

God bless everyone =]

2007-01-06 12:16:11 · 5 answers · asked by Sally 3

I am so angry at her for her ignorance. She caught her boyfriend cheating, so she left him and moved all of her belongings home. Well. she was misreable, so she moved back in with her cheating, drunk boyfriend and left her clothes behind. I am so angry at her. She turned 19 today. She has no job, no car, no money, not hardly able to support herself and I need her to grow up a little. Should I burn her clothes or bag them up and toss them in the basement? I feel like she uses my goodness and then craps all over me when her boyfriend comes around.

2007-01-06 12:12:34 · 13 answers · asked by happydawg 6

I found out that my dad watches porn and he cheated on my mom and he mentally abuses me and he lies ALL the time about stupid stuff that makes no difference if he lied about it or not. He's already pushed my 12 year old brother down twice. Should I worry that he might hurt me some day?

2007-01-06 11:39:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Father died 3 months ago and my Mother is now 90 years old. She sometimes wants to stay in her home by herself. She changes her mind a lot. I want her to move to and Independent Retirement Community near her church and friends -- especially since her neighborhood is extremely dangerous, with gangs roaming the streets, and where there was an attempted break-in at her house. She sees the dangers and tentatively agreed, but my sister-in-law convinced her she should stay there alone anyway. Now my Mother thinks I'm trying to "put her in a home" and thinks she can safely stay at her home. (Everyone except my sister-in-law and brother agree with me that the independent living place would be best.) I've been beating my head against a brick wall and getting no where. I've decided to just let them have their way, but I worry about my Mother's safety and her loneliness. Any suggestions about how to deal with this situation?

2007-01-06 11:18:37 · 20 answers · asked by selfgovt 1

i am a single mum with three children who i live for 24/7 and people say this isnt healthy! why not? i decided to have children and i am taking this responsibility. if my children are happy and so am i isnt that ok?

2007-01-06 11:16:09 · 21 answers · asked by flubberlubberlubber 4

Everybody always says "blood is thicker than water" and that "you only get one mother", and all that jazz - I'm wondering if there is something terribly wrong with me. I'm in my mid 20s and since about the age of 10 I've felt dislike and hatred towards my mother.

I don't really want to get into all of the reasons why, but she is very mentally abusive, ignorant, and hateful to everybody around her. She has no respect for anybody and emotinally behaves like a child.

I should probably be asking a shrink this question, but is it wrong of me to hate the woman that gave birth to me? Is there anybody else out there that feels negative emotions towards their mother?

2007-01-06 11:04:50 · 59 answers · asked by Lily M 2

im 30 this yr and am hoping 2 go 2 florida. im just wondering if my daughter would b ok with the flight and whole american experience??? xx

2007-01-06 10:44:50 · 25 answers · asked by trout 2

My husband wants to see his Dad;he hasn't seen him since he was 4 yrs. of age. He is 33 now. His dad lived in Broocklin NY.

2007-01-06 10:37:12 · 2 answers · asked by claudia a 1

ok my brother-inlaw said he was going to quit smoking so he wanted to chew tabacco and now he's smoking and chewing which i think chewing is the most discusting thing anyone can do what's wrong with him

2007-01-06 10:31:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think my cousin likes my step-brother she has commented on his good looks and she said well if he wasnt your brother i would do him any day. (Their age difference is 2 years) He is 17 she is 15. IS this illegal or not? I live in Canada. And I think they have kissed before.

2007-01-06 10:31:25 · 7 answers · asked by Haley 2

I am a Jew. My father is a billionaire and he has an arms company and he is a shareholder in the British American Tobacco company. I am helping my father run the company.

One of the investers in our company asked me, "what do you say to the critics who compare the tobacco industry to alcohol?".

This is what I answered.
"I say uh uh. I'm rubber and they are glue and anything they say bounces off me and sticks to a ......dam."

I think I answered clearly. What do you guys think?

I think that these American and Saudi investors are racist.
My father is a Saudi, muslim. My brother and 4 sisters are muslim. Only my mom and me are jew. The only muslims I like are my sisters. I hate my father. My father and all muslims and Americans are racist.

My answer was intellectually superior to all the other answers. It had depth. This is a plot by the American-Islamic Alliance. And they want me to marry a muslim. I will if my sisters tell me only. I only love my sisters and my mom.

2007-01-06 10:24:40 · 6 answers · asked by Mr Business 3

My BEST FRIENDS parents fight ALL the tim eand right in front of her they got divorced when she was 2 and married again when she was 11....what can i say when she asks me what she could do to stop them from fighting RIGHT in front of her???? PLZZ help

2007-01-06 10:22:39 · 12 answers · asked by The girl who needs help??!! 1

my brother is always in and out of jobs he can never seem to stay at one for more than a few months and its driving his gf insane..... he always seems to arque with the manangers or decide its not for him... but hes been in so many jobs now nothing is for him??? anyone have any advice on how i can help them resolve this as i love both of them but thes a big strain on the relationship now.......

2007-01-06 09:59:15 · 27 answers · asked by cheekie_manda2004 1

for who has been there for you, teased you, protective, and deep down loves you. like to go with a slideshow of our childhood pictures

2007-01-06 09:45:03 · 8 answers · asked by nanabe 4

i hate where i am living which is birmingham in england. i wish i could move cities or even countries because there are so many bad memories in this place. so the first chance i get im outta here but unfortunately thats like in 3 or 4 years for me and only if i go to uni? anyone know any faster ways i can escape????????

X...x15 yr old girl UKx...X

2007-01-06 09:39:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm a 19 year old student, i left home last summer because i no longer get on with my grandparents and their son, my uncle is someone who i feel has many issues for example he gave his brother a wound which required stitches for drinking out of HIS cup, over the summer he threw me on the floor for sitting in HIS chair, he has never had a girlfriend and freaks out at the mention of sex, he once hung up on my ex deliberately because "i dont speak to your gf"yet we've caught him watching porn in the living room, anyway my grandparents constantly support him despite the fact he threatens violence recent examples include threatening me with the police for using my own video player which gave me and taking it to uni, and to beat me up for using HIS shower time and moving HIS toothbrush, and he insults myself and my mother and all of this is driving me mad its making me feel ill i stay up all night to be alone, when i sleep i don't get any rest i wake up feeling just the same i'm going nuts

2007-01-06 09:27:46 · 27 answers · asked by Mike C 1

i'm 18, i mine myself (meaning i support myself financially) and i live with my father, i got a bf about 3 months ago, and i started sleeping out by him, my father does not appriciate that , which is understandable but, i don't see why not, now i live in the caribbean, so things an 18 yr old can do in the USA etc, we 18yr olds cant do down here, but i finish school and going back to get higher level ed, i don't see why i cant sleep out! And now he's not talkin to me.

2007-01-06 09:25:10 · 5 answers · asked by ducky 2

2007-01-06 09:19:52 · 18 answers · asked by gatorgurl503 1

My mom and I have never really gotten along. We have our days, but they're few. I'm just trying to figure out what I can do to make her accept me more. No matter what I do, its wrong. I've never tried to drink or smoke. I've never done drugs. I'm still a virgin, but she thinks I'm a whore. Today she got mad at me because I handed her a clothes hanger with dust on it... I dont look at it and inspect its quality... but she yelled at me because the dust got on my NJROTC uniform and she had just washed it for me. I told her it would be fine because the dust would come off... and she threw it at me.
Honestly, I dont realy know if I care anymore... to her I'm lazy (but I clean the house without her asking), I'm a whore (when I'm a virgin), I'm a toublemaker when I've never even had a teacher yell at me more or less been to the office or in detention.
my question is... what can I do to make her see who I am and not who she thinks I am?

2007-01-06 09:15:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok my step mom is crazy! she cuts my clothes up and she keyed my range rover, my sisters also. she is only 24 years old my dad is 51 he is usually not home b/c of his work! i need revenge ideas! please help

2007-01-06 09:05:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parent completly wont let me have a life! I need advice on how to deal with them.

2007-01-06 08:54:45 · 15 answers · asked by Cassy B 1

2 of my kids paid over 1,000 usd to rent a house on a river for a 4 day holiday...19 family members were there....this one began being a pain in the you know what.....left without so much as a bye or a thank you.....hate to disturb a family over one but should she be asked back?

2007-01-06 08:54:42 · 5 answers · asked by Gypsygrl 5

My step sister is 10 almost turning 11 and she is so immiture.
I only live with her on the weekends and I can barely take it!
She steals my stuff and gets away with it because she never leaves any evidence and I already asked my dad to but security cameras in my room.He said no.I can't put a lock on my door because my step mom has to put her clothes in my closet.
My step sister never believed in anything like santa or the easter bunny and that probally ruined her spirits.Also, I am 12 so we are kind of close in age like 1 in a half years so my family says we should get along great.She acts like a immiture,mean,rude, 8 year old.I am always nice to her even though she yells at me.She treats me like I am younger than her.And the worst part is, she thinks I like her and she yells and screams at my step mom and my dad.My dad wants to tell her to stop and punnish her but my step mom won't let him.So, she gets to keep yelling.I could go on forever but I can't so,How can I get her back

2007-01-06 08:43:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I miss my sister in law very very much, we send each other e-mails nearly everyday and we will hopefully see eachother in a couple of months.. but.. I feel like im missing her too much.. Sometimes I even CRY.. I love her lots.. what can I do about this? Please help!

2007-01-06 08:34:54 · 17 answers · asked by ♥HELLO♥ 2

2007-01-06 08:32:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister and i are having a major prank weekend we've each pulled 2-3 pranks on eachother at this point...but I have no more ideas, if you have some ideas for a prank i could pull on my older sister plz start typin. But under these conditions....They cant make a mess, they cant hurt her REALLy bad. PLZ HELP!

2007-01-06 08:25:47 · 13 answers · asked by LaLaLie<3 2

Ok my brother is 6 years old, and me and my mom r trying to teach him how to tie his shoes but hes just not... getting it. he gets really distracted and stuff and its hard to get him to focus. my mom is always saying that it wasnt hard for me to learn how. but whatever
just dose any one have any ideas on how to get my brother to learn cuz my brother wont listen to his 14 year old sister.

2007-01-06 08:23:57 · 3 answers · asked by Truth be told. 2

father wants child, cost mother left him for her mother to raise

2007-01-06 07:55:43 · 10 answers · asked by crystal b 2

Is he my nephew, nephew-in-law, or something else?

2007-01-06 07:53:10 · 7 answers · asked by Amy S 2

Okay... I'm desperately in need of a girlfriend. Sometimes I feel like I wanna date my adopted sister. Is it wrong? I mean it's not like we're blood relatives or anything. She's adopted. So that couldn't be called incest, right? Or wrong?

2007-01-06 07:14:56 · 45 answers · asked by Chichiri 1