Family - January 2007

My niece who is 15 years old just told me that she was bisexual. On several occasions my sister and I have encouraged her to talk out her feeling with us. I have, in the past, promised her that I would not tell her mom what we talk about. I just feel that if it were my child I would want to know as soon as possible. At the same time I feel that I should not betray her trust in me.

2007-01-07 03:47:34 · 18 answers · asked by Karmy 2

my mum is always critisising everything i do and is always unhappy with me and its put me under a lot of pressure because shes always wanting more and more from me, and she hardly ever praises me. but the thing is the more she pushes me the more i want to rebel and she also doesnt give me much freedome in her despertion to force me to do my school work.. shes even taken away my phone and credit card and reguraly takes my internet cable.. she honestly expects me to sit at my desk 247.. i feel she is trying to take over my life instead of letting me do as i wish and learnin from my mistakes. and i am old enough to spot so many flaws in her parenting skills and i know i dont realy have a right to critisise my own mother but its just realy obvious where she is going wrong and i also really dont want to end up like her. its made my relationship with my mum really bad and i cant walk with her on the street without us having an arguement.

2007-01-07 03:28:13 · 17 answers · asked by it's me 2

2007-01-07 03:26:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

abusing me

2007-01-07 03:23:19 · 18 answers · asked by Elizabeth B 2

Family searching for "Josh" Joshua James Anders.. We would greatly appreciate any suggestions on finding missing family members. Thank you for your time. God bless you. princesssarahchild@yahoo.com

2007-01-07 02:47:47 · 5 answers · asked by princesssarahchild@yahoo.com 1

The rest of my family keep putting keep putting tacky crap on my mums grave, ie scoobies,10 fairies, hand painted flower pots etc etc. it as got a mess what do i do. I'm my mums yougest son i have two older brother and an older sister.

2007-01-07 02:42:45 · 13 answers · asked by jenkins355@btinternet.com 1

if bad things happen to you, you tend to blame someone, blame your parent is one of your choice, when you tired of blaming yourself every minute, hours, and day and what what i'm supposed to do when i feel nothing good in me can make me proud

2007-01-07 02:37:05 · 9 answers · asked by grumpy kid 1

About a month ago my father passed away. He owned several apartments and one house where he lived. He bought the house under my name (he told me before that he wanted me to have the house) several years ago.

His current wife (2nd wife), who did not even live in the house came here after his death and is not leaving. He asked to stay for a month, but now she is saying that it's her house and she is not planning to leave.

I am trying to be reasonable in letting her stay in the house in memory of my dad, now now I want her out.

I would like to be civil and would not like to avoid big scenes, but at this point I see no other options.

I was thinking of changing locks while she is out and not letting her in. Or telling her to get out by certain date (but I am afraid she will steal everything she can from the house).

What should I do? Please help!

2007-01-07 02:17:51 · 23 answers · asked by tutubien 2

Ok I got a situation here. I'm 22yrs old and a Christian that has a forgiving heart. I live with my parents for now and I go to college. I

I haven't been going to this one church my mom goes to. She hates it and threatens to cut me off financially and transportation wise.

I would go to other churches (Christian ones) but not this one.

WHY? Because A year ago in August through the spring of 2006, the people there conned me, back stabbed me and did not support me at all since I was a rape victim.(Don't worry I received counseling and he's in jail and healed from it.)

I decided not to go to that specific church anymore. Yeah I forgive them but I just don't want to go anymore, I feel my rep is ruined and not very comfortable.

Does my mom have the right to act this way? She doesn't know the real reasons why I don't want to go.

She calls me mentally ill just because I don't want to go to that church and that's the wrong behavior to take.

Suggestions please and fast?

2007-01-07 01:39:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

my father love's me so much that he just can't live without me. if i stay out from home with some friends he become so much sad that sometime he started crying. Next year i am going to England to complete my studies and i just don't know what should i do. i also love him very much. but i don't get so much sad and i can't see him like this.

2007-01-07 01:31:09 · 6 answers · asked by usman_ali_d 1

2007-01-07 00:33:50 · 7 answers · asked by paulos n 1

2007-01-07 00:29:39 · 22 answers · asked by yahoo girl! 1

I brought my mother to live with me two years ago and found what ever i do can't please her she is so bad tempered i don.t think i can cope with her much longer HELP

2007-01-07 00:23:41 · 27 answers · asked by cuppi 1

2007-01-06 23:50:39 · 32 answers · asked by karen i 5

ok so i live with my bf, and weve lived 2gether 4 a while now. he is very obsessed with me, he tells me things like he couldnt live without me or he would kill himself if i ever left him. these things scre me alot cuz he hits me and yells at me, we were going to have a baby but then i miscarried, so there is no child in this matter(thank god). the last time he hit me was last night and i cant leave the house cuz he doesnt want anybody to see my bruses. when i wear short sleeves i usually cover them with my hair(its past my knees) i cant cut my hair cuz of my culture(my mom and dad are native american). when he hits me and im on the floor he pulls me by my hair, he wont let me leave and makes me have sex with him.i cant get away. my friends dont know about him doing this to me and neither does my family. i cant talk on the phone without his supervision, and i'm treated like a baby my family let me move in with him cuz they trusted him, i want out what can i do?

2007-01-06 23:47:32 · 22 answers · asked by chahta oklah 1

My grandmother is 92 and still lives at home alone. In the past few months shes needed a bit more support and has a carer from social services pop in twice a day. once in the morning to help her dress and get breakfast and once at lunchtime. She is close contact with my dad , and my parents do her shopping and take care of anything else might need. Yesterday she fell and hurt herself, the hospital allowed her home and my dad spent the rest of the day with her. she fell again this morning n is back in the hospital. shes a very independant, proud woman and needing to go to a care home would be totally soul destroying for her. My parents are unable to give up their jobs to care for her full time, and her other son takes little interest in her although he and his wife are both not working. I would have her come to live with us if we had a spare room but we dont.
my question is, will social services be liklyto be willing to up her home care a little? or will they insist she go to a

2007-01-06 23:22:02 · 12 answers · asked by serephina 5

My grandmother (who has just turned 81) gained a daughter in law in 1993 when her son married. Since then (and more especially now as they have two children) she has shown no appreication towards my grandmother (despite my grandmother letting her live in our holiday home and we looking after their farm in Wales). Should my grandmother simply state that we would like some appreciation?

2007-01-06 23:07:21 · 6 answers · asked by Harry Hayfield 6

the only way we found out was doing a search of the obits...It says he is survived by a son, well he had no son, it said that arrangements would be made at a later date...his ex live in lover is listed as his son...does this sound really strange?....I guess he could have adopted the lover who supposedly got back together with him at the end and cared for him yet it also says he died at a local hospice facility...does this sound fishy?...I know he was a man of means...I don't want or expect any $, neither does my husband, but he was somewhat close to my brother in law and I can not imagine him not remembering him in his will...what do you think?....any info would help...thanks

2007-01-06 22:48:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

how much should my sons father be paying? he never takes him overnight and has him for 5 hours on a sunday. my son has swimming, karate and golf lessons which costs me a fortune (i'm not complaining) surely this is to be taken to account too?? hes gave me the same amount for 4 years and i dont think its enough.

2007-01-06 22:10:05 · 15 answers · asked by shonkamur 3

I have a step son and i have been in his life for 5 years now, and he still treats me like crap most of the time. He is only 8, but he is so very mouthy to me and his dad, and he doesn't listen to what I say and when I do tell him to do something and he gets mad he screams and yells like a girl and cries like a baby. and he has started with the "your not my mom" thing and I knew that was gonna come someday I just thought it would be much later in life. I love this kid so much, but the way he treats me sometimes I think... is this all worth it??? I love his dad unconditonally, and it scares me to think I would leave b/c of his son, but a person is only capable of so much...I need real advice, not smart comments, please help

2007-01-06 21:56:23 · 19 answers · asked by suelynn_99_99 1

2007-01-06 21:52:46 · 25 answers · asked by CHARISMA 5

2007-01-06 21:32:04 · 12 answers · asked by Ellie W 3

This black guy at my school really likes me (and i was absolutly flattered). But when i told my dad he made a racist comment that really bothered me. He said " the darker they are the least you can trust them!". How can i make him stop? without saying it rudely

2007-01-06 21:13:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my sister are unceperable (both15) & she had some drug problems when she was only 12 - 13, But i got her to stop. And now I just recently moved with my dad. And ever since i left she has been doing exctasy and shrooms on a regular basis (every weekend), and she even laughs about it when i confront her. What do i do? im not there anymore so..

2007-01-06 21:00:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my mom have been arguing really bad over the course of 1 year, due to her over exaggeration and parenting skills. Ex: she'd rather go spend $400 on her hair extensions instead of food fer me and my sister. So, i finally got fed up with it and left. But then again i wasnt the best to her either. Now, im living with my dad, and he does everything for me, but its sucha a change from a little hick town to the big city. And i miss my sisters, friends and my bf. What do i do. Should i stay living with my dad and get a better education ect, or go back to my mom and be able to be with my family and friends?

2007-01-06 20:48:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

people and my family hate me so much becaus they think i am too pround for them. i really never feel proud and abuse them. i am just calm and helper. i always help them eg buying sodas for them but they never say thank you...... i work clean my home everyday but they said i am very lazy... i pay water and light for my family but they said i am selfish..... i also help poor people to eat and clothes.

i never be with them because they always shout at me for nothing and even fight with me. they said i am first spoiling all the family. all my extended family hate me even i have no friends they hate me........and my neighbours hate me......... i do not know why they hate me............ i have another friends are christians at my church they are okay they always say i am very calm, very nice and very beautiful girl.

i have boyfriend he even hates me i have two kids from him. i decide to leave him and wait until marriage. i like playing with my kids only. they love me .

i'm deaf

2007-01-06 20:43:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Myfamily hates my mom put me up for adoption when i was really little and i was seperated froom my twin brother cameron. ihave been wondering whats going on in his life.if anybody can help me i sure could use it right now.I feel ike killing myself

2007-01-06 19:44:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My gf and i recently got engaged. We want to get married sometime next year but we haven't set a date. Her parents are saying she is too young to think about getting married and say that we both need to finish school and start our carriers first before we should even talk about marriage. I have a job that pays pretty well and supporting us wouldn't be a problem, we do both go to school because we have goals, but our goals have become each others goals. We are not selfish, and put either of our needs before the others. I am 21 and she is 19, so yes we are young but thats not the point, what i am trying to ask is how do i try to get her parents consent for the marriage. They tell her she should wait untill she is around 26. I know we can get married now if we chose to but it would mean a lot to both of us, especially her if her parents supported our decision. I know that they are just trying to ensure a good future for her. Bottom line is we will get married, just how can we get support?

2007-01-06 18:59:48 · 10 answers · asked by ss2gohan03 2

I am a father of 18 yr old daughter who has been playing an online game and thru this game she has made friends all over the world.no problem. Lately she has been talking alot online and offline with one particular boy who is 3000 miles away and they talk for hours about nothing and on some days he calls every five minutes. I want her to have relationships but this one is just wrong in the biggest sense, due to the fact that the boy in question is 13 years old. Both her mother and I have tried talking to her but she relentless to say that it is platonic, but that does not keep me from thinking she is headed down the wrong path, what do you think?

2007-01-06 18:44:32 · 11 answers · asked by meiyotora 2

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2007-01-06 18:20:26 · 3 answers · asked by dougownsmyface 1