my father love me a lot?

Question

my father love's me so much that he just can't live without me. if i stay out from home with some friends he become so much sad that sometime he started crying. Next year i am going to England to complete my studies and i just don't know what should i do. i also love him very much. but i don't get so much sad and i can't see him like this.

Answer 1

THAT IS GOOD THAT YOUR FATHER SHOWS YOU THAT HE LOVES YOU, AND THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO B-CUZ YOU SAYING OR DOING SOME THING TO HIM WILL NEVER CHANGE THE FACT THAT HE WILL ALWAYS WORRY CUZ HIS YOUR FATHER.

Answer 2

He needs more people in his life so that when you are not there the void is not so great. Help him to widen out, by going with him to social clubs and events in your locality, so that he can meet others and make friends. If you have any other family, try to get them to visit more, and tell them what you've told us, so they can help.

When you do go to England be sure to Txt him every day and Phone home each week too. It would show deep love for your Father if you posted a letter or card regularly too, all this will help him to cope with your absence.

Answer 3

You should sit him down and talk to him, explain to him that you are an adult now and need to have your own life, and your independence but that you will always love him, that you will always stay in touch with him no matter what happens in your lives. It sounds as though he is a very lonely man, he needs to have his own friends and to fill his life with other things. As I don't know what the whole situation is, I cant really say much more than that, but you don't say if you are an only child or if your Mother is in the picture, he could be grieving or feeling lost in his own problems right now, but do talk to him and explain your feelings. Don't forget to tell him you will always love him and need him in your life, even if you are on the other side of the world. I have a 19 year old daughter and I totally understand that she needs to have her own life, and so do I. I travelled to South America in November, and even though I missed her, I had to give her the chance to be independent and live alone as an adult. Its not healthy to emotionally smother your children.

I wish you luck.

Answer 4

I know it's going to be hard, but trust me, leaving him alone will do him some good. He needs to learn to get around without you. I know that you and your father have a very close relationship (and I admire that), but you really need to learn to separate from eachother. For example, like a mother and her child, if her child follows her everywhere she goes and is always by her side, when her child grows up they she won't be ready for the real world, and the child's mother won't want to send her into the real world. I know this is going to hurt the both of you a little but you'll feel better about it soon. So trust me, just go.

Answer 5

I know your father loves you but there comes a time when parents have to let go.Don't worry he wont die.He'll be really sad for a while but he will get over it.Just make sure you keep in touch with him when you move on.He's just afraid he will lose you.Tell him he won't lose you,after all, you'll be his daughter for ever...Tell him to come visit too.

Answer 6

u talking to your dad, like the relationship between me and dad we loves each other so much..
don't worry i was in USA for one month and half, he was sad but i always connect with him, and he cried when i went but he was happy when i was happy too.. don't worry your dad loves u and care about u, tell him that i know it's hard but i must to go, and u always in my heart and i always connect with u.. so he will not be worry any more .