what do you do when your family hates you?

Question

Myfamily hates my mom put me up for adoption when i was really little and i was seperated froom my twin brother cameron. ihave been wondering whats going on in his life.if anybody can help me i sure could use it right now.I feel ike killing myself

Answer 1

Who cares!!!

Answer 2

I do not know you. I am thankful that I have this opportunity to
answer your question, on this day especially, because today,
January 07, is my birthday. Today is my birthday number 76;
yes, 76, and I am the father of ten (10) children - wonderful
children (the eldest is 53 years old, and the youngest is 26)
I would like to think that I have helped you with my advice..

Of the ten children, only one was BAD-BAD: a girl that made it
very difficult to like her, what-more-love! At least 25 percent of
the reasons to divorce her mother was because of this daughter.
I felt that she would not change; and if she did not change, I might
eventually kill her because I could not tolerate her actions. Now,
do not interpret that wrongly. I never had any plan at all to kill her,
but there were many times that I felt I could, if she "pushed me
and her mother any further". Her relation with our family was
absolutely horrible, but could have been better if she would have
taken her medication for Schitzaphrenia. Eventually, because
of not taking her medication; she was driving in a remote area
on a winding road; running from the demons in her head, and
crashed into a ravine, striking a huge boulder, where the car
burst into instant flames; burning her to death instantly.

I say to you; if your character and actions are the cause of your
thinking your family hates you; then it is time for some soul
searching and then changes in your life before expecting your
family to like or love you. I seem to get the vibrations that you
really owe it to yourself to make the necessary changes and
then, you will notice the different atmosphere around you.

Answer 3

Seriously! I survived suicidal thoughts and turned the anger and sadness into a new beginning. If you would honestly like some help to get you started, please give me your email address and I would be willing to get you started in the right direction. What do you have to lose. Give it a chance first before making it permanent. Everyone is different and responsible for their own choices. Please don't make the choice of suicide because that choice is forever and doesn't help. Help yourself by choosing to live and make a difference like I did. I now have 2 children of my own and made a promise to myself that I would never do the things to them that my parents did to me. It was hard at the time but I choose to do something about it and that is exactly what you have to do. You are not alone and you don't have to do it alone. You must take your own life, try to find your brother and even though everyone else hates your mom, love her anyway because it must have been hard for her to make that choice to give you up for adoption. Everyone has their own reasons and circumstances for doing what they do and sometimes people aren't always right. You are the only one that has control over your life and choices now and I just hope that you choose to reach out and make your life worth living. I am so greatful that I chose to reach out instead of ending my life. I hope you choose the same and give yourself a chance. Here is your chance to make things better for yourself and possibly your brother and your mom.

Answer 4

hey hun
ur family dosnt hate you. sometimes its hard to take care of twins n im sure there was a good reason for putting you up for adoption. i cant really help you contact ur brother but I'm sure that u can get contact of ur biological parents n ask them about ur brother. my sister was put up for adoption not because our family didn't love her but because we couldn't make our home become one of a child's again shes very happy n content in her new home me n her write I'm sure u can get the same thing going with your brother. ask ur guardian too look up ur family on the net for you I'm sure u can find something to get into contact with your brother. and as for that killing yourself comment its just not worth it liefs such a great experience don't waste it n I'm sure the ones that love u would miss you a lot

sorry i cant be more help full luv ya <3

Answer 5

First of all, don't kill your self buddy. It will be alright. You should try to find your twin brother. Maybe find a foster parent who loves you. If you ever think about killing yourself, do something you like to do. Play basketball, sing, whatever your hobbies are. Try to talk some someone you can trust...

Answer 6

Wow, Im not sure what I can do for you, but offer to listen. my email is open if you want to talk anonimously. Only because, I don't know you or your situation, and thus will not be quick to judge. Other than that, mabee a suicide hotline? Thats also an anonimous service that won't judge you but will try to help you get things sorted out

Answer 7

Please don't kill yourself. I don't know if you are Christian but you need to know now that your mother on earth is temporary and I know that the struggle to see your brother is very hard. You really need to know that God loves you very much and treasures your life here and your eteral life with him. You need to pray, if you feel comfortable, and tell him to come into your heart and help you through this. Take Him in as your Father and Guider. You are going through the fire right now and the best thing to do is just hold on to the Lord to help you through.

Answer 8

Don't kill yourself. Try finding your brother, there are people who do that for a living, there is a good chance u will find him, good luck.

Answer 9

Killing yourself is not the solution to your problem.Try to get in touch with your family.Show you care.

Answer 10

Dont kill yourself. Tonight pray about it. Go to church tomorrow. God will help you sort through this mess.