people and my family hate me so much becaus they think i am too pround for them. i really never feel proud and abuse them. i am just calm and helper. i always help them eg buying sodas for them but they never say thank you...... i work clean my home everyday but they said i am very lazy... i pay water and light for my family but they said i am selfish..... i also help poor people to eat and clothes.
i never be with them because they always shout at me for nothing and even fight with me. they said i am first spoiling all the family. all my extended family hate me even i have no friends they hate me........and my neighbours hate me......... i do not know why they hate me............ i have another friends are christians at my church they are okay they always say i am very calm, very nice and very beautiful girl.
i have boyfriend he even hates me i have two kids from him. i decide to leave him and wait until marriage. i like playing with my kids only. they love me .
i'm deaf
2007-01-06 20:43:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Oh you poor thing, they don't hate you at all they used you and are still using you, this is called emotional black mail and I know this because I have been through the same thing. If you are happy and feel safe with your Christian friends then go and talk to them maybe they know of someone that can help you get your self esteem back. Take care hun you are a very special person
2007-01-06 21:24:44 · answer #1 · answered by kerrynlinda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever ask them the reason why they hate you ?
Cause I really really don't understand, not only your family but also everyone around you hate a person likes you describe me. Well, people can't hate others without reason, aren't they ?
There's somethings wrong here, except if they all jealous of you.
I don't know, try to introspects yourself first, if you feel nothing wrong with you, then the mistaken was in your family and your neighborhoods. God bless you
2007-01-06 21:22:07 · answer #2 · answered by arn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty sure almost none of those people them hate you. I feel like that sometimes too but then I remember that I am mad so I realize that it is not true. Hate is such a strong word that I personally think it's hard to accomplish. If it makes you feel better I don't hate you and think you are a very nice person =]
2007-01-06 20:48:40 · answer #3 · answered by Fitch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are just like that they are crude and evil no matter what you do people won't be satisfied with the way you act and it is also said that if people like you, you are of the world which means you are as evil as them and you can never find a place in heaven so therefore make sure you are upright and do what is expected of you and leave them for God to judge. As long as you know that you are doing what is right leave it for God,
2007-01-06 20:50:10 · answer #4 · answered by Susan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least u have ure kids that love u. Maybe ure disability is causing problems with ure family and they need more , patience, understanding and education. I dont believe that anyone can hate anyone, as much as youve written. You need to sit down with ure family and talk about this seriously.
2007-01-06 20:58:54 · answer #5 · answered by brissy_006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there, Don't Worry you have two kids, they will never stop loving you. As long as you keep your house clearn and the kids clearn and look after yourself that is the main thing. don't worry about what other people say. i have two kids and i take them to pay group. you should get into a mother group. depends on what country you are in. i am happy to be your friend and to talk to you.
2007-01-06 20:49:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i really don't think that those ppl you talked abt really hate you, but if you strongly feel all that hate try not being around them instead find friends n family members that like you and admire you
2007-01-06 23:16:25 · answer #7 · answered by sweetdreams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop that you have 2 kids and god loves everyone.
2007-01-06 20:50:24 · answer #8 · answered by vjkiran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try moving to another city
2007-01-06 20:48:23 · answer #9 · answered by indie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you feel that so many people dislike you... just be around people who you feel like you...........
2007-01-06 20:47:03 · answer #10 · answered by melark 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋