Me and my mom have been arguing really bad over the course of 1 year, due to her over exaggeration and parenting skills. Ex: she'd rather go spend $400 on her hair extensions instead of food fer me and my sister. So, i finally got fed up with it and left. But then again i wasnt the best to her either. Now, im living with my dad, and he does everything for me, but its sucha a change from a little hick town to the big city. And i miss my sisters, friends and my bf. What do i do. Should i stay living with my dad and get a better education ect, or go back to my mom and be able to be with my family and friends?
2007-01-06 20:48:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Stay with your dad and get the education, then you'll be able to do something for your younger sisters to help them get a chance in life too. You've been given that chance already, don't throw it away.
2007-01-06 20:53:18 · answer #1 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello there, sounds like there will be many better opportunities at your dads, im wondering if your dad is willing to have you there why cant you live there with him & visit at your mums on holidays & stuff that way you can still see your friends and spend time with your sisters......
i think the main thing you need to think about is your future.....best wishes.
2007-01-07 10:41:59 · answer #2 · answered by Donna S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stay living with ur dad. It seems like things are better off in this environment. If living with your mother causes so much pain inside you should live with your father. You will meet new friends, especially if your in school. N if the relationship was meant to last it will prosper.
2007-01-07 05:09:12 · answer #3 · answered by nnenna217 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant even imagine how hard it must be 4 u to be away from ur family and friends..but i think u made the right decision to go live with ur dad.this way u have a chance for a good education and best future posible.wish u all the best.
2007-01-07 05:01:51 · answer #4 · answered by simona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there.....you and youre mum didnt get on and you decided that you wanted to go and live with youre dad ......if you are happy at youre new school and all you are missing is youre sisters .....why do you not start to go and visit them on a regular basis .....that way you are getting the best of both worlds i take it you want to stay with you dad .....so do that ....and get in contact with youre mum and ask her if you can come and visit that way you can sort out youre relationship with youre mum and get that back on track and you will also be able to spend good time with youre sisters .......and there is one more thing talk to youre dad and explain to him what you want to do and why ....as he might think that he is losing you .......i hope this helps you .....good luck as you need to try and sort things out with youre mum .....and become friends again .......take care xx
2007-01-07 05:42:35 · answer #5 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with your dad... think in perspective...for the long time run...build yourself a career and then bring your family to the city
2007-01-07 04:51:20 · answer #6 · answered by katz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋