Me and my sister are unceperable (both15) & she had some drug problems when she was only 12 - 13, But i got her to stop. And now I just recently moved with my dad. And ever since i left she has been doing exctasy and shrooms on a regular basis (every weekend), and she even laughs about it when i confront her. What do i do? im not there anymore so..
2007-01-06 21:00:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
first thing is to tell your parents so that she can recieve some professional help. next let her know you are always there for her and will always be.
2007-01-06 21:07:42 · answer #1 · answered by stephanie o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say, but I assume your sister is living with your mum? From what I've seen and heard people who take drugs are unhappy with something in their life, or something that has happened to them and emotionally they can't deal with it. Try to find out if this might be the case with your sister, there might something that is making her so upset that she doesn't care for her life or well being anymore and so continues to take those drugs. Also let her know how much you love her. She may need some reassurance from people she is close to as I assume your parents have split up. Good luck.
2007-01-06 21:08:05 · answer #2 · answered by skiv_77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since your Dad has a little money, ask him to hire a detective to follow her. Any evidence should be turned over to child services or the police so that the children can be protected. They may have to live with Grandmother and Grandfather but better that than to live with a crack head mother and father. Once you are on crack, it is very hard to get off of it even with treatment. Do what you need to in order to save the kids including throwing her out when you have the evidence.
2016-05-23 02:28:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make her go and see someone about her drug problem. I can totally understand some people are hard headed and think you would be hateful for doing so, but it's for her own good. Sounds to me like you have done your best to get her to quit, and I would hope you know that although she is your sister, she is definatly NOT your responsibility. If she won't go see someone about this, concern an adult. She may be mad at you for a while, but like I said it's for her own good. Besides sisters fight ne ways. :) good luck girl. hope all goes well and hope my advice could help a little bit.
2007-01-06 21:19:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, thats tuff i mean i am not trying to say snitch her out but damn bro. Are you close enough to hang out with her on the weekends if you are try going out with her and see how it works out for you. If you arent that close just seriously talk to her about it mabye print off a couple of studies of what shrooms and X do to people that may snap her out. If that doesnt work there is always the parents man.
2007-01-06 21:06:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try explaining to her how much you care . try taking her to a doc.
and if she wont listen, dont try forcing her or keep bothering her, that will only make her more rebellious...she'll start hating you
just tell her that u'll always be there for her no matter what.keep an eye on her so she wont hurt herself..and if she does use the oppurtunity and help her and then try explaining again. she will understand sometime soon what a wonderful caring sister u r
2007-01-06 21:48:21 · answer #6 · answered by nivya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's too bad that you've not lived with her, cause I think she need a friend to talk. You've been separated with her too long, I'm afraid she wouldn't believe you anymore cause she think that you betrayed her, so it doesn't seems weared that she laugh at you when you confront her. here's my suggest : you have to get her trust first, show her that you care of her, then if you succed to get her trust, then confince her to go to the drug's rehabilitation. Good luck and God bless you..
2007-01-06 21:09:43 · answer #7 · answered by arn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep trying man. i had the same problem with a friend. he kept on using all the time and wouldn't stop. it was bothering me so much taht i reported him to the school board, but they were able to get him help. ever since then weve been great friends and he hasn't used since. if it worked for him you might want to try getting you sister help to.
2007-01-06 21:05:12 · answer #8 · answered by blackbelt20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell someone she will listen to. Drug abuse kills brain cells and can be fatal. She is not your responsibility, you have done what you can, now it needs to be up to the adults to deal with.
2007-01-06 21:04:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone is doin drugs darlin but the clever ones is those who doesnot get addicated
2007-01-06 22:01:05 · answer #10 · answered by Tara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋