Family - January 2007

i went to my mom and said i don't think i am close to my father and that i need more emotional support and i brought up a time where i told my grandparents i was abuse physicaly and mentely and sexualy because i tried to have my grandparents contact my aunt so i ciuld live with her behind my mothers back i am not allowed to have any contact with my dads side of the family i told my mom that i was upset because i was intimidated for my whole life and she screamed at me and said that is her decision and she got more mad and i tried to stop the talk and i was so scared to talk i cried my eyes out while she baggered me like a hardend criminal for 2hours and she always deneys i was ever abused she even lets her husband mistreate me it seems like she wiould rather an abuseive man rather then to see me live a happy normal life

2007-01-07 11:49:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My father-in-law has been living with us for 2 years. He has a job that earns very little money, therefore, he can't afford rent on his own place. I suggested to my husband that he could have a roommate or rent a bedroom at a home.
My husband and I have been married for 10 years and it seems that we always have someone living with us. I just want some time to ourselves.
Am I too cold hearted?

2007-01-07 11:45:10 · 17 answers · asked by Gfrog123 2

I have a 13.5 year old daughter. She gives me an atitude when she talks to me. She uses "F" when she gets into an agrument with me. Off course, I got angry and slapped her face which escalated things. She slapped me on my face. I feel like a failure when it comes to parenting her. She wants to hang out with her friends, talks on the phone late at night and on myspace 24/7. I'm having a hard time to get to know her friends which she does not want me to get to know her friends. She wants to go to a movie but would not tell me who she goes with. She thinks that I'm too strict. She does not show any remorse for her behaviors and does not say "Sorry"?

Are any parents out there experiencing this or experienced this similiar issue. Please give me advice.

2007-01-07 11:42:00 · 7 answers · asked by solitude 2

2007-01-07 11:36:04 · 6 answers · asked by laxsurfergrl 1

my dad gives me a choice of weather he can be
rude or scream and i say rude and doesn't try to comfort me but yet he feeds me and gives me things he acts like a child all he seems to do is put me down please help and he says i have a big trap when i tell somebody

2007-01-07 11:25:19 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

You know those people that you tell them how you feel and tell them why you did something. Here's why. I'm 12 years old and I'm like at puberty right now becasuse I like think boys are cute and devolping crushes and stuff. But I'm also going through a lot of stuff. I havent seen my dads side of the family for over 2 years and they hate my mom. I havent seen my brother since Christmas I'm going to be a aunt of twins. My sister got a new boyfreind. I dont know if I'm going to heaven or hell. I want to grow closer with God. I'm really pretty and I'm trying to start modeling and spokes model and acting and stuff. My moms taking me to some place.I feel like I just want to run run run and go far away I want to travel and stuff but my parents are too hard headed to even pay attencion to me.I know that I wasnt meant for small talk crowds I know what I want and it's not in this TOWN FOR SURE! I have freinds thar are celebs and I see them, talk, e-mail and stuff I really need a hug all the time!

2007-01-07 11:18:30 · 3 answers · asked by carribianlatinqueen 2

I mean, seriously, what's the answer to life the universe and everything?

2007-01-07 11:10:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

she always treats me like a child, and always asks really retarted questions to try and start a conversation with me so how do i tell her to stop talking to me like that?

p.s. she takes everything i say so damn personal and serious its not even funny. she always crys for a week when i tell her to stop doing something to me

2007-01-07 11:08:16 · 9 answers · asked by sphsgolfer 1

I am 14 and in eighth grade. I have been homeschooled all my life and I want to try highschool next year. I don't want to hurt there feelings or get them mad. I just want to be more social and stuff. Should I just forget it? Any advice helps

2007-01-07 11:05:41 · 13 answers · asked by theskysthelimit 1

SHE GETS REALLY ANGRY EVEN WHEN i D0N'T D0 ANYTHiNG SHE ENDS UP HURTiNG ME..BEATiNG ME T0 THE FL00R...THE LAST TIME SHE T00K ME T0 MY R00M [[AN ATTIC]] AND DID iT THERE S0 N0 0NE CAN HEAR ME SCREAM. SHE LEFT THE WINDOW OPENED THOUGH SO ACOUPLE OF PEOPLE HEARD. Y0U GUYS CAN SAY i'M LYING BUT MY M0M SAYS SHE D0ESN'T CARE IF SHE G0ES T0 JAIL JUST AS LONG AS SHE HURTS ME BEF0RE SHE D0ES..AND SHE SAYS IF SHE D0ES G0 T0 JAIL IT'S G0ING T0 BE MY FAULT...i WAS THiNKiNG 0F RUNNING AWAY T0 MY BEST FRIEND'S HOUSE F0R A WHILE..BECAUSE HIS FAMILY TREATS ME LIKE ONE OF THEM..ESPECIALLY HIS MOM. ONE TIME MY MOM NEARLY KICKED ME OUT OF THE HOUSE BUT I REFUSED TO GO....WHAT SHOULD I DO?? SHOULD I RUN AWAY? SHOULD I TELL SOMEBODY?? PLEASE HELP!!

2007-01-07 10:56:33 · 7 answers · asked by annetteXskye 2

my boyfriend just saw my profile on myspace and i posted some of my beautiful pictures on it and he is really mad at me and wants me to delete all my pics ...should i ? why ?

2007-01-07 10:47:42 · 21 answers · asked by BeautyBreak H 4

Would you let your pubescent 12 year old son or daughter go to a boy/girl party at the home of someone you don't know?

(Parents only please, I unfortunately know the opinion of the 12 year old.)

2007-01-07 10:33:47 · 19 answers · asked by i have no idea 6

my daughter is about to make her first communion in may.i am very excited.ive began to look online at dresses and want her to have the best dress.(she is also going to be choosing the one she wants).i dont care how much money it costs.i want her to have everything from the veil,gloves, hair done and everything. the problem is my husband thinks im going to far.but to me,this is big in the catholic faith.he was raised lutheran. what do we do?

2007-01-07 10:26:30 · 5 answers · asked by Moniluv 2

2007-01-07 10:20:30 · 6 answers · asked by dudidu241 1

2007-01-07 10:12:18 · 12 answers · asked by rennat167 2

My sister recently has decided to marry a man due to the fact of a one night stand where he somehow got her pregnant. Now that she is due very soon, do you think I should support her through this time or should I stick with my morals and leave them to face with the error they made when they decided to go ahead and engage in promiscuity?

2007-01-07 10:09:18 · 29 answers · asked by Grunhilda 1

to do something in your life....what would it be and why

2007-01-07 10:04:46 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

My youngest daughter lives with her mum (my ex) and has done since we split up 2 years ago, we see each other regular, sometimes every weekend, but taking her back to her mum today she asked if she could live with me ? I dont have any probs her living with me, as im in a relationship and know she would be very loved. just i shouldnt be thinking whats best for me should i ? help

2007-01-07 10:01:16 · 10 answers · asked by Reproman 3

A few months ago my boyfriend and I had a giant fight. I stayed at my parent’s place that weekend and it all came out. I cried and confided in my family. Months on, my bf and I are going stronger than ever, but I know my mum has never, and probably WILL never, forgive my boyfriend. My boyfriend on past occasions has made me feel guilty, saying things such as “your mum hates me, and it’s your fault for telling her those things about me”. He makes me feel terrible. I just wanted to speak to someone as I couldn’t speak to him. I am finding it hard to work out whether I am in the wrong and hard to deal with the fact that my mum may never let this go. What should I do?

2007-01-07 09:59:34 · 14 answers · asked by Slikemema 1

I hate my life, at school kids pick on me because of my birthmark that looks like a black eye, iwant a gf and i cant ever get one, at home my younger brother messes with me and whenever he does somethign wrong my parents blame it on me, i hate it, i went and tried out for a team and i was practicing for a year and then i got cut and didnt even make it, i dont feel like im fat and iwatch my weight but my brother always telles me im fat and ugly i hate it what do i do, and worst thing is whenever i try to forget the whoole not making the team thing it just comes back to me, my family tells me why didnt i make the team, my friends who are on the team make fun of me, my brother messes with me i hate it all what do i do im 15.

2007-01-07 09:36:05 · 7 answers · asked by 100% Español 5

I have one grandpa, and he is 86.

2007-01-07 09:33:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was wondering if im being rude or if im right. here is the ? my mom left me when i was 7 a few years later she started seeing my brothers i never went with her or anything she had visitation with us. up in tell a year and a half ago i lived with her now im 21 and im starting my life and im trying to save money but she always wants rent money and gas money for picking me up from work. i dont think i should give her any money sence she didnt raise me what do u think But becuz of who i am i give her the money but she is realy making me mad to the point of living on the street.

2007-01-07 09:27:46 · 6 answers · asked by RAINBOW 3

my dad passed away about 3 years ago.. i just found out that my mom and step dad was getting money every month from him and not telling me or giving me any of and using it for themselves.. when i turn 18 which will be in May will i get any of it to myself or will it be gone by then? what exactly do i do?

2007-01-07 09:25:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it really incest a step daughter and step father have sex? they arent irectly related but is it considered incest?

2007-01-07 09:24:36 · 31 answers · asked by anonymous 2

I have been ill mental health wise for a while ( derpression+social promblems)
and she always goes on at me to get a job saying i could and etc, even tho i cant becuase i find it hard to go out the front door but i am getting treatment, she is real horrible about it sometimes.
do you have a mother in law like that how do you handle her?

2007-01-07 09:23:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex boyfriend has automatic parental responsibility, but has had no contact for over 18 months and I do not know where he lives. Can he stop my application for my childs passport? He doesn't have a contact order either.

2007-01-07 09:20:33 · 11 answers · asked by tyrant900 1

2007-01-07 09:04:54 · 15 answers · asked by elle-même 7

come on be honest, I hate mine because they are always making me stress, and because of this I have lost some weight and my girlfriend things I'm getting sick because of it..she is probably right though..so what do you hate about them and why?

Mitch

2007-01-07 09:01:42 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay...
It's my mom's birthday on Tuesday the 9th and I have no clue what to make/get her!!!! She's a music teacher and doesn't like all of the like new junky stuff.

what could I make her????

2007-01-07 09:01:35 · 8 answers · asked by Dancin' HOTTIE!! 3

I have a cousin who lives close. We communicate with him sometimes...like we see him at christmas and stuff. i wanna get closer to him because im not really close to any other cousins and he is the easiest to talk to and stuff. How do i get close to him?

if this helps im in eighth grade so i cant go to bars or stuff like that

2007-01-07 08:51:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous