I hate my life, at school kids pick on me because of my birthmark that looks like a black eye, iwant a gf and i cant ever get one, at home my younger brother messes with me and whenever he does somethign wrong my parents blame it on me, i hate it, i went and tried out for a team and i was practicing for a year and then i got cut and didnt even make it, i dont feel like im fat and iwatch my weight but my brother always telles me im fat and ugly i hate it what do i do, and worst thing is whenever i try to forget the whoole not making the team thing it just comes back to me, my family tells me why didnt i make the team, my friends who are on the team make fun of me, my brother messes with me i hate it all what do i do im 15.
2007-01-07 09:36:05 · 7 answers · asked by 100% Español 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Although it seems like it now, not making the team isn't the end of the world. Give some thought to other things that interest you and give them a try. Chances are if you do, you will meet other people who genuinely like you and enjoy your company.
As for your brother, I suspect he enjoys seeing you get angry, which is why he is constantly picking at you. When he does it, ignore him or just say, "Whatever" and walk away. Eventually, when he sees he isn't getting any reaction, he'll leave you alone.
One last word of advice, everything in life is temporary. This will pass. There will other disappointments along the way but they happen to all of us. It's part of life and learning. If it helps, talk to a counselor at school.
2007-01-07 10:02:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may not understand where I'm coming from but, I'll try and explain by telling my story.
When I was 15 I tried out for the j.v. b-ball team and i got cut the first tryout. I was sad but, went out for the j.v. football team and made it but hardly got into a game but, I didn't quit the team. No one in my family came to any of my games. I was insecure about my looks at that age also. I would be afraid to talk to girls past a friendship level for fear of rejection. I can remember having a girlfriend over the phone for two weeks everything was fine between us until my friends decided to walk her to my house to meet me without my knowledge. When she saw me she dumped me and my friends got a big laugh out of it. I can remember a bully telling me I was ugly and that I need to learn how to "check" (make jokes about) people really good or learn how to dance. I learned both extremely well! My confidence shot through the roof and I was popular in school because I could turn out the school dance, win talent shows at school or rock a house party and no one would "check" me for fear I would embarass them in front of everybody. I am now 37 and I can still dance a little and I'm still a fool like Dave Chappelle(we favor each other too) and the people I grew up with still remember me for that. Point I'm trying to make to you is don't ever stop trying things because you may fail at one. Some people don't even try and they're probably the ones who crititize you, right? You are still young and I am aware that things are harder now than they were when I was 15 but, that just means you have to be stronger than I was, be smarter than I am, and know that with time it will pass. People remember the bad things you do and try to forget the good. Make your own memories now for your future. Good luck young brother!
2007-01-07 10:12:11 · answer #2 · answered by saturn man 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you are at an age when kids are going to be really cruel and find whatever they can to pick on you for unless you are one of the elite popular kids. That happens to nearly all of us when we are teenagers and it sux but it's part of growing up.
Parents can use very poor judgment when they disciplining and siblings can be deceptive and mean...
I think you need to find some other activity that you can find enjoyment from. Ignore your brother and he'll get sick of teasing you. If you show him that it bothers you, he'll only continue to torment you. The same goes with the kids at school. They like to see other kids react and squirm. If you don't let them see you are affected by their immature behavior they will most likely find a new target.
I was picked on horribly in school. I had to deal with criticism for having glasses, not knowing how to dress like other kids who had more money, not having money, not being athletic and even for being smart. The mistake I made was that I let them get to me and I changed myself to fit in. Ultimately I let my grades suffer so I could look more "stupid" so I would be more accepted. Now that I look back I wish I had found a different way to deal with all of that stuff.
Remember that someday you'll be an adult and you can put them all behind you...
2007-01-07 10:50:25 · answer #3 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, I am sorry you are having such a difficult time. If you are truly depressed then I suggest you talk with a professional counselor. I would also like to encourage you and let you know that no matter how hard things are now they will get better.
2007-01-07 09:55:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget all the past things that have been upsetting you. There's nothing anyone can do about the past. Concentrate on ONE thing that you're unhappy about yourself. Work on changing that one thing, and e/thing else will begin to fall into place. Nothing is an overnite success. It will take great effort and determination on your part. ANYTHING is possible if you want it bad enough.
Now, GO FOR IT!
2007-01-07 10:01:54 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a school counselor
2007-01-07 09:38:53 · answer #6 · answered by Lolita 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like your growing up welcome to the real world and be ready for alot more disappointments to come your way.
2007-01-07 09:52:35 · answer #7 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋