is this abuse?

Question

i went to my mom and said i don't think i am close to my father and that i need more emotional support and i brought up a time where i told my grandparents i was abuse physicaly and mentely and sexualy because i tried to have my grandparents contact my aunt so i ciuld live with her behind my mothers back i am not allowed to have any contact with my dads side of the family i told my mom that i was upset because i was intimidated for my whole life and she screamed at me and said that is her decision and she got more mad and i tried to stop the talk and i was so scared to talk i cried my eyes out while she baggered me like a hardend criminal for 2hours and she always deneys i was ever abused she even lets her husband mistreate me it seems like she wiould rather an abuseive man rather then to see me live a happy normal life

Answer 1

That is totally abuse. No one should be afraid in their own home. Talk to a teacher at school, a friend's mom, or a school counselor. They will know exactly what you can do. You can proabably find a safe haven somewhere nearby, whether it's in an after-school club, a sport or just with a group of friends that don't treat you like dirt and support you and appreciate who you are, willing to stand up against the bullies that are your parents. I also highly suggest that you get in contact with your father's side of the family. They are your blood and it is their responsibility to protect you from anything, even if it's your mother.

Answer 2

Your only other option is to speak to a person in authority but you'd better make sure that your allegations are true and honest and factual ,,,, This situation will cause allot of trouble and up set with in the family but there's nothing else you can do if the allegations are true to begin with ,,,, It's important that you get this thing resolved though for your own good ,,,, A child shouldn't have to live or put up with abusive treatment of any kind ,,,, especially sexual abuse ,,,, If these allegations are true then it's past time for you to tell someone that will listen and do what's necessary ,,,, Don't put this off ,,,, get it done now ,,,,

Answer 3

you need consoling and outside emotional support to discuss family issues without the badgering from either side.
a third party will give you the "out" in all this crap. you are mature enough to realize there is a problem going on and you will be able to get help, keep looking for it and you'll do much better than you are right now.
your mom needs some too, but she'll first have to admit she has a problem too. deal with you, make yourself first and quit going to the dead end you're getting at home.

Answer 4

To me psychological abuse is worse than actual abuse.With actual abuse yours damage's are healed in a short era of time,yet regrettably with psychological abuse your damage's can many years to heal.

Answer 5

Sounds like she is not very well adjusted. Best to look after yourself now, while you are young before you grow also into a poorly adjusted adult.
Start by talking to your school councellor and if there isn't one, there are many child help and advice lines in the phone books.
Another avenue would be through your church or YMCA

Answer 6

Im not sure how old you are but have you mentioned any of this to people at school. You need to talk to a responsible adult outside of your family about this. Find a teacher or coach at school that you trust and explain to them what is going on. Explain to them that talking to your family about it seems to make things worse and see if they can get a social worker involved.

Answer 7

call the cops. dial 911 tell someone at school. Do not let this continue to happen to you do something. You are telling us, so tell a teacher or guidance counselor. Yell, scream, holler do whatever you can but don't continue to be a victim.

Answer 8

Yes it's emotional abuse.

Answer 9

I think I would get a councellors opinion on this one.

Answer 10

I would go to the police. But go with your gut!