SHE GETS REALLY ANGRY EVEN WHEN i D0N'T D0 ANYTHiNG SHE ENDS UP HURTiNG ME..BEATiNG ME T0 THE FL00R...THE LAST TIME SHE T00K ME T0 MY R00M [[AN ATTIC]] AND DID iT THERE S0 N0 0NE CAN HEAR ME SCREAM. SHE LEFT THE WINDOW OPENED THOUGH SO ACOUPLE OF PEOPLE HEARD. Y0U GUYS CAN SAY i'M LYING BUT MY M0M SAYS SHE D0ESN'T CARE IF SHE G0ES T0 JAIL JUST AS LONG AS SHE HURTS ME BEF0RE SHE D0ES..AND SHE SAYS IF SHE D0ES G0 T0 JAIL IT'S G0ING T0 BE MY FAULT...i WAS THiNKiNG 0F RUNNING AWAY T0 MY BEST FRIEND'S HOUSE F0R A WHILE..BECAUSE HIS FAMILY TREATS ME LIKE ONE OF THEM..ESPECIALLY HIS MOM. ONE TIME MY MOM NEARLY KICKED ME OUT OF THE HOUSE BUT I REFUSED TO GO....WHAT SHOULD I DO?? SHOULD I RUN AWAY? SHOULD I TELL SOMEBODY?? PLEASE HELP!!
2007-01-07 10:56:33 · 7 answers · asked by annetteXskye 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i AM 13 YEARS 0LD.MY M0M D0ES N0T D0 DRUGS N0R D0ES SHE DRiNK! SHE iS N0T MENTALLY iLL NEiTHER! SHE BELiEVES EVERY0NE ELSE AR0UND ME & WHEN i TRY T0 TELL HER THEY ARE LYiNG, SHE HURTS ME M0RE! i WANT T0 RUN AWAY S0 BADLY, BUT i D0N'T WANT T0 SEEM LiKE A BAD PERS0N!!
2007-01-07 10:57:46 · update #1
OH my god. I was beaten too as a child. I am now an adult counselor. I got saved by some interventions and am now thankful. You have to get help. She is out of control. You do not deserve this. It is not your fault! It can never be the child's fault because a grown up makes the decisions to handle things appropriately or not. You can call 911. You can call your best friend's mother. You can tell your school teacher or school counselor. My school counselor helped me alot. We decided together the best way to handle this. We met several times before doing anything. Your mom feels out of control and the help she receives will be a welcome blessing, like a relief to her. And because the court systems are so into keeping families together, she will be given counseling (which of course I think is great stuff). You will be helping your mother if you tell the appropriate people. It is so sad that you are so young and have this heavy burden! I too was 13 when I got out of that environment. YOU COUNT! You must be heard. But sadly, some people don't believe this stuff, like friends might not. Because they don't know what to do. But you have to keep on telling until someone hears. I hear ya. I believe ya. Please don't be scared to help your situation. It won't get better no matter how good of a kid you are. IT is her problem, and you can't fix her. But don't let it be your problem anymore. What she is doing is illegal. And for a good reason. This country has laws that protect children. Because children are vulnerable and can't protect themselves. Please tell your school counselor, nurse, or teacher right away! And if you can run to your friends house that is good, but only if you tell the mother what is going on so they can protect you. You have my prayers.
2007-01-07 11:29:54 · answer #1 · answered by emily 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report the abuse immediately. It is not right for a parent to hurt their child that way. Take pictures of the bruises, if you have a camera. It will be one of the hardest things you will ever have to do but in the end it will be worth it. One of these times your mom may not stop until you are dead. Go some where safe for you that won't give you back to her. This is a very dangerous situation you are in.
2007-01-07 11:15:50 · answer #2 · answered by lalagirl1961 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh hun, you need to get help, fast, if you are close to youre friends mom do you yhink you could tell her? If not then you need to get in touch with a child support group or something, i wouldnt go to the police unless it gets so bad that she actually trys to kill you manly because they might not listen to you and just take youre moms side, i do hope you find someone hun xxx p.s im here if you wonna chat some more!
2007-01-07 11:53:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby you need to go and get help. Call a teen hotline or something. Do not take the abuse any longer. Take care of the situation before it is too late!
2007-01-07 11:01:48 · answer #4 · answered by Shanay 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to someone you trust. Another adult, your friends mum, school councillor. What your mother is doing is wrong and if she does to jail she has no-one to blame but herself. She is using emotional blackmail to control you and this is not healthy at all. You need to report her now.
best of luck
2007-01-07 11:08:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go to the police. Often things work out in one way or another. Maybe your friends house is your refuge. good luck!!!
2007-01-07 12:33:02 · answer #6 · answered by Kreutzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run away as fast as you can!do not put with that from her,it will save your life!
2007-01-07 11:06:44 · answer #7 · answered by godelectedme 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋