2007-01-07 10:12:18 · 12 answers · asked by rennat167 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sit down and talk to her
2007-01-07 10:17:55 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to not have a great relationship with my mom until I took her out to eat & I just told her that I would really like us to be closer and talk more. Guess what, now we are best friends. Maybe your mom feels the same way. Just give it a try and talk to her about it. Good Luck.
2007-01-07 18:43:30 · answer #2 · answered by smiley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didn't have a really good relationship with my mom growing up either. if u find it hard to talk to her face to face then write her a letter from the heart explaining why u chose to write to her instead of talking to her then let her know that u do want to talk to her face to face and explain what holds u back from doing so. let her know how ur feeling what hurts u and how much u love her then possibly after wards u two will be able to communicate a little better. good luck. and i hope this helped.
2007-01-07 18:25:07 · answer #3 · answered by blue 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I never got along really well with mine either, I first had to figure out why we didnt get along before I could talk to her about it, I wrote her a letter detailing out all my anger. I figured out it wasnt about her, but about me. IM not saying that is the case with everyone, but it helped me to know. And no I did not send the letter, I felt that it was better off just deleting and moving on towards the future. We sat down and talked when I wasnt so angry and funny thing was now everything is better. Good luck to you...
2007-01-07 18:27:53 · answer #4 · answered by lynjen31 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some family sometimes are hard, we never have chosen our parents brothers and sisters, they are a gift from GOD.
what a a gift! sometimes we just don't know how to handle it.
ask him to whom gives you that gift in a nice way You may have an answer.
My answer to you is I don't know if you are a girl or boy, older younger what is happening I don't know either.
But you know it, you know your mother better that I do, you know what she likes what she dislikes why she acts this way and why this others, remember sometimes those who love us try to protect us and then they hurt us without knowing, I don't know if that is happening to your relationship.
Try to think their reasons why she do this or that to you.Try to see from her point of view too, that helps in any relationship.
Always talk calm and express your feelings too , if you close up to her, you may not help with the situation. Try to her understand you too .
Good luck! We all not perfect
2007-01-07 19:20:52 · answer #5 · answered by JUST ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i don't always get along with my mom very well, but i find that going on dates with her every so often makes it easier for me to talk to her and for us to understand each other and get along. I love my mom so much and sometimes i really don't like her but she's really important to me and so it's worth the effort to give her a shot at being a close friend to me.
2007-01-07 18:24:43 · answer #6 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i encourage you to try talking to your mom.. and tell her how you feel... try to mend this relationship instead of running away from it. its not going to be easy but its gonna help so much if you just talk to her... it will help you very much... try figuring out something that you both have in comman... and try doing that thing...
~hope this helps
2007-01-07 18:56:27 · answer #7 · answered by Patel N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you give some additional details or examples that will help explain the problem?
2007-01-07 18:18:57 · answer #8 · answered by jag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to talk to your mother and tell how you feel and tell her that you are wiling to build a relatiosnhip with her.
2007-01-07 18:16:07 · answer #9 · answered by 2Cute09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please sit down and talk about it. and if that did not help maybe getting some help from outside will solve the problem. goodluck
2007-01-07 18:17:52 · answer #10 · answered by CATHY Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋