ok my dad has been always good father to me and to my sisters and he've been a good husband to my mom too but at the last 8 months i started finding anythin my dad says or does is silly,the way he sit down,the walk he talks with people,the way he eats,everythin...
2007-01-05 14:11:59 · 23 answers · asked by stang girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
am 20yrs old
2007-01-05 14:27:17 · update #1
That sometimes happens as we grow up...we see our parents as regular people with all their faults.
As you get older you will put those things you find silly to the side and again appreciate the wonderful man that he truly is.
Love him, respect him, and spend time with him because one day he'll be gone.
My Dad's been dead for 20 years and I still miss him everyday...even the silly hat he used to wear.
2007-01-05 14:16:08 · answer #1 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not be a teenager now...but you're only 20. I don't mean that to sound like I think you're still just a baby, but you ARE just beginning adulthood. It's completely normal to start noticing how adults in your circle act, and comparing that to how your parents...ALSO adults...behave. Just keep remembering that he IS a good father, and that all of your friends have parents with weird mannerisms too. Eventually, you'll notice that he's NOT really all that dorky...or if he is, you'll at least appreciate that he's your dorky dad, that loves you.
2007-01-05 14:15:48 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone goes through a time in their life where they look around at their surroundings and the people in their lives. I'm sure it will go away. Try making a list of all the reasons your dad is great. Whenever I have feelings like that, I make a list and it helps.
2007-01-05 14:15:07 · answer #3 · answered by Sasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, you're young. As you get older, your dad will get smarter and wiser. By the time you're an old man...you'll think your dad was the best guy you ever knew. This is a truth that has been tried through many generations. Trust me on this.
2007-01-05 14:19:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing that you're a teenager, and at this age, you are very aware of how those around you act. You don't want to be embarrassed in front of your friends, or lose face.
However, learn to appreciate your dad for how he is. He's worked hard to raise you and to support the family. Try to be understanding, and life will be easier when you do.
2007-01-05 14:14:55 · answer #5 · answered by Irene \m/. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like your a pre-teen or teenager. Just realize that he loves you and you love him. Start talking to him again and doing stuff with him and you will again appreciate what a good father you have. A lot of kids would kill for a good father, instead of the one they have.
2007-01-05 14:26:58 · answer #6 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that you are uncomfortable with who you are, or what you do.
Perhaps if you were to look at yourself, then at your dad... you would notice that you and your dad are alike... in varies ways.
How do you feel about the way you walk? The way you talk? The way you eat?
I recommend you accept your dad, and yourself... and just do what comes natural to you. But, also aim toward improving yourself.
2007-01-05 14:25:37 · answer #7 · answered by davidcolyer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would really think this is your age. If your father has always been a good man, that did not change over night. But you being a teen, things can change over night. Just give it time.
2007-01-05 14:15:23 · answer #8 · answered by tamlovinlife2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are kin, therefore close, maybe too close and know thy kin well. You get that gut feeling for a reason. It's the ugly truth most of the time, you're just still denying it.lighten up and just accept your Father for who he is...
2007-01-05 14:14:58 · answer #9 · answered by cshojinaga 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That which we see in others; that which we like or dislike is a reflection on the way we see ourselves.. Others are simply a mirror to ourselves. Look inwards, instead of outwards.
2007-01-05 14:16:55 · answer #10 · answered by fire dragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋