my father in laws told us that he has the right to know every single things my husband and i do in our bedroom...he wants us to follow his advise about our 'bedroom activity' and we MUST tell him everything.do we have a choice here or there's something wrong with my father in law.my husband and i try to ignore him but he became more persistance..we caught him once red handed searching in our bedroom..he pretends it is normal for parents to know about their children sex life..is that true?
2007-01-05 14:40:14 · 12 answers · asked by polaris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Buy a nice lock and tell your father-in-law to mind his own business. He's sounds like a fruitcake!
2007-01-05 14:43:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah parents have a right to know if there children are having sex if their children are teenagers. After this parents should really stay out of their children’s sex life. Your father and law telling you that you need to tell him about what you do in bed is disturbing and wrong. He has no right to even bring up the subject with you. And him going through your bedroom is sick, what was he looking for? Nothing that he should have. Have a sit down with your father and law and tell him that he is not to go through your bedroom and not to talk to you about your sex life. If he persists get him some help.
2007-01-05 23:02:57 · answer #2 · answered by gotansas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously a pervert and sniffing your panties whenever you're not home. Seriously, leave a note with your undies one day when you're not at home. Something that incriminates you for something like drugs. Make up a note regarding the marijuana that you purchased the other night, etc...
You should let your husband know that you are doing this to test his father. If your husband would take serious offense to, then write another note explaining what your test is. Leave that note between two drawers (somewhere the father-in-law won't look). Why? You're father-in-law will most likely start bring up the subject that he should be searching in your room, invading your privacy, for drugs as well. At this time you tell your husband that you purposely planted a note re: drugs and that you have proof that his father is snooping. When your husband says that your crazy and paranoid, have him seek out the hidden note with your plan. It is quite obvious your father-in-law has a sick desire for you and is probably jealous of his son.
2007-01-05 22:50:20 · answer #3 · answered by vtctom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not let him into your bedroom. Definitely get a lock for the bedroom door and if he says anything about it, tell him it is none of his business.
In fact, I would not even let him in the house. See if you can get him to go with you for "family counseling" and tell the therapist what is going on. He or she can set him straight ( but he probably won't go, because he knows he is in the wrong)
Is it possible that he has some undiagnosed medical problem? A brain tumor can make someone act crazy --or has he always been this way?
2007-01-05 22:53:15 · answer #4 · answered by Marilyn E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you do in the bedroom is not his business. Better still don't even dignify this line of questioning with an answer. Where is your mother-in-law when this type of questioning goes on. For the record it is your father-in-law who needs help, not you.
2007-01-05 22:49:04 · answer #5 · answered by gussie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not normal. He sounds like a total creep. Get a lock for your bedroom door and don't let him in there when he visits.
When he talks about needing to know about your sex life tell him that it is private. Eventually he'll take his creepiness somewhere else (probably online...yipes...)
2007-01-05 22:45:16 · answer #6 · answered by krinkn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guys is nuts! You or your husband need to take a serious stand and burn your father-in-law down.
2007-01-05 22:42:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, its SO not normal. That's just weird telling your parents about your sex life.
2007-01-05 22:42:37 · answer #8 · answered by 143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO UR FATHER IN LAW DEFINATLY HAS PROBLEMS
2007-01-05 22:42:02 · answer #9 · answered by fine_ass_fatty21 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is none of his business.
2007-01-05 22:47:53 · answer #10 · answered by andy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋