Is It Bad To Be Pregnant At The Age Of 12?

Question

my parents kicked me out because im pregnant and im due soon. (supposed to be 1/11/07)im living with my neighbor and theyre always yelling at me and theyre about to kick me out too.im 280 pounds at 12 years old. i feel fat and ugly so i went to a club with my friend and did it with a guy who said he liked me.am i a slut? is it bad and what should i do

Answer 1

no, as long as you gave head in the mist

Answer 2

Don't listen to the people who are going to tell you that you screwed up. There's nothing you can do about the past, so just live with the present. I'd like to think it's obvious that you learned your lesson, so I'll work with that assumption.

If you have the guy's phone number, do a reverse look-up on it. Get authorities involved. He's required to pay child support if it's his, and it's statutory rape if he's not old enough. That's a crime.

You're a minor. Action may be able to be taken against the club for letting you in. It was negligence on their part.

I wish there was someone who could help you out. This is a lot all at once. Find someone who can take care of all these details for you. You need to calm down. Stress is bad for the baby.

As a last resort, I've heard you can leave the baby at a fire station, police station, or hospital. Please don't kill your child.

Ask your parents to live with them. If they refuse, call the cops. They're required to provide for you... at least where I live. You're not even old enough to work here.

Answer 3

Wow ... WOW ... YES, it is BAD (Very, Very, Very BAD to be Pregnant at 12 years of age ... how is any child able to earn the income and take care of/raise a child when they are a child themselves?

Have you thought yet WHY people are angry? Are YOU helping anywhere at all with ANY chores or doing anything for yourself (other than "clubbing" -- and I am very CONFUSED and CONCERNED that a 12 year old would have been allowed into a club in the first place -- they are LEGALLY REQUIRED to CARD for Underage Minors trying to get in) ...

I will BET that the REASON that your parents are UPSET and your Neighbor is UPSET is because you are being DISRESPECTFUL, Hateful, and Nasty to the Extreme (you state "I did it with a guy who said he liked me" -- Yeah, sure, the ONLY thing he likes is that he had sex and I am NOT going to say what he REALLY was thinking ...) ... and are MOST LIKELY LAZY -- expecting everyone around you to pick up after you, clean everything, take care of the PROBLEMS with your behaviors ... and NOT being willing to look at yourself and say -- "HEY ... this is NOT what the OTHER Girls my age are doing -- they are at Scout Camp Riding Horses, they are into sports, they are NOT pregnant, they are with mom and dad and they are doing chores and having FAMILY FUN."

My suggestion: Give the baby up for Adoption ... sign over your parental rights, get BACK into school, and DO NOT LET ANY BOY Touch you AGAIN UNTIL you are of LEGAL AGE! (and then ... ONLY after parenting classes, and lessons in BIRTH CONTROL).

Answer 4

Yeah, I have to agree with some people who already answered. It's not good at all to be pregnant at that young an age. I can see this being a joke, or real. If it is real you shouldn't be answering questions on yahoo, you should call the police, or a hospital. You could have your child at any moment. You can never be sure the child will come on time. It is also illegal for your parents to kick you out. You'll be fine though. You're life is going to continue. Just don't sit at your neighbors house. You need to be prepared.

Answer 5

In my school days, if an unmarried daughter of any age, had sex and became pregnant, some parents would punish her, then claim and keep the baby as theirs, thereby making it a sibling for the daughter. Yes, it's bad for a girl to have sex and be pregnant at 12 or any other age, that's less than 22, if she's not married.
But what your parents did, was cruel, unconstitutional, immoral and unethical. Senseless, too. TO kick one's own child out of the house for any reason, instead of punishing in a more proper way, is bad. Any parents who are like that, don't deserve to be parents. See if you can go to your uncle's house or talk to the Dept Of Social Services.

Answer 6

you aren't bad it was just a horrible decision that you made.your parents were wrong you should go to the clinic get some help I'm 12 to i wish i could help you. i know this sounds crazy but you shoulder got an abortion because your to young the best advice from me to you is that you should go and try to live with your grandma or a loving family member this guy is a sleazeball for having sex with you he needs to be put in jail i know this would hurt you but if you cant live with a family member talk to child services it also very ignorant to kick a 12 yr old child out in the world alone i wish you the best of luck keep in touch on this site later!! i want to see how your doing bye. im not pregnant but you can email me. if your a pervert trying to trick me f off but if you arent here is my email [e-mail]

Answer 7

It's not good,but your parents have no right to kick you out.Pregnant or not.You are twelve.You are a minor and that is illegal for your parents to kick you out.Call child protction services,and explain the situation.They will make your parents let you stay there.It is gonna be okay.Everything is gonna workout.It's gonna be hard but just hang in there.Please stay in school.Do not listen to people when they tell you your life is over.You got pregnant,you did not die.Just do what I told you,and they will handle it from there.Try this number(1-800-25- ABUSE).Tell them what state you are in and they can get you the right number if that isn't right.Take care of yourself and your new baby.Oh,yeah Congratulations on the new baby.If you want you can email me([e-mail])

Answer 8

You're going to need to get help.
280 pounds at 12 is WAY to much.
What type of guy got a 280 # 12 y/o Pregnant any way?

Answer 9

I would talk to a school counselor or school nurse or someone like that who could help direct you. You are going to need some help soon, and make some decisions, and you will need support for that, and try to find out of there is someplace else safe that you can go. The neighbors sound awful!

Answer 10

oh honey......thats a BIG no-no. Is it bad to be pregnant at the age of 12? I have to say, its pretty bad. In this case no i dont think your a slut but im pretty sure the kids at your school do. oh boy...do you know how painful it is to have a child? well your about to find out...Anyways you should just have the baby and try not to get into troble.

Answer 11

Yes. At 12 you are still growing and developeing and you have a lot more to go. At 12 years old you just started your fast growth spurt. You grow till ur 18-21.