use their kids to make themselves feel good like make their kids angry and then go and say my kid has add adhd or some bs like that there is no such thing as add adhd or w/e its parents that dont know how to be parents and shouldnt have kids, its also the other family members they treat me like crap still i am 24 and they still treat me like a piece of dirt. no wonder i havent got a g/f yet my subconcience is telling me that poeple are always going to treat me like my family have. id just llike to know how many other poeple have their parents, and other family members do this to them.
2007-01-05 15:28:17 · 11 answers · asked by luckydo6 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
sarah yeah maybe i do have a mental illness its caused by my family how about if i was your parent and i treated you like crap from the day you popped out. youd also have a mental illness
2007-01-05 15:41:45 · update #1
sarah yeah maybe i do have a mental illness its caused by my family how about if i was your parent and i treated you like crap from the day you popped out. youd also have a mental illness
2007-01-05 15:42:12 · update #2
if its that bad move out and start a new life and new friends remeber this you get treated the way you allow people to treat you tell them how you feel and then say when they can treat you the way you want to be treated then they can call you otherwise you dont need them in your life
2007-01-07 06:11:40 · answer #1 · answered by ariesfunram 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a physically abusive relationship with a man for years and when I finally got the courage to leave this man my Mothers comment to me was "You will never find a man that wants you since you have 2 children with this man" So yes I have had my family sh*t on me too and I can say I now have a husband who does NOT beat me and we have a son together. Not all people out there are going to treat you like your family has in the past. You need to take a chance and really get to know someone and who knows you might just end up having a family of your own someday. Good Luck and keep your chin up:)
2007-01-05 15:34:56 · answer #2 · answered by cmsmith114 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No such thing as add or adhd. Are you kidding me? Sounds like you need an attitude adjustment to me. Get a life and quit whining and be glad they didn't sell you into sex slavery. You are old enough to get away and make you own life and since you know so much.... it should be very easy for you to do just that.
I have a family member just like you who whines about how her siblings overachievedment. Like they should not achieve so she will look better. Poor thing. She didn't want to work like they did and she has adhd. Maybe you don't have add maybe you are mentaliy ill and should seek help.
2007-01-05 15:36:08 · answer #3 · answered by onedot.darling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I unfortunetly have parents who are sort of like this, I'm 18 and they never leave me alone to be honest, its really getting to me quite badly, badly enough that I would and am thinking some dark things at the moment, and considering I have just been dumped today it just makes it worse for me, but she said we will remain friends and that she is sorry so thats a positive in all of this ****
2007-01-05 18:34:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents are not like that, but my in-laws are. It's like they don't want there own children to succeed in life. My husband is the only normal one out of his 3 other brothers. They all have issues because of them.
2007-01-05 15:32:55 · answer #5 · answered by Jem 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'M SORRY THAT YOU ARE BEING TREATED LIKE THAT. BUT SINCE YOUR 24 YEARS OLD. MOVE OUT AND BE ON YOUR OWN. MAYBE IF YOU HAVE A FRIEND THAT YOU CAN SHARE A PLACE. BUT YOU NEED TO FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF. THEY ARE UNHAPPY AND TAKING IT OUT ON YOU. SO MY ADVICE IS MOVE ON .
2007-01-05 15:35:15 · answer #6 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there are alot of parents who use their kids in some way or another....but you have to remember now that you are an adult and now you have control over your life....
2007-01-05 15:31:36 · answer #7 · answered by b_fab115 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am 24 also. my mother died when i was 3 and my father is complete scum, who never wanted to take care of me. instead, he gave me away to his parents to raise. i was being raised by old people that hated my guts! they would always call me a whore, ****, liar, drug addict, etc............ my grandmother died when i was in 11th grade. when she died, they gave me away to some family that hated me also, EVERYTHING was my fault. i have a really hard time trusting any one now :(
2007-01-05 15:40:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As i lost both my parents in my teenage years i can not help you.
2007-01-05 15:32:27 · answer #9 · answered by MUSHMAN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So All your Problems ARE from your parents and YOU have nothing to do with them??
RIGHT!!
2007-01-05 15:31:05 · answer #10 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋