Family & Relationships - 29 December 2007

2007-12-29 11:53:21 · 15 answers · asked by pitch 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 18,, there is some guy,, actually my cousin and he loves me.. he is 29 he said that he has been thinking about me since 2 years but he was waiting for me to turn 18.. anyway he is cute and I used to like him but I never thought that I could oneday get married to him or anything, I'm still virgin, saving myself for real love, do you think it's wrong to marry when you're 18? is it wrong to marry someone older with 11 years? how could I be sure that I love him? I'm confused cuz sometimes I feel like I'm in love with him and sometimes like yeah ok he is good!! please I need help I'm so confused I don't know what to do?!!!

2007-12-29 11:50:13 · 38 answers · asked by BlueGurl26 1 in Singles & Dating

im 23 and have a girlfriend anna who is the mother to my 2yo daughter katie,iv been with anna for 5 years, im 70%happy in the relastionship. when i was 15 i dated my old next door neighbour natalie for something silly like 2 weeks, natalie was the first girl i really felt something for however after 2 weeks i just left her without saying a word and basicly ignored her.i dont know why i did that, maybe it was because i was shy or scared or just to imature to process those feelings i just dont know. now 7 years later im thinking about her all the time, and i feel really depressed like im suffocating, why am i feeling this after so many years, surely by now i should have completely forgotten about natalie,shouldent i?is it just that i want to be 15 again and have young love or is it i want natalie?shes engaged and has a child, i havent seen her since i was 15 so whats wrong with me. or is bcoz im thinkin what it would b like now if i had stayed with her, if id made a mistake 7years ago

2007-12-29 11:48:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been marred twice and my first wife has been married 6 times and is now divorced again

2007-12-29 11:48:38 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

MY BOYFRIEND AND I WAS JUST HAVING THIS CONVO. HE SAID THAT I AM HIS #1 NOW, BUT WHEN WE HAVE KIDS I WILL BE COME HIS #2. HE SAID THAT IT WILL BE THE KIDS THEN ME. I SAID THAT WE SHOULD BE ON THE SAME LEVEL.

INSTEAD OF IT BEING MY KIDS THEN MY WIFE, IT SHOULD BE MY WIFE AND KIDS.

WHAT ARE YOUR THOUGHTS?

2007-12-29 11:48:15 · 7 answers · asked by MISS TT 3 in Marriage & Divorce

What are some of the things you look for when you know someone is lieing?

2007-12-29 11:46:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and they start doing back flips wouldn't you say thats a good indication that your going to get the divorce without much of a hassel ?

2007-12-29 11:44:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He's my mom's friend's son and our families are going to vegas together monday. And last time I went to his house for his sister's party I was soo sick so I just sat there saying nothing the whole time. I don't want to feel left out again. With him and his brother and cousins. How do I make myself included and get him to talk to me??

2007-12-29 11:42:54 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had been single a long time when I married my husband. I loved him in a way, but mostly wanted to be married for security. The other day I heard the lyrics,
"She said she'd married her an architect,
Who kept her warm and safe and dry,
She would have liked to say she loved the man,
But she didn't like to lie."
Unlike the woman in the song, I realized that I deeply love my husband and am deeply appreciative of him because he does keep me "warm and safe and dry." Also, I realize that is how he shows his love... keeping me "warm and safe and dry."

2007-12-29 11:41:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-29 11:38:54 · 2 answers · asked by stillinshock 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was a pathological liar until recently. I got married in March, and I really love my husband. He knows I was a pathological liar. But he didn't know how serious. The problem is that when I first met him, before he and I even dated, I told him a few of these automatic stories that I tell everyone when I first meet them. I have never told him that none of those stories were true. And I always felt somewhat bad about it. But I haven't lied to him again. The problem is I wonder if I'm wrong for still not telling him the truth. I'm afraid that if I do, he won't trust me ever again or he might even leave me. I recently started going to church though too and I was told that I'm going to be "punished" for not telling him the truth and that he'll be taken from me. I wonder if I don't tell him another lie can I be forgiven for the ones I told him before he and I met ? Will he be taken from me if I don't tell him the truth about the first lies even if I never lie to him again? What can I do?

2007-12-29 11:37:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been married to my husband for 12 years, and we have 2 daughters. My husband tends to have wondering eyes at other women quite often. He calls waitresses "hun" in front of me, and the other night, I heard him talking on the phone with a friend about all the "MILF's" (Mom's I'd Like to Fuc-) that he saw the other night when we took our kids to see a movie. It used to really bug me when he did or said these things, but it's gotten to the point where it's just hurtful now. It really hurts my feelings because I've stuck by my husband through A LOT. I would bet waaay more then a lot of women would ever tolerate. I've always been dedicated and forgiving and faithful to him, and I've stayed with him because I love him and my kids adore him, but sometimes he is just so thoughtless!! SOOO.....guys tell me what you think about this and ladies, tell me what you think too. Please no "Just leave the bastard" type comments. We're married with children and that means a lot to me.

2007-12-29 11:34:09 · 34 answers · asked by See Dee 5 in Singles & Dating

My friend w/benefits & I have known each other 2 months. We started talking back at the end of Oct. & started sleeping together in Nov. Well, back in the first part of Nov. I asked him if he had any other fwbs & he said "no, that's why I haven't had sex in almost 2 months." But we haven't discussed "other people" since then. How should I bring it up to ask him if he's had sex w/anyone since he started having sex w/me? We have never used protection. Yes, I know that is a scary thought....please spare a lecture I already know it's stupid & I'm going to do something about it next time. I want to just ask him & if he says he has then I want to tell him that he needs to bring protection next time if there's ever a next time. (either way, whether he has or hasn't I want protection) If I ask him that way though, will he think I'm being weird or anything? I think I have a right to know. If you have any better ideas on how to word it please let me know.

2007-12-29 11:30:55 · 31 answers · asked by love my life 2 in Singles & Dating

Recently my boyfriend and I broke-up, I was over his house and he said " I don't have the same feelings for you that I once had. " I was so crushed ; I just broke down in tears. He said " I still will like us to be friends. " I just don't know what to do, I want him back but I guess he moved on. What should I do?

2007-12-29 11:26:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Since the beginning of last year me and this girl, lets call her yellow have been best friends. During the school year a girl we'll call her red moved in and she became friends with us too she was so nice and seemed like a true friend but started to change throughout the year and red started clinging to her till this day they treat me like dirt and i cant take it anymore even though i've confronted them more than enough times. I've been a great friend to both of them and i dont understand why they do that. It seems that yellow only seems to care about me when red isnt around and red might be moving again this year and im afraid yellow is gonna come back to me because she has no one else. Meanwhile yellow doesn't even realize Red is a b*tch or at least she pretands she doesn't becuase she tends to cling to a certain someone for some time until she finds someone better

This may seem immature and trust me i know i thought we all left this drama behind in middle school. I guess not

2007-12-29 11:26:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Me and my girlfriend have been together 8 months, and for the last month she has been living with me, because she lost her place and had no where else to go. I'm with her all week, we go out to eat and to the movies, etc. Anyway 3 weeks ago i told her a week in advance that on that saturday I was gonna go out with all my guy friends and she pitch a huge fit. Then this whole week shes been talking about how much fun she is gonna have with her friends this weekend when she goes out, but when i made plans to go out she got mad saying how could i make plans with out her. But the one thing that is really getting on my nerves is she has guy friends that she talks to on the phone but i'm not allowed to talk to girl that i've known since kindergarden, who i'm not sexually attracted to at all.

2007-12-29 11:23:59 · 17 answers · asked by Rodney, j 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-29 11:19:22 · 13 answers · asked by Dimples 2 in Singles & Dating

In all honesty I would have a bit of money if I didn't have kids. I told him to travel the world and be adventurous.

2007-12-29 11:17:57 · 39 answers · asked by D 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been in relationship with my boss since Sep. and we spend alot of time together, we respect one another at work and after work, and we pretty much enjoy each others company. The problem is not the age difference (20 years difference), but the fact that he was previously involved with the assistant manager at the same job that we're both at and he claims that they are just friends now. They used to live together, but now she moved out. Now, he is moving to another place...get this...he's moving next door to the girl he used to be with (the assistant manager). Yet he assures me things are fine.. I just can't visit him as often.
Does this sound shady? Should I break this off with him?I seem to fall into the same pattern of falling for the cute guy that has a tendency to lie, what are the signs I should look for so that I don't do this again?

2007-12-29 11:13:37 · 15 answers · asked by taf3781 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like him an my friends say it is obveous that he does he sits w/ me on the bus we ride every day he cracks a joke all da time!!(that agets annoying ) he is really cute wont stop smiling is funny and is nice to me

From my friend anna I have heard thet he does like me but is really mean to other kids this reminds me of my old bf austin he lied to me about his age he was with other girlshe even lied about hi sname and then to top it of he was screaming the f word at lityle kids!!! But I thinkmy friend anna likes hima nd she has given false advice before I think well im not sure but should I still like him He is sweet to ME! should my friends even care!

2007-12-29 11:10:19 · 3 answers · asked by coollio 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-29 11:10:18 · 18 answers · asked by valerier925 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel somewhat embaressed to post this because it feels like I should be able to handle this on my own. Last night, the man that I am seeing called me drunk and he had been drinking for 2 days straight. He told me how much he loves me and how much he wants it to work between us, etc. (We recently reconciled after a six month breakup.)

Today when he called, I was distant with him and told him I felt uncomfortable with him drinking for 2 days straight and that I had been worried about him. He said not to worry, and that drinking is not a problem for him.

He had to got to work, so we couldn't talk but I am feeling very uncomfortable about this.

I'd just like to hear another take on this.

2007-12-29 11:08:55 · 37 answers · asked by prairieprincess 5 in Singles & Dating

Wife doesn't believe that two people (man/woman) can just be friends. I had female friends (platonic) that she was jealous of and stopped talking to them because of my wifes insecurities. My question is this: Would you hide a friendship from your spouse to avoid conflict? There is an old friend (ex co-worker) I want to see (female) and I know my wife would make a big deal out it if I told her about it. What should I do?

2007-12-29 11:06:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is Internet Dating ok? or is it a bad idea? Because this girl on Yahoo!360 ask to be my girlfriend?

2007-12-29 11:05:08 · 5 answers · asked by skater boy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-29 11:03:29 · 7 answers · asked by Dandi 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my fiance just got engaged. Our wedding is set for 8/18/2009 (we have a while). My main problem is I do not have close friends who I would want in the wedding. My closest friend is dating my brother and I am afraid if I ask her to be my MOH and she breaks up with my brother then I am out of luck.

So my main question, are bridesmaids really necessary? We are having a small ceremony (hopefully) and do not want a big ordeal made out of it.

2007-12-29 11:01:21 · 12 answers · asked by iridescent_opal 2 in Weddings

2007-12-29 11:00:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am just wondering if what most girls like. dO they prefer a guy who is skinny but not a skeleton and has a six pack or a guy who is a little bigger (not fat) and more intimidating? I am 6'3 and I weigh 170. I have a six pack but I am not exactly a big guy. Im just wondering is all.

2007-12-29 10:56:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy I know is getting married, I've been acquainted with him for a few years but wouldn't really classify him as a close friend or even a friend at all considering how rarely we communicate with each other.

He's getting married though and having a small wedding with close friends and relatives, and my friend is close friends with the bride. The invitation states they can bring one guest. She said she doesn't know any guys who aren't already invited or in the wedding so she wanted to know if I'd like to be her +1 since I do know them and she figured I'd enjoy it.

My question is though isn't the +1 typically supposed to be someone you're seeing or your spouse not usually a friend? Would it be appropriate for me to go as her guest or should I thank her and decline?

2007-12-29 10:54:57 · 8 answers · asked by Seeing you I loose myself 2 in Weddings

2007-12-29 10:51:00 · 16 answers · asked by Stacey N 1 in Singles & Dating