Family & Relationships - 29 December 2007

ok...so my boy friend is older then me..and we only have half a year together before he leaves for somewere...but theres these girls in his age that knows he likes..use to like this girl..he tells me he loveme more then her but i can t helpbut feel he still loveher..i dont know wut to do...none ofo his friends like me..i rilly love him and i want him to be happy...should i let the relationship end now..i rilly dont want him to pick..i'm scared i will loose him...but i rolly love him and i dont want to hurt him...if i let go do u think he'll be happy? should i let go...and tell him we sould be friends...? please give me so advice in wut to do please ?

2007-12-29 13:36:24 · 7 answers · asked by ^-^; 2 in Singles & Dating

Been together 20 years
I love him
I believe he loves me
He's depressed
He doesn't work
He's becoming very passive agressive
Doesn't do his share any more (I work, he doesn't)
Children involved, not teens yet
He's got a chronic and expensive illness
No passion, no sex
Don't sleep together any more
He spends all day sleeping and most of the night on the computer doing first shooter games
He used to be addicted to online porn. I don't think he does this much any more if at all. That's really when I stopped feeling passionate towards him.
Used to help with parenting, now pretty much disengaged
I fear he's suicidal
He's becoming more outwardly angry
He has never hit or abused me. He has never really even yelled at me.


I feel responsible for him. He can't survive without me. No job skills. No insurance.

I committed to him for life when we married.

He's very depressed and unhappy with his life, but doesn't seem able to change...

What would you do?

2007-12-29 13:33:54 · 20 answers · asked by Florida Chica 2 in Marriage & Divorce

will it just like happen if it is?? or do you have to "want it" for it to happen...? whta do you think

like "soul mates"
do you think if two people are meant to be togrther then something will happen and they will be together??
or what do you think?!!

2007-12-29 13:31:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-29 13:30:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Going out for more than a month. Thanksgiving I got drunk at a dinner party and passed out in front of ALL HIS FRIENDS!!! (so embarrassing) He has been calling me & we had gone out. Last time I saw him (last Thursday) we spend the day together, he made lunch 4 me and later we cook dinner together, spend the night. I haven’t heard from him ever since. Is a pattern with him, we spend some time together, he doesn’t call for a couple of days & then he starts calling every day till I see him again… we have sex & the whole thing starts again. WTF! With this behavior ? Is this normal of guys?

2007-12-29 13:29:18 · 28 answers · asked by Bri 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-29 13:29:17 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

where do u like girls to put their hands while kissing or making out?
ex: waist, playing with hair, shoulders, ?????????

2007-12-29 13:28:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My dad sometimes can be really angry with me. Usually he just yells at me, but at times.....Here's a list of what he's occasionally done for discipline:
-Slapped me in the face (no bruises though)
-Kicked me down the stairs (it was only three stairs-I didn't sprain my ankle)
-Thrown a rock at me 'cause I wouldn't answer him while I was exercising my turkey (he said it wasn't going to hit me, but it landed just a couple feet from my turkey)
-Grabbed me by the hair (no bruises)
-Spanked me in butt and legs with a riding crop (it DID bruise my legs)
-Smacked my brother and mine's heads together (no bruises, but it hurt)
-Smacked me against the wall
Of course, there are really good times, for example, he flew all the way to a poultry show at the other end of the state just for me in our airplane, I have my own cell phone, my own laptop (what I'm writing this with), tries to make me happy by buying me things. I know he loves me, but are physical discipline methods abuse?

2007-12-29 13:27:41 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i was wondering because the symantics never get through and can be misinterperated depending on the other persons mood, especially when passing some humor.

2007-12-29 13:26:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-29 13:26:34 · 14 answers · asked by Darla 2 in Singles & Dating

My friends are making me really pissed off!!! They keep saying your girlfriend is pimple covered and fat!!! I already told them to stop and they still keep doing it. I dont want to get in any fist fights cuz Ive already gotten in 10 this year and suspended from all of them. What should I do!!!???

2007-12-29 13:24:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-12-29 13:22:49 · 13 answers · asked by ★SuGar and SpiCe★ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

He makes me so miserable. The ONLY time he gives me attention is when he wants sex. Everything I say or do is 'stupid' he doesn't trust me, I have NO friends, but he is out with his friends watching a ball game right now. I am the major financial supporter of the family, but he makes sure the kids are where they need to be. (They are 4 & 7, when we fight, they beg us not to get divorced) I couldn't continue with my current work schedule without him doing what he does. Most of the time I really HATE him, but occasionally he is in a decent mood and we get along. I try to talk with him, but he says the way I say things 'just pisses him off' so he won't talk about his mood swings. He blows up at me at the drop of a hat. I also do 75% or more of the housework, along with my full time job. He only works about 30 hours a week, and constantly is mad when the house is dirty or something he wants to wear is not clean. Please help, I just need some advice. We have 8 yrs behind us.

2007-12-29 13:21:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-29 13:18:58 · 34 answers · asked by geordie 3 in Singles & Dating

Maybe both of you were unhappy in the relationships you were in when the two of you met...What if you then eventually married that person, only to be cheated on by them or you cheat on them? Can cheating be a vicious cycle?

2007-12-29 13:14:32 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

http://www.myspace.com/bluelion11

2007-12-29 13:14:29 · 29 answers · asked by landrewlion11 2 in Singles & Dating

Say if your female or male. Why do you regret it/Why dont you regret it?

2007-12-29 13:12:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a question. Okay sooooooooooooooooooo please answer if you know the question. Do guys and girls orgasms feel the same?

2007-12-29 13:09:03 · 6 answers · asked by MiniLo 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so theres this guy i like and im not really sure if he likes me or not. we talked a lot to each other prior to halloween when my friend was being strange that evening and was like M ur J's bf now. and then she wouldnt let him leave without hugging me which he did and it was quite awkward... nice but awkward. now we barely talk but i ALWAYS catch him staring at me. i dont know wut to think...HELP! thanx

2007-12-29 13:07:59 · 1 answers · asked by Ambellina 2 in Singles & Dating

shes not right for him!>?

2007-12-29 13:07:05 · 18 answers · asked by Jaci L 1 in Singles & Dating

Help anyone??

2007-12-29 13:07:00 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Men/Guys, I need your expert opinion on this!?
Ok...I'm Azn/Blk, and there are these 2 white guys who only hang out with the "beautiful" white girls in class....but they always watch me. ALWAYS. One even got right in my face for a good five minutes or more staring until I looked back and he finally looked away.

I never pay them any attention, but they still always stare when I come into a room. I used to talk to one of the guys, but we just stopped talking and the other one just ignored me when I tried to speak, but like I think more in a self conscious way...like everytime we make accidental eye contact, he looks away really quickly.

So guys, would you think this girl was a B!tch? Why do you just stare and not say anything? Would you continue staring at the girl if you thought she was a B!tch?

What should she do? Just smile?

2007-12-29 13:05:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The husband has a good job. The wife stays home and home schools the 2 children. In order to help out, the husband does all the laundry. The husband also pays $200 a month for a housekeeper. The wife cooks meals and goes shopping. Oh, one more thing, she only puts out sex about once a month. Is this equal or is the husband being taken advantage of?

2007-12-29 13:00:14 · 18 answers · asked by BradNahler 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Thought I would have figured it out by now, but nope... still clueless in the way of man.

2007-12-29 12:59:52 · 9 answers · asked by blackbug2004 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 21 yr old , go to school and work part time. I am usually told that I am pretty intelligent and pretty , however when it comes to meeting the right jewish guy I have a pretty big dillema including my friends. Being a traditional jewish girl is hard and meeting the right jewish guy is far imposible than i thought. If you have any recommendations as to where could possibly be the best bet of finding a decent Jewish guy. Thanx

2007-12-29 12:56:19 · 2 answers · asked by smartgrl 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so ...
I was wondering if i have a serious problem.
So i havent had a bf in like a year and a half. I dont think im extremly ugly( i have wavy red hair and are a avererage weight) . Im 13 by the way. Is it cause im not a slut? I know guys arent all that but it would be nice to have a bf.
wow so i cant explain things so if this doesnt make any sense at all just ignore it =)

2007-12-29 12:54:20 · 35 answers · asked by Rebecca 2 in Singles & Dating

they ask for money and other things does that mean they are from there how mean are the nigerians

2007-12-29 12:53:01 · 8 answers · asked by connie s 1 in Friends

2007-12-29 12:47:17 · 28 answers · asked by jolly 1 in Singles & Dating

Isn't it wrong for a girl to make you feel all mixed up and crazy inside with these strong feelings for her, making it hard to eat, and you can't sleep cause you're thinking of her; don't you hate all you have to go through when the other doesn't feel the same?

2007-12-29 12:45:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

That they're being annoying and be upfront about it, or is that rude?

2007-12-29 12:42:06 · 7 answers · asked by Megan 6 in Friends