Ok so ...
I was wondering if i have a serious problem.
So i havent had a bf in like a year and a half. I dont think im extremly ugly( i have wavy red hair and are a avererage weight) . Im 13 by the way. Is it cause im not a slut? I know guys arent all that but it would be nice to have a bf.
wow so i cant explain things so if this doesnt make any sense at all just ignore it =)
2007-12-29 12:54:20 · 35 answers · asked by Rebecca 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks everyone! =D
2007-12-29 13:51:02 · update #1
I think you have A LOT of years ahead of you to find a bf and this is the last thing you should be worrying about at your age. Not having a bf in middle school definitely does not mean you are a loser or have any kind of problem. I didn't have my first bf till college and I know many others who are the same way. You may feel differently right now when it seems like others have a bf around you, but seriously there is a very very low chance that people ever develop a serious relationship that young. My advice is for you to focus on more important things like doing well in school so you'll have a successful future that won't depend on whether or not you have a man.
2007-12-29 13:00:45 · answer #1 · answered by Jxdy11 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not having a boyfriend doesn't make you a loser. You are only 13, you have a very long way to go in life. I had my first real boyfriend when I was almost 17 and I never felt the need for one at such a young age. I am 29 now and I am getting married next weekend so I am sure you will find the man of your dreams soon or later. Just enjoy life as it comes and don't worry about it now... Enjoy the beauty of being a teen, real problems will come later!!
2007-12-29 13:01:53 · answer #2 · answered by Bad&Ugly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing about boys and boy friends is that, that part of you life will start heating up as you get a little older. My love life didn't really start taking off until I was a freshman in high school, I had a steady boyfriend for a year then he broke up with me for a cheerleader. After that is I had another steady boyfriend after I graduated and he was still a senior. Then I joined the military and got married and divorced.
I guess what I'm trying to say is though frustrating to see those around you with guys and going guy crazy, your time will come to shine. It never passes a person by I promise. You just need to have patience, hold your head up and know that someone at your school does have a crush on you - they just haven't let it be known yet - and it could be someone that knows that you are out of his league.
2007-12-29 13:02:51 · answer #3 · answered by Time To Go 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah..I don't think your a loser at all! It's completely normal..
Your so young..you don't need a bf that early..You will eventually
find that special someone later in life. Trust me on that. Actually, I never ever had a bf and I'm already sixteen, which is the age that almost every girl has a bf already at my high school lol.
ok well hope this helps!
Best of Luck!!:)
2007-12-29 13:05:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your not a loser. It's perfectly fine to not have a boyfriend, and your 13. People live till 80. You have your whole life ahead of you. Don't rush it, enjoy it. Wait till your 15-16. I made that mistake and almost did some stupid stuff because I originally looked at women for looks... now, my relationships last 8+ months (pending on if the girl pressures me to do something I'm not willing to do), and My current one feels like a winner, but give it time. You'll find the person, as I said you have your whole life ahead of you.
2007-12-29 12:59:22 · answer #5 · answered by tldarktemplarlt 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no ur not a loser just because you havent had a boy friend. and dont change ur personality people will think ur a poser if you do. and ur just 13 u still ahve high school. =D thats what i always think. And there will be ALOT more people in high school than middle school. so ull find someone and just because you dont have a bf doesnt mean that ur a loser. ull pull through
2007-12-30 03:36:20 · answer #6 · answered by salsa&chips 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no! a serious problem?!! youre not a loser. i havent had a bf yet adn im older than you. im not a loser. and dont become a **** just to get a bf. im sorry if this sounds harsh. but guys should not be the most important things in a 13 year-old girl's life.
2007-12-29 12:58:51 · answer #7 · answered by aj 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no your not
im 15 and guys only like me cuz they think they get some right?
well it sucks i can never find the right person ou have to keep looking i guess for the right person
guys only want something and maybe when they get older they will want someone who isnt a whore
but for now you have to keep what you have..please just dont give it away and dont be easy
someday gana find the right guy and its cuz you waited
u no? do u get what im saying or am i just saying stuff likea retard?
2007-12-29 13:04:18 · answer #8 · answered by Shannon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you don't have any serious problems at all. You're 13. I didn't have a date until after high school and I was our prom queen. I also didn't have a date to that prom until last minute. Watch out boys, when your time comes... just stay true to yourself and don't do things just to fit in..... be an original!!
2007-12-29 12:59:22 · answer #9 · answered by Claire 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're so young. In the overall picture life has just begun, so don't worry about anything. Just try to do well in school and be a good person and everything else will fall into place.
2007-12-29 12:57:29 · answer #10 · answered by the Boss 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋