Going out for more than a month. Thanksgiving I got drunk at a dinner party and passed out in front of ALL HIS FRIENDS!!! (so embarrassing) He has been calling me & we had gone out. Last time I saw him (last Thursday) we spend the day together, he made lunch 4 me and later we cook dinner together, spend the night. I haven’t heard from him ever since. Is a pattern with him, we spend some time together, he doesn’t call for a couple of days & then he starts calling every day till I see him again… we have sex & the whole thing starts again. WTF! With this behavior ? Is this normal of guys?
2007-12-29 13:29:18 · 28 answers · asked by Bri 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's a man.
There I said it.
Need I say more?
Now. They are Trainable...
You just have to give them your commands...and train them!!
2007-12-29 13:33:29 · answer #1 · answered by Molly 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He has put you into the category of "ho" in his mind. He doesn't care about you at all. When you got drunk and passed out in front of all of his friends, you essentially showed them all (including him) that you really aren't the kind of girl to have a serious, caring relationship with.
So now he says whatever he needs to say to get you into bed, and then that's it. That's all he wanted, and that's all you're worth to him.
So, I'd say that it's time to move on, go make some new friends, and this time act with some self respect so that any guy who might actually be interested in you, feels like you might be someone worth pursuing for a real relationship.
That's how it works.
2007-12-29 21:33:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you for sex. Think about it, you have sex with him then it takes him a while to become randy again, then he cant stop calling you until his itch is scratched. I think you sound confused and immature - getting drunk and passing out in front of his friends, or allowing yourself to get used like this isnt good. You have yr life ahead of you so I hope you will love and respect yourself in the way you behave and go on to have a good life.
2007-12-29 21:36:58 · answer #3 · answered by pete the pirate 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're his booty call. He doesn't want a relationship with you. You're allowing this behaviour b/c everytime he calls you answer the phone and everytime he wants to sleep with you, he can. And you passed out in front of his friends....you can kiss any hopes of a relationship goodbye.
2007-12-29 21:32:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants to get in your pants it's as simple as that and if you want to tell him you feel uncomfortable and don't want to have sex. If you don't mind messing around like that though next time he call you up tell him you want him and when he wants to be intimate tell him you don't feel like it and maybe later when you do. It'll give you some power over him.
2007-12-29 21:34:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal if he is a self-centered jerk! He's using you to get what he wants...don't hate the player, hate the game.....well it takes the players for the game to go on. Let him call....don't answer. You deserve better than that. Go find yourself a real man.
2007-12-29 21:33:46 · answer #6 · answered by littleone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be one of those guys where after they sleep with a girl they don't have contact for a few days. One of his friends might have given him some stupid advice who knows? If it bothers you then you should talk to him about it. Yeah I know easy to say but really just like TRY to talk to him about it maybe.
2007-12-29 21:34:21 · answer #7 · answered by beccalynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys are like that and others aren't. for some reason i think he isn't just talking to u, there may be other girls. but then again i don't know his situation, I'm just assuming. you should talk to him. see what he wants. (just be careful. you don't want this to be a pattern because you can get hurt)
2007-12-29 21:34:10 · answer #8 · answered by 007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex with him one time, and see what happens. No, this is not normal for a guy that is really interested in being with you, but for someone that is using you - perhaps.
Take Care,
~J.M.
2007-12-29 21:33:50 · answer #9 · answered by lightninbug76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just using you. Whenever he gets horny he calls u cause he thinks u easy. If i was you i'd move on cause life is too short to play games.
2007-12-29 21:33:16 · answer #10 · answered by Lex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is getting what he wants but are you getting what you want??? that's the real question. sound like you should abstain from sex for a wile and talk to him cause something isn't right.
2007-12-29 21:34:52 · answer #11 · answered by are ya fer real 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋