Family & Relationships - 29 December 2007

I have been offered a job in Madrid. Due to some quite serious debts my other half could not come with me. So basically I have to choose between my career and my relationship. I love him, i really do but i just dont know what to do.

The pay is 20,000euro and I'm not sure if I could live on that. I dont speak Spanish and I can most likely get a better paid job in England. So personally I dont think its a 'once in a lifetime opportunity' as I could look in 2 years and get a job abroad.

I jus think if I take it, I'll miss my boyf far too much and regret going and if I dont take it I might regret it if I dont get a better job.

What should I do?!

2007-12-29 00:35:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My BF is 30 and I am 24 yrs old.My bf got married 4 months back under family pressure.we are in contact nw also as we talk on phone. but i am unable to accept his marriage. i am not able to believe my love with someone else. i am not able to bear this. i am v depressed and feel all alone.i am not interested in anything now. and i want to kill myself? plz help me anyone plz

2007-12-29 00:29:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-29 00:28:26 · 18 answers · asked by Kate G 2 in Singles & Dating

look at me while i'm playing?

2007-12-29 00:24:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i cant stand it any more...im 13 anorexic with bulimic tendencies and a few weeks ago i told my friends (i swear, the biggest mistake of my life) we have grown appart alot! i dont even think i like them anymore..they just take it as a joke and one of them says she wants to be anorexic!nd they think i like it and i want to be anorexic! and it hurts when they say things like you cut yourself for attention...what should i do about them...and talking to them wont help xx??

2007-12-29 00:23:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what should i wear tonight.?.
my boy friend is taking me out on his yacht, with posh dinner, then going back to his for drinks..

what the hell should i wear?


thanks in advance..x

2007-12-29 00:20:50 · 7 answers · asked by mini mouse.........x 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-29 00:20:18 · 4 answers · asked by tenderdeb627 1 in Singles & Dating

I know that all mother's think their kids are gorgeous, but..... My friend is very attractive for a woman in her 50's, her daughter on the other hand is very masculine looking, doesn't do a thing to make herself look any better. She has eyebrows like two catepillars across her forehead, her eyes are crooked, doesn't wear a stitch of makeup (and she needs it BADLY,) and basically she looks like the Cat in the Hat (if he was human.) She has two grandchildren, the little boy is adorable and the little girl....well is a carbon copy of her mother...poor baby.
We work together and she has pictures of them all over her desk, when people stop by to chat with her, she's always showing off her pictures...People make comments on how cute the little boy is, but say stuff like 'Oh your daughter must look like her Dad, or uh huh, very nice.' And that "oh the baby looks just like her mom (and roll their eyes when she isn't looking.) I guess I should just look the other way, right?

2007-12-29 00:18:48 · 15 answers · asked by serialmom12 5 in Friends

Here goes: GF broke up w/ me 3.5 wks ago after being together 10 mos. during the last 2-3 mos. I finished a project that I worked with since we began dating and so I had alot of free time on my hands and always was around and wanted to always see her, etc. she is a full time college student and her friends dont live her so they came home for holiday break and i would get upset that she wanted to see them without me and i always wanted to be around her(I know this is really not right). anyways our relationship was amazing and we had a connection that neither of us had ever before and she spoke of the future together, where we would live, kids, dogs, etc. she said when she broke up w/ me she lost attraction for me. I know she has spoke to and hung out w/ her ex recently. I have gotten the typical advice (no contact, move on, etc.) I dont want to though since we have had a connection like no other and I hurt the relationship with my recent neediness..if there is any advice please help me.

2007-12-29 00:18:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My family consists of me (I'm 21), my 13yo best friend (Jea), my 1yo daughter (N) and J's unborn daughter (Jea is pregnant in 9th month). This is not the usual type of family but the best for us. Jea and I run the family. We're both intelligent and responsible and we solve problems together. When N grows up a little she would be treated as equal, we won't play God-slave games (like most parents do with their children). Jea is just as responsible for the family as me.
How about your families? Do you have unusual type of family?

2007-12-29 00:15:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

the answers community says.. it's bad for my marriage...

now.. i hint, i tell - he gets defensive and annoyed. and says i'm small minded jealous, this that.

so what's the best way. how would u react if ur a guy, what's the best way to tell you that I don't like it and I don't want it....

Thanks, God bless.

2007-12-29 00:15:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Lately I have been thinking about this, and I believe that it's true. Women are always on the lookout for someone they can rely on and trust in, and if you can give them that, then they will put up with anything.

2007-12-29 00:12:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if its not ok for men to look at women as sex objects, then why is it ok for women to look at men as sex objects? Now I understand where women come from when they say they wanted to be treated as someone, not something, because sometimes I feel the same way. Like when I was in my p.e lesson there were a load of girls saying to us boys to take our tops off (including me), and another time when I was walking in town a girl grabbed something of mine, and another time when some girls wolf whistled at me. Its times like those I wish I was a fat ugly minger. I hope there are some boys/men who feel the same about this.

2007-12-29 00:11:52 · 22 answers · asked by Axehole 2 in Singles & Dating

why?!?

2007-12-29 00:06:41 · 13 answers · asked by άЌίτά 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-29 00:06:09 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am a girl in need of a boyfriend =l

2007-12-29 00:06:00 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im dating this guy for almost 3 months now and he told me I should open to him and say what I feel. Its very difficult for me because im not an open person and its hard for me to share my feelings. I like him and dont want him to think I dont. We had a couple of conversations about this and yesterday he told me that I didnt care cos this week i didnt sent him any text messages (i called him but I dont wanna be a girl that calls and texts all the time, I ve never dated anybody for so long and I dont know what should I do). Is it ok that he feels that way?

2007-12-29 00:05:46 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating