Im dating this guy for almost 3 months now and he told me I should open to him and say what I feel. Its very difficult for me because im not an open person and its hard for me to share my feelings. I like him and dont want him to think I dont. We had a couple of conversations about this and yesterday he told me that I didnt care cos this week i didnt sent him any text messages (i called him but I dont wanna be a girl that calls and texts all the time, I ve never dated anybody for so long and I dont know what should I do). Is it ok that he feels that way?
2007-12-29 00:05:46 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to let him know that you are a cautious person and that's you and he just needs to be understanding of that. Express what you want to and in the right way, don't let someone push you into it. But also understand that people need to know in relationships what the other person is thinking sometimes, so be honest and do it in a way you feel comfortable. Tell him your reason for not texting/calling and then discuss these things so you have some agreement what is comfortable for both of you, not just him. He needs to lighten up a bit too, let him know that.
2007-12-29 00:13:47 · answer #1 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...openness is very essential in a relationship...
you should always let him know that you care for him by doing simple things like sending him messages that convey that he is important to you...
even if you are not used to this you have to try because men want to feel always that their women likes them...
i hope my answer helped...=)
2007-12-29 08:18:18 · answer #2 · answered by michelle_chevon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋