My BF is 30 and I am 24 yrs old.My bf got married 4 months back under family pressure.we are in contact nw also as we talk on phone. but i am unable to accept his marriage. i am not able to believe my love with someone else. i am not able to bear this. i am v depressed and feel all alone.i am not interested in anything now. and i want to kill myself? plz help me anyone plz
2007-12-29 00:29:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
! You are depressed and lonely and your so called BF is with someone else organising his future! Think hard! what kind of bf was he to leave the one he loved and settle for and an unknown person due to family pressure?. Wasnt he responsible enough to tell his family that he had found you as his life partner?. If he could dump you and marry someone else cos of his family, then obviously he wasnt the right person for you. Why are you crying over him? Its not worth it!!! He didnt care about love or you, so, why are you wasting your tears over him??? Do not allow yourself to speak to him, he has already betrayed you, so, dont make yourself low by crying over him. Take him out of your mind for good and move on. He's not a child, he has made the final deceision to be with someone else. so, forget him! You dont deserve him!
2007-12-29 00:33:06 · answer #1 · answered by cherry babe 7 · 0⤊ 5⤋
He is your boyfriend yet he married someone else? Do I assume that you are both muslim?
All you can do is try to move on with your life,sitting around moping will get you no-where.
Just make a clean break from him now,he shouldn't even be in contact with you now he's married,it's not as if you were just friends. Think of his new wife,I mean would you like to find out about the man you just got married to being in contact with his ex? I doubt it.
Please don't go doing anything silly such as taking your own life,no man is worth that,and one day you WILL get over him and be happy again.
Times a great healer,so just give yourself that time.
2007-12-29 00:39:46 · answer #2 · answered by tinyfeet64 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about this for a minute, if he got married under family pressure then he is not strong enough a characters to have his own choices. You feel like this because you though he was the one for you.. Step back for a while and you will see that he didn't deserve your love. Dry your eyes and think to yourself I can do better than that, hold your head up and find yourself someone who deserves the love you have to give. I know how it feels to love someone and have it thrown back in my face. So contact me if you want someone to chat to, good luck.
2007-12-29 03:12:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now wait just a minute, what is this "family pressure" stuff? He's 30 YEARS OLD! This guy is lying like a rug to you, get a clue honey, he's a big jerk! He is talking to you and he's married to someone else? Double jerk!
Wake up, get a grip and don't be so gullible next time. Men lie all the time and you need to know how to protect yourself. Kill yourself? Why because he's an idiot? You should be mad as hell and tell this guy you never want to see him again.
You deserve better. Respect yourself and value who you are and then someone else will too.
2007-12-29 00:34:46 · answer #4 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You dont say where you live or how his marriage came about. The name Priya is Hindi isnt it? Is this becaus it was an arranged marriage for him? Honey you need to talk to a professional about this and get help. No man is worth giving your life for, he has to get on with his life no matter what his feelings and if I am brutally honest if he loved you thatmuch he would have said no to the marriage in the first place.
2007-12-29 00:37:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Was this an arranged marriage Priya? I know of a few situations at work where parents have forced their children, regardless of age, into marriages - and lives are damaged as a result. Some of these traditions are frustrating, to say the least.
2007-12-29 00:35:41 · answer #6 · answered by Just some guy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don`t think of anything but God first,,,,,, really we are living for God not for an individual ,,,,pray to God and focus on true life and use the wisdom that God given and find a real spiritual man whose dedicates himself to life of family and children , do`nt fall in love with materialistic people who have lost the true track of life ,,,,,,,,,and remember students should never give up on life as God condemns suicide , He want us to grow right in this world for the next,,,,,,,
2007-12-29 01:32:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wish him..happy married life. leave him. you also better to concentrate on job, family. For few days, you feel but, you will get a new life. whether family pressure or something else, a man who is not bold to say the truth is not a reliable one in future. save your life. Even if you married him, on family pressure he may leave you. so, thank God.
2007-12-29 00:41:16 · answer #8 · answered by Tamil from Vellore 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just dont kill yourself, things will always get better. Nothing is worth being all depressed and stuff. You can bear it, this bad feeling will soon go away, it will take time. Until then you need to find friends to hang out with they will help you alot.
2007-12-29 00:34:57 · answer #9 · answered by what? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If this is how you feel sweetie, then you desperately need some counseling. There is nothing anyone up here can say to advise you... Please seek the advise of your Doctor... he or she can help you with this ok?? Things will only get better honey... just get some help to guide you ok???
2007-12-29 00:33:26 · answer #10 · answered by Racer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋