Here goes: GF broke up w/ me 3.5 wks ago after being together 10 mos. during the last 2-3 mos. I finished a project that I worked with since we began dating and so I had alot of free time on my hands and always was around and wanted to always see her, etc. she is a full time college student and her friends dont live her so they came home for holiday break and i would get upset that she wanted to see them without me and i always wanted to be around her(I know this is really not right). anyways our relationship was amazing and we had a connection that neither of us had ever before and she spoke of the future together, where we would live, kids, dogs, etc. she said when she broke up w/ me she lost attraction for me. I know she has spoke to and hung out w/ her ex recently. I have gotten the typical advice (no contact, move on, etc.) I dont want to though since we have had a connection like no other and I hurt the relationship with my recent neediness..if there is any advice please help me.
2007-12-29 00:18:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ps i dont want to forcefully make her jealous b/c those are games
2007-12-29 00:18:44 · update #1
then protect her die for her if you want to but make sure she's always safe and protected by you or her friends
2007-12-29 00:30:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. Everybody plays the fool"
2. Love Hurts
3What becomes of the brokenhearted
4 She's Gone
These songs are just a sample of the gazzillion one we all hear once in awhile. Its painfull. But you will surrive and find someone new. The right one that makes all the connections emotionally and physically. The right one. Don't give up.
2007-12-29 08:43:35 · answer #2 · answered by Mike S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you need to address your "neediness"... that is not an attractive trait in anyone. Sounds to me like she is NOT going to take you back, and yes, you do need to move on, whether you like it or not.
2007-12-29 08:23:05 · answer #3 · answered by Racer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude.. have u have u heard the saying that old dry woods burn faster? well.. shes gone cos the flame between her n her ex still burns hotter n hotter.. i hate to say this but.. shes gone. get over it.
2007-12-29 08:26:26 · answer #4 · answered by Light 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first find out if she really still loves you. be kind whe you say it. but also be prepared to accept it if she says that she doesnt love you anymore (hopefully, she wont say that). but you will have to get on with your life sooner or later.
2007-12-29 08:24:10 · answer #5 · answered by lorenzo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a hobbie so u dont hav sooo much free time
2007-12-29 08:24:48 · answer #6 · answered by Adam T. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋