Family & Relationships - 29 December 2007

2007-12-29 03:21:56 · 17 answers · asked by ME 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-29 03:21:12 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am going thru a divorce i have a best male friend that has been there for me ,he has been great a couple of days ago i jumped in conclusions we live 8oo miles apart he didn't call me all day and i finally text him i said call me he said no....i then called him back to back non stop wanting an answer he did and he said he could not finish his text........he meant to write no later i know the type of work he does i was in the same field i should of known better.anyway he said he had it that he will call me believe me when i say its wonderful the bond we had and just loosing his friendship will kill me what can i do i have not called since do you think he will call back

2007-12-29 03:21:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

TONIGHT I am attending the wedding of an old family friend. My parents and I were invited, but the invitation did not include a "plus one" for my boyfriend of two years, who the bride has not met. Yesterday, against my wishes, my mother called the mother of the bride and asked to have him invited, and the mother of the bride said yes, but I do not feel comfortable because I strive to follow etiquette rules, particularly in regards to weddings. Is it now rude not to bring my boyfriend?

2007-12-29 03:19:46 · 14 answers · asked by musey 2 in Weddings

ok this girl asked me out yesterday and idk if i should go out wit her
u smart ppl out there help me!
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2007-12-29 03:18:56 · 30 answers · asked by fresh 4 in Singles & Dating

they scream..and sometimes my dad leaves and goes to hotelss.

2007-12-29 03:18:45 · 15 answers · asked by sam w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-29 03:17:41 · 23 answers · asked by . 6 in Singles & Dating

If a married woman divorces and ends up with her lover who is an alcoholic & has nothing financially to offer her really be happy with him even though she feels she is in love with him. If her lover was filling voids in her marriage such as love & affection so she feels like she wants to be with him in the future but, is blind to the whole picture because she has never had the opportunity to be in a "living with him "situation really make that relationship work out in the end. Is it possible for her to see the light before divorcing if her lover continues to shower her with attention & affection because this is really all he has to offer? Has anyone out there ever been in this situation-divorced your husband to be with lover & then realized you made a big mistake once reality sets in. Also, can the lover ever really trust the woman who was cheating on her husband & feel he has to be on his toes from then on in for fear that she will leave him, also.

2007-12-29 03:12:18 · 13 answers · asked by Mary B 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am thirteen and i have dreams at night where i am kissing my crush. it really grosses me out but i like it when the dream is happening. is this normal? why it this happening???

2007-12-29 03:12:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

His younger brother Ryan is here and Ryans friend and now Jack (my boyfriend) is being a little bit mean. Reading my messages i sent him out loud. He wanted me to come here. I ahd to get out of babysitting just to come here.

2007-12-29 03:11:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

trying to better plan my retirement & hear that I can collect some sort of compensation for being married 10 yrs. or more...true/false? don't want to stir the ex or the new wife, is there a way I can find this out? i have pertinent info on the ex, ex:ss#. what advice is out there? thank you!

2007-12-29 03:10:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was talking to my b-friend on the phone and he was playing a video game .... i was asking him about his day ....and just making talk ...well i stopped talking and he got all mad and asked me why i wasn't talking i said i am and he said NO YOUR NOT YOUR SITTING THERE ACTING LIKE A LITTLE *** .....NOT TALKING ....i hung up on him before he could say anything else .....What am i suppose to do ?

2007-12-29 03:09:44 · 11 answers · asked by sportsstarcutie11 1 in Friends

We've been sending messages from time to time. I seem to say alot more than he does. He is listed as single and was recently dumped. He knows i'm married. When we contacted each other, he seemed happy to hear from me and asked me how i was. But it seems that i say and ask more about him than he does of me, if that makes sense. So, i decided to tell him why i needed to stop contact with him because i'm married and was thinking about him and the fact that he doesn't really say too much when we do talk. Should i have told him the truth like that or should i have just stopped emailing him altogether? I actually feel better now that i told him how i felt . Was that the mature thing to do or did i just open a whole other can o worms by telling him ? Part of me still wants to keep in touch as friends but then i think what's the point. My husband is cool with me keeping in touch with old friends. But the fact that i dated this guy and started thinking about him makes me worry.

2007-12-29 03:08:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So, my mother-in-law lives on an island 4 hours away from our city. She has a flat in our city too, which actually belongs to my husband, but of course he or I would never ask to get it, it's hers as long as she lives. She comes to the flat 2-3 times a year, for a month each time. Now she just left, and she will be back in 4-5 months. I had promised a friend to cat-sit for her 2 cats for the holidays, and we thought it would be best to keep them in my mother-in-law's flat, because they would fight with our cats. My mother in law found out. I would understand to get mad and complain that we didn't tell her, but what she did instead was call mu husband crying, almost unable to speak, and say that "we can have the house", "she can rent a one-room bouse for when she comes over", that "she couldn't sleep for 2 nights ever since she found out", that she got sick, etc.

2007-12-29 03:03:08 · 9 answers · asked by cpinatsi 7 in Family

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2007-12-29 03:02:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she left him. she bailed on him. left their son with him, rarely comes to visit her son, she lived 5 minutes away for the first 2 years, and only came to see her son like once every 3 months. now she lives by the san jose area and promised she would come see him every other weekend. she left the last week in august and the first time she saw him was christmas. its pretty obvious she doesnt want her kid. (she's a bit of a partier) but why does she have the nerve to be rude and disrespectful to me, and cry all the time about what she lost and "pity me" to everyone because he married me and we were only together for a few years and they were together for like 10 and never got married. Now her kid is all messed up in the head, he is being bad in school, nearly expelled many times, prolly getting held back this year and im the one who has to deal with it. cause she dont care. but she still cries all the time about what she lost.

2007-12-29 02:58:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I told my husband last night that i had enough and he cannot use me as his doormat anymore and told him to get out of my life. Before he left he said no one will ever love you because you have two children and no one wants that burden and he said also mark my words you are going to struggle without me and go nowhere in life, he said that i should think about letting go of the marriage before its too late, i am starting to feel lonely and that mayby i just made a mistake in telling him and his abusive words to go, please how do i not feel so lonely

2007-12-29 02:51:53 · 28 answers · asked by Tanya P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I finally told my husband to be's sister that she is not getting to be a bridesmaid. The only problem now is that my future in-laws are not talking to me. What can I do to make it up with them. please help i'm so confused.

2007-12-29 02:50:56 · 40 answers · asked by Jayzee87 2 in Weddings

We have been living together and I have forgiven his mistakes over and over again.
He is in his 40's and still lives off his parents!
His good points: He loves me and my kids, he can fix things, his family is wonderful and they treat me like their own.
Bad points: He is super lazy. Doesn't have a job. Lives off his parents. He also has illusions of granduer. I can't tell if he is a con artist or just stupid or mentally ill.
I don't know if i should give him another chance. I don't want to lose the handy man!
Oh, and yes. I love him unconditionally, but don't want to be with a loser anymore.

2007-12-29 02:44:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and a husband or live in to take care of and she is always on the back burner?

2007-12-29 02:43:28 · 36 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Marriage & Divorce

my late grandad's step-sister lived in Petaluma, California..she is 95.....she has just sent a card and letter to my nan here in the uk stateing that her kids have been hlding her in the place where she was living, not letting her use the phone, or read her own mail! apparently she has said they have put her in a home, somewhere in petaluma we think, and they have stolen £59 000 from her bank account! they have told the care home that she has alzheimers....but she hasnt! ive been looking on whitepages to try and find the address! in the card she has put......16-37 and what looks like Toann Drive, or something similar, (her writing is not great considering she is 95) does anyone know where i could look to find some address please?

any help appreciated!!!!

2007-12-29 02:40:09 · 3 answers · asked by mmmmyeah 3 in Family

I mean how can you tell that someone is good or not
when you were just texting or chatting?

2007-12-29 02:35:38 · 23 answers · asked by cute! 2 in Singles & Dating

I do not understand why when two people spend so many years together they can not end it and be civil. Why must they throw comments at each other about the past. Who did what and so on. Every time we speak about the children, he says something to stir a stink. How do you deal with it?

2007-12-29 02:29:07 · 9 answers · asked by sue 2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-29 02:28:53 · 4 answers · asked by kuntrygrl 2 in Family

I ask this because I was in a situation once where I basically just pointed out an observation that I had made about someone and it wasn't even a big deal, but the person completely erupted and held a grudge. I basically said that he always made a big issue out of the work that we had to do in the workplace. Another time, instead of judging him, I tried to ignore him because I didn't want to say something mean. But he asked me "why" I didn't feel like talking to him and when I told him that he was annoying, that turned into conflict. Anyone ever encountered people like this? It's a no win situation. Damned if you do and damned if you don't.

2007-12-29 02:24:54 · 19 answers · asked by GilmoreGirls1 3 in Singles & Dating

between a guy with hairy legs, or a guy that shaved his legs, which would you choose? Personally, I don't mind guys with hairy legs, I mean, if it's gross, it's gross, but I think that's better than them shaving it, haha.

2007-12-29 02:13:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have known each other most of our lives and are in our late 40's. He comes home from work every day and doesn't go anywhere until work the next day so I know he's not messing around on me. But when I ask him - nicely - about having sex he becomes almost enraged. I know he has a sex drive because he masterbates at least once daily. I am a size 10-12 so I am not obese or anything. And I am told I look ten+ years younger than I am .

We have been together for four years -- please advise..

2007-12-29 02:03:39 · 9 answers · asked by Pam E 1 in Singles & Dating

My little sister is with my and wanted to ask a question so here it is :

" what is you most embarasing moment ? " She says thanks!! Oh yea she also wants to know what is your grossest moment??? She say thank you again. I am saying she is thirteen. ( so she can here this stuff )

2007-12-29 01:52:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriend doesn't get home from work until 9:30 or 10:30 then he comes home and takes a shower. By the time he's ready to settle down I'm so tired. He gets irritated with me because I want to go to bed and sleep. I get very frustrated when I'm tired so I think I'm snippy at him. Last night at about 11:00 I just wanted to go to sleep. He stayed on the couch and ended up sleeping there. Then when I get up this morning he's all pissed off because I went to bed without him. Then he went out to clear snow and when he came in he was upset that I didn't have breakfast made for him. I can't seem to make him happy. I don't know what to do. He's a wonderful man. I love him to death I just don't know how to get in his head to know what he's thinking. He left for work this morning without giving me a hug/kiss and saying "I love you"......

2007-12-29 01:48:44 · 15 answers · asked by Boxkar Fan 2 in Singles & Dating

I hate basketball so much. I hate it with a passion. I hate it so much I'd rather endure 2 hours of torture than go to practice.

It's not that I'm bad at it, it's just that I hate it SO MUCH. My parents made me sign up for it and I've resisted and complained every step of the way. I just think it's the worst, most boring sport that ever existed. AND I HATE IT.

How do I convince my parents that I WANT and NEED to quit?!

2007-12-29 01:41:16 · 24 answers · asked by The Big Cheese 3 in Family