they scream..and sometimes my dad leaves and goes to hotelss.
2007-12-29 03:18:45 · 15 answers · asked by sam w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's actually better if they stop fighting........
Why don't you try to get them to kiss & make up....
They might take more notice of you than what they do of each other......but make sure you do it cute
2007-12-29 03:25:01 · answer #1 · answered by One Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, in the long run it will be. It is better to have two parents that live apart than to have them in the home fighting all the time. I left my husband for this and my kids felt relieved the fighting was over and they were only 6 and 9. It is always hard at first... but things get better over time. Just remember if they divorce it is NOT your fault and you stil have a mom and a dad who love you.
Pay no attention to REALITY OOO K~ Do not grow up never wanting to get married based on your parents relationship. Marriage does not suck....marrying the wrong person is what really sucks. If you listen to his advice you could cheat yourself out of having a wonderful happy life and family one day with the RIGHT person. I am currently dating someone I know is right for me. He spends time and loves my children like they are his own and has been so loving to me and my kids. Not like my ex husband and their real dad. Don't cheat yourself... just learn from your parents mistakes.
2007-12-29 03:32:13 · answer #2 · answered by Destiny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the love and the respect for the person you loved got lost or changed into hate it will be the best to go different ways. Sometimes a marriage guidance (I hope it's the right word), I mean a neutral person, who talk with your parents about their problems, may help. But that works only if both of them really want it.
It's not the most important thing to stay together, - the most important thing for all of your family members is to live a happy life.
Good luck!
2007-12-29 03:40:11 · answer #3 · answered by Searching for Abudulla Saheem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes in certain circumstances that is the only alternative. I do not know how old you are but you need to talk with them tell them the fighting is hurting your feelings and you think they should get some counselling. That you do not want them to get a divorce but they need to seek help to resolve the problems in the marriage ASAP.
2007-12-29 03:28:39 · answer #4 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if it is better or not but I do know this.
It is really starting to get to you.
If you can when both of your parents are not fighting ask them if they will try & not fight in front of you. Explain to them what it is doing and ask them if they could try and get some help.
If you can't tell them in person, because sometimes parents are real scarry then write them both a letter and give it to them then go some place for awhile so they have time to think about it.
Just maybe if they see what it is doing to you, they will handle things differently. Sometimes people don't realize what they are doing to other people.
Good Luck!
2007-12-29 03:56:56 · answer #5 · answered by Emptiness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily, but if they have tried for months, or perhaps years, going to counseling and trying to work things out, then it may be time to divorce. A divorce is rough on everyone, but a bad marriage is even worse for all concerned.
2007-12-29 03:23:14 · answer #6 · answered by carmelcavalier 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like there are a lot of unresolved issues with them and the communication has broken down to nothing.
Maybe you should sit them down and explain how their fighting affects you. That either they get into marriage counseling, or separate for a while, but it needs to stop.
2007-12-29 03:24:02 · answer #7 · answered by Ella 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not knowing how long your parents have been married, this is a tough question. Sounds to me like your folks should try counciling. But they both must want the marriage to work. In my previous marriage of 11 years it was obvious that my ex didn't care anymore. and it was clear to me that it was time to move on.
2007-12-29 03:34:15 · answer #8 · answered by patty.impulsive1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah... no divorce necessary. Fighting is part of marriage. Sounds like they are doing more than they should, and you should never walk out. But hey no ones perfect. Talk to them about counseling, and how it affects you.
2007-12-29 03:26:26 · answer #9 · answered by jwplaster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before divorce, they should seek marriage counciling first. They need to realize that it's also hard on the kids.
2007-12-29 03:28:46 · answer #10 · answered by ~SweeT~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋