i am going thru a divorce i have a best male friend that has been there for me ,he has been great a couple of days ago i jumped in conclusions we live 8oo miles apart he didn't call me all day and i finally text him i said call me he said no....i then called him back to back non stop wanting an answer he did and he said he could not finish his text........he meant to write no later i know the type of work he does i was in the same field i should of known better.anyway he said he had it that he will call me believe me when i say its wonderful the bond we had and just loosing his friendship will kill me what can i do i have not called since do you think he will call back
2007-12-29 03:21:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Repeat to yourself, like a mantra:
"I can live without his relationship"
Develop others.
2007-12-29 03:27:21 · answer #1 · answered by A Guy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has just been busy for the past few days and is unable to call or send you a text message =) If he is really your best male friend, then he should call within the next few days or in the coming weeks. Maybe he just has a lot of activities going on because of the holidays, and will not be able to answer right away. He should tell you that once you get the chance to talk to him. Ask him how he's been doing and why haven't you heard from him.
Keep your chin up, maybe you are not losing your best friend. Maybe it's just that time of the year where he needs to do lots of stuff with his family and friends in the city or area where he lives.
2007-12-29 03:45:27 · answer #2 · answered by bellisima 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to chill out.. It's cause and effect... you are acting very insecure and psycho woman... constant calling a 'friend' is showing them you have no life, no friends outside of them...
It seems to me, you like this man for more than a 'best guy friend' situation -- otherwise when he did not answer, you would have called someone else...
Keep it in perspective that even when you are at a emotional state of neediness and truly need someone there for you -- everyone has their own things going on too...
I hope you are not divorcing in hopes that things will turn romantic for you and male friend 800 miles away... because you'll just be setting yourself up for a mess that never meets your expectations... he is more than likely not interested to the same extent you are... sorry, but you have to deal with it so you can move on...
2007-12-29 03:28:08 · answer #3 · answered by astutewoman 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he might be busy dont trouble him by calling him again n again this may irritate him, if hes a good friend he will definetely call u.
u dont call or text him till he does
if u do so then it will mak him more reasonable n he may stop giving u responce or respect which is most important in a friendship.
dont just show him that u need him more than he needs u.
gud luck..........
2007-12-29 03:28:28 · answer #4 · answered by anu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u guys r really good friends then he will call back which it seems u r so don't be worried
2007-12-29 03:30:26 · answer #5 · answered by sean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋