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and a husband or live in to take care of and she is always on the back burner?

2007-12-29 02:43:28 · 36 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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1. typically, a married woman is older
2. childbirth is a physical process that does affect a woman's body
3. priorities change; how one looks becomes so much less important than who one is

How very shallow to think that by not wearing fashionable clothes, chic hair styles, and makeup that a woman is putting herself on the back burner. A mother's life is enriched in ways that no single woman with no children could imagine.

2007-12-29 02:48:28 · answer #1 · answered by just browsin 6 · 3 2

I think this is dependent on the sex and age group of the concerned party. The married thinks that all I have to do now is to care for the kids and please my husband in the little way I can while the single ones will always want to be as beautiful and flashy as possible and thus tend to be more concerned with fashion and the feel or thoughts of the people around them than the married. And that there are many more things that are of higher priority which the married has to manage/think of in life which singles will consider unnecessary

Therefore, from the youths' point of view the single lady is better health wise and prettier than the married because they share almost the same taste and views while considering other points/facts that can only be gained through experience, and appreciated on "second thought", the married might be beautiful to those who are married and matured.

2007-12-29 03:02:13 · answer #2 · answered by author 2 · 0 0

I don't know that I would agree that single women "look better" and are "more healthy" than married women. I do know that before they got married and had children, married women had the time, freedom and less responsibility for others that single women enjoy. I have seen some very beautiful, healthy married women as well as some less attractive, unhealthy unmarried ones.
Many times, marriage strains finances, which causes married women to put the needs of her husband and/or children before hers and, b/c of this, they can't afford some of the "perks" that single women enjoy.
Marriage and motherhood comes with stresses that single women don't understand. Married women with children, especially, have so MANY things to do and so much less time to do it than single women. For instance, a trip to the salon for a wash & cut, manicure/pedicure or other "creature comforts" are out of the question, due to financial constrictions and/or time constraints. Such things are luxuries for married women. Can you imagine NOT having the time or energy to take a long, luxurious bath b/c you are too worn out from taking care of OTHER'S needs?
Instead of being critical of your married friends, perhaps you might try to help out by doing them a favor...offer to babysit so she can go to the beauty shop, offer to help clean her house, go over and do her hair/nails/makeup for her...be a friend and understand that married women have the same feelings about their looks as they did when they were single and just might need a little help doing all of those things she gave up when she committed herself to marriage and motherhood. Believe me, you will understand her better and you will feel so great about yourself for helping a fellow woman feel great, too!
Happy New Year!

2007-12-29 03:14:19 · answer #3 · answered by chrissy 2 · 0 0

Single women have no one to think about but themselves. They have no real worries other than looking good and they really want to attract a man so that they eventually can end up married and with children.
Married women have responsibilities and end up taking care of their husband - they have to accept his family and his desires above their own. When children come they have to think of the care and work involved in keeping the family together in addition to the care and feeding of family members. There is less time to primp and take care of yourself and there is less time spent in the company of friends and events happening outside of the family.

2007-12-29 02:56:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Single women without children seem to have more time to indulge in vanity. Married women with children and a husband have few moments to spare taking care of children and a household. But take note: all married women are not in the same boat you have launched. There are a great many great looking moms/wives in this world. There are also a lot of men who pitch in and help with children and the household.

2007-12-29 02:48:50 · answer #5 · answered by Decoy Duck 6 · 4 0

Because single women have all the time in the world to devote to themselves and their needs. Women with kids devote all their time to their kids and their needs and our needs kind of get done last. Plus, if they are married with kids, they not only devote themselves to their children, there is also the husband that they have to care for. I am married with kids and while my needs are last, I think I look pretty darn good. Granted there are parts of my body that do not look like they used to but my kids keep me very active and focused on what is important in this world.

2007-12-29 02:57:40 · answer #6 · answered by bluemysti 5 · 0 0

that's annoying, yet with a good history and to tutor a actual plan of look after the meant new child could help; even although, it rather is amazingly unusual...remember that this fictitious man or woman could ought to persuade a choose that they even have an reason to prefer to look after a new child. as an occasion; it could be very complicated for a single guy of @ thirty to ask to undertake an fourteen twelve months old female as a single discern....understand what I propose! The question of pedophile could enter into this communique.

2016-11-26 00:52:16 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

because the wife must take care of the husband and the children which takes a lotta stress. So the single woman has nothing on her mind.

2007-12-29 02:46:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3 0

Once you get married your loving relationship is over and women don't care anymore unless they also have a lover on the side. Since all men cheat they always seem to look better than their spouses!!! Not for them for the mistress.

2007-12-29 02:52:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Listen, you try the physical and mental demands of the woman with husband and children and see how you come up sweetie cheeks. Don't dispise your busy sisters... one day you may realise they have more love, more to live for than a tidy healthy appearance.

Happy New Year.

Lisa

2007-12-29 02:48:30 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa 6 · 4 0

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