Family & Relationships - 29 December 2007

Grrrr. My dad never gives me peace. He is always coming in my room, and I never can be left alone. I tell him I would like it if he doesn't come into my room so often then he gets upset and thinks I am trying to hide something. Everytime I talk to someone on the phone he always asks who it is. I got upset just now and I just said "one of my friends" and he got upset saying that he should know this stuff. I also feel invaded because he wakes me up in the morning and is right in my face when I frist wake up. UGH! My mom isn't like that at all, I get peace but she still occasionally will ask what I am doing on the computer ect. and she only comes in my room when nessasary. GRRR please help me on how I can get some peace in life. If my dad ever wants to give me a piece of paper or say some little thing he comes all the way into my room and checks out whats happening while he talks. Gosh, should I like put a little drop-off box on my door for when he wants to give me something lol? plz help

2007-12-29 09:07:37 · 8 answers · asked by ♥Momo♥ 2 in Family

I'm living again and again the same story.
In my only long relationship that lasted 6 years my boyfriend always told me he loved me and I was the one, but my insecurities were always a LOT and he was like sometimes mocking me for this weakness and sometimes kindly reassure me.
He cheated and felt remorse, I left him 1 year ago, and he still claims I'm his only love.
Then I had 2 fling that ended up same way, me overly suspicious, with fear and negative thoughts that were like prophecies who I made materialize. Those guys end up with no respect for me like arrogant and rude.

I need to break this pattern, I want to change and feel, LIVE better.
I'm sure maybe it wasnt meant to be but my insane thinking had a big part on it, and didnt let me take things as they come.

2007-12-29 09:07:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this woman and I think she likes me but I have no money ($60 bucks a month after bills because of child support). So I feel like I wont be able to treat her the way a woman should be treated. ie Taking her out, buying her Roses when we go out, Paying for everything.
I mean I treat her nice and compliment her but she deserves someone better than me.
So how do I let her know I'm not good enough without hurting her?

2007-12-29 09:07:02 · 21 answers · asked by Joe S 3 in Marriage & Divorce

this random guy (who i don't even know him) asked me out 2 weeks ago but I said no because he didn't know me, and I didn't even know him.
now i just searched his myspace and he had MY PICTURE up there and underneath it, he wrote "my girlfriend" and then in his blog he wrote about how i supposedly gave him a massage on christmas!!!!!!!
I am really angry! i tried to write him an angry email on myspace but he blocked emails from everyone except his friends. i dont know his phone number, and we're on christmas break (we go back on jan. 14)

THE QUESTION IS THIS: what should i say to him? how should i confront him? WHAT SHOULD I DO? I'm SO ANGRY!

2007-12-29 09:05:47 · 17 answers · asked by Mainee 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so i'm starting to like this guy and i think he's starting to like me 2 and so i'm a freadhman and he's a senior (what are the odds) and so the only time i c him is on the bus and i want his # so we can start talking more but idk how i should ask 4 it or should i wait til he does? idk what to do any suggestons? i'm pretty good friends w/ his step sister and shes a freashman 2 but id want to tell her that i'm starting to like her step brother she would freak out and i don't really know what to do and i don't really talk to him alot on the bus either but he says hi to me alot when ever i get on the bus so i need some help thanks alot

2007-12-29 09:05:28 · 6 answers · asked by morg 2 in Singles & Dating

we have been married for 4 years and lately all we do is argue atleast twice a week about stupid stuff but i feel like we are not understanding eachother, He is away right now for a while and i dont know if i should continue waiting for him

2007-12-29 09:04:41 · 8 answers · asked by B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

everyone has their own reasons. what is/are yours?

2007-12-29 09:01:31 · 12 answers · asked by ... 3 in Singles & Dating

My bff had a party (her parents weren't home) and my bf got carried away and we did it! how do i even look at his face?

2007-12-29 09:01:13 · 7 answers · asked by Sunshine 1 in Singles & Dating

Your partner screams out calling you by the name of a previous lover, would you finish the job, or go flat.

2007-12-29 09:00:02 · 25 answers · asked by Terry M 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-29 08:59:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-29 08:58:48 · 8 answers · asked by dat_upt_chiick_kiilah 1 in Family

i really like this girl at school (and i flirt with her a lot and i think she likes me back). i was at lunch and it was spaghetti day. i buy it and they lunch lady gives me a load of tomato sauce. i pass by the girl and i say hi to her, but i lost balance of the plate! pratically all the sauce spills on her white shirt! she just looks at me, and says i gotta go. then she ends up calling her family to pick her up. i later tried to apoligize but she just seems to ignore me... i dont know what to do it was a TOTAL mistake that messed up a great relationship!

2007-12-29 08:58:41 · 5 answers · asked by Brad M 3 in Singles & Dating

Does it all get too sticky, or is it fine, or should i just stick with bare lips?

2007-12-29 08:58:37 · 36 answers · asked by FlirtAlert13 1 in Singles & Dating

i mean yea ofcourse i love him but he gets angry sumtimes and it gets out of hand and he leaves me alot i mean im only 15 idk wat to do

2007-12-29 08:58:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently cut my hair short(above my ears)and I'm wondering how you guys respond to girls with short hair.If the girl was cute or fairly attractive would the length of her hair really matter?I guess what I'm trying to ask is....is short hair on a girl a complete turn off??

2007-12-29 08:57:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend of five years, well fiance now and I'm thinking that it might be time to call it quits. I love him, but no one, none of my friends, his friends, or family thinks we should be together. I have been going to school and working just to get us by, I just graduated college and am now ready for the big kid world. My boyfriend on the other hand does not have any job and goes to college on the days he feels like it. people tell me all the time that i deserve more and they don't know why i stick around, but i do because i love him. he's never hit me, but has made me cry many times. He is very good with words and it seems everything wrong in our life is my fault. I love him and have been with him for a very long time, but if I do deciede to end it how can I? I've tried to before in the past but he weasles his way back in. If it's over how do I know and how do I end it?

2007-12-29 08:57:26 · 14 answers · asked by Question 2 in Singles & Dating

If your partner swears like a trooper when you are on the job.

2007-12-29 08:57:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for christmas he got me this gold heart pendant and said it was $150. i could tell it wasnt worth that much, it was poorly crafted and cheap looking. so then he said it was $75. still not believing it, i took it to a local jeweler and just casually asked them how much they think it was worth. they couldnt tell but instead let me know that it wasnt even gold after all. so i was a bit pissed, not sure if my bf had lied to me or had got cheated when he bought it. i told him i had got it checked out and now he is mad at me. he also said it was really only ike $35. i still dont even know if this is right.
i dont care how much he spent on me but i do care that he kept lying. because he kept telling me how expensive the gift he got me was, i bought him something twice as expensive as i originally was going to. i dont think this is right. maybe i shouldnt have taken it in to get looked at, but i just wanted to know.
so yeah who's more at fault? what should i do? opinions on it in general?

2007-12-29 08:56:23 · 50 answers · asked by victims_of_the_dark 2 in Singles & Dating

O.K. Gang, here's what happened:

I was at a party last night, and was talking a lot with a guy I met on numerous occasions, and have always liked pretty well, and felt very attracted to him by the time I was leaving the party. He lives nearby, and gave me a ride home, and before I got out of the car, I hugged him, thanked him for the ride, and gave him a kiss on the cheek. I was so preoccupied with restraining my self from taking it further, that I got out of the car without getting his information!

So, would it be inappropriate for me to ask the party's host for this man's email?

2007-12-29 08:55:01 · 8 answers · asked by Gina E 4 in Singles & Dating

We live three hours apart, so it is hard. We both love eachother and even admitted to falling in love with eachother so we plan on living closer in a few months. Right now the relationship is stressing me out so bad that I can't eat, that I cry, constantly worried over the smallest of things (when he doesn't call me back I get VERY worried that I have done something wrong or he isn't wanting the relationship anymore), What should I do? Please help!

2007-12-29 08:54:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When your boyfriend you love has anger problems?

2007-12-29 08:54:10 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-29 08:54:05 · 7 answers · asked by Alaina 2 in Friends

2007-12-29 08:53:39 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Write me if you want to fall in love as we hold each other under the moon and stars as we kiss and have passion to last forever.

2007-12-29 08:53:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am considering marrying him. I am deeply in love with this man and we are both here in the USA

2007-12-29 08:51:40 · 9 answers · asked by angel_annie_63 1 in Marriage & Divorce

someone make me feel better, tell me what to do, i cant tell you how much im hurting right now.

2007-12-29 08:51:26 · 46 answers · asked by Aysha. 3 in Singles & Dating

I truly love my boyfriend with everything I have. He's the first boyfriend I've ever had. He's had countless girlfriends. I've never even done anything else with another guy (kiss, hold hands, etc.) We've talked about marriage and getting engaged a lot recently. My main worry is what if he's not the one. I can't possibly know because I have nothing to compare it to. He has lots to compare to. I'm worrying about regret later in life. I do want to marry him. But what if this is just high school puppy love? I'm driving myself crazy with all this doubting because I do want to be with him for the rest of my life.

Forgive me for I'm a confused teenager. A little background: We're both 18 and seniors in high school.

My question is what should I do? Should I date around or stay with him?

Thanks for any input.

2007-12-29 08:50:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i recently split with my girlfriend of six years, all i do is drink, drugs, and think about her constantly.its been almost 2 weeks since I've seen her, Who can I talk to Also, I am recently unemployed so no money to pay anyone professional, thank you

2007-12-29 08:49:42 · 15 answers · asked by cheekydogg10 1 in Singles & Dating

I just got out of a 3 year relationshiip with the guy i thought i was going to marry..
he broke my heart.

so i was just curious.
did you marry your first love?

2007-12-29 08:49:05 · 35 answers · asked by vanessa b 3 in Singles & Dating

ok here's the thing...i've been knowing this guy for a looong time and we both liked each other since then.he always looks at me and gets near me all the time. i aslways ask my friend if he's looking at me and he always is!!why doent he come up to me and talk to me??

2007-12-29 08:47:55 · 13 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating