We live three hours apart, so it is hard. We both love eachother and even admitted to falling in love with eachother so we plan on living closer in a few months. Right now the relationship is stressing me out so bad that I can't eat, that I cry, constantly worried over the smallest of things (when he doesn't call me back I get VERY worried that I have done something wrong or he isn't wanting the relationship anymore), What should I do? Please help!
2007-12-29 08:54:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well first calm down then ask him if he'd ever dump you if he says he wont you have to look in his eyes to make sure he wont if it really is love he wont lie and will stay with you
2007-12-29 09:02:11 · answer #1 · answered by heartbroken101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it i believe that it is the only way to solve these types of problems. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little ver a year now and before being lovers he is my best friend in the whole world, some say thats risky but oh well. My point is that we talk to each other about everything and anything, im only 16 and were in a long term relationship, we must be doing something right? Honestly i think expressing your feelings is key. Talk to him! You have no idea how much better you wil feel. Hope i helped some. Good Luck!
2007-12-29 09:06:41 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 09:36:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to "chill" big time! Calm yourself down. How in the world are you going to be able to live closer together if you get like that the distance that you are apart now? Actually, my bf and I are about 15 minutes apart. I would really prefer living together, but I guess that is not going to be happening anytime soon. You just learn to cope, and calm down. That is crazy getting all bent like that!
2007-12-29 09:01:59 · answer #4 · answered by what u talkin' bout? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to worry so much. I know things are hard when you have a relationship so far away. But convince yourself that he loves you and that he cares about you so much (which he does) and you aren't doing anything wrong.
2007-12-29 09:06:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to find ways to relax,go 4 shopping or for a walk with your friends.By being so stressed out, you're not only harming yourself but your relationship also. Talk to him about your worries but be careful not to stress him out too. Good Luck!
2007-12-29 09:00:44 · answer #6 · answered by Mary P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationship is hard to maintain. It requires both to put a lot of work into it. That is probably one of the main problems. There probably others issues that need to be analyzed and work on.
2007-12-29 09:01:06 · answer #7 · answered by Rask09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too immature to be in a relationship. Seek counseling for your emotional problems and dependencies.
2007-12-29 08:56:55 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might need to take counceling if u r that worried or one day just sit him down and ask him if you did something wrong or tell him you are afraid that you did something wrong. good luck and just try not to worry so much. best wishes.
2007-12-29 08:59:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to stop worry so much okay everything is going to be alright and if not things happen for a reason remember that okay.
2007-12-29 08:58:59 · answer #10 · answered by prettyhiphopgeorgia31408 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋