I'm living again and again the same story.
In my only long relationship that lasted 6 years my boyfriend always told me he loved me and I was the one, but my insecurities were always a LOT and he was like sometimes mocking me for this weakness and sometimes kindly reassure me.
He cheated and felt remorse, I left him 1 year ago, and he still claims I'm his only love.
Then I had 2 fling that ended up same way, me overly suspicious, with fear and negative thoughts that were like prophecies who I made materialize. Those guys end up with no respect for me like arrogant and rude.
I need to break this pattern, I want to change and feel, LIVE better.
I'm sure maybe it wasnt meant to be but my insane thinking had a big part on it, and didnt let me take things as they come.
2007-12-29 09:07:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to approach your relationships with confidence, which it seems is the one trait you're not currently displaying. Look yourself in the mirror each day and say, (with conviction), "Yeah... I'm cool." That's really all it takes... and if you haven't quite got the confidence, then fake it.
2007-12-29 09:13:13 · answer #1 · answered by fiveamrunner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a jar and positioned 1 / 4 in it whenever you're saying a foul be conscious. Then make an apology. As you start to replenish the jar you will additionally be determining how regularly you do it and could become bored of dropping money. As time is going on you will start to capture your self in the previous you're saying it so which you will save the quarters on your pocket rather of in the jar. once you have mastered it, take all the quarters and bypass purchase your self something you have been desiring for awhile. New motor vehicle, new homestead, merely kidding. There should not be that many quarters yet you get the jist.
2016-10-02 13:29:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a bit of the same pattern for a while, but...it turned out that those guys weren't right for me, anyways. I don't know, maybe it was my body's way of telling me "no!" But the guy I'm with now, I don't have any of those insecurities at all. Maybe you just haven't found the right guy yet. I'm sure he's out there :]
2007-12-29 09:11:00 · answer #3 · answered by Bunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP him leave go to a club or a party and meet someone NEW dont think you have to stay
YOU ONLY HAVE ONE LIKE SO LIVE IT UP!
have funn thats what life is about he CANT love you if he cheated on you and dont think you have to stay becuase you guys been together for so long here listen to this song! =)
http://youtube.com/watch?v=LJsre0Gdly8
2007-12-29 09:12:37 · answer #4 · answered by Jasmine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to hook up with a Mormon dude. He will force you to change your ways to the devine light of the holy spirit.
2007-12-29 09:11:04 · answer #5 · answered by Cody Skinwalker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look into breathing exercises and meditation - I know people won't, but if you want to change your thinking habits, thats how - sorry, it's not easy.
2007-12-29 09:09:26 · answer #6 · answered by Corvus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek counseling.
2007-12-29 09:09:25 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋