My bff had a party (her parents weren't home) and my bf got carried away and we did it! how do i even look at his face?
2007-12-29 09:01:13 · 7 answers · asked by Sunshine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why couldn't you look at his face? You've looked at the rest of him. I'm with Janica here. Grow up. If you didn't want to sleep with him, you wouldn't have. There's nothing wrong (in my opinion) with a girl sleeping with her boyfriend. There is something very wrong if she feels the need to avoid responsibility about it. By that, I mean blaming him as though you weren't equally involved, and not using sensible protection. I can only hope you were sensible enough to use condoms.
2007-12-29 09:12:06 · answer #1 · answered by Rosie_0801 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like an adult, which is what you behaved like last night. You must discuss what happened, how you both feel about it, and anything you are concerned about.
Has he had sex with anyone before this? If so, you are now exposed to anything he has been exposed to. Do either of you have any kind of STD/herpes/ANYTHING that you should share with each other?
Did you have protection? If not, where in your cycle are you? You should be aware that you could be pregnant if you are anywhere near ovulating, and that viable sperm remain alive for up to 72 hours after sex (which extends the opportunity for pregnancy to occur).
If you have never had sex before, be aware that you may develop cyctitis, which is common, not dangerous, and not in any way his fault. It is a bladder infection, which is caused by bacteria being introduced into your urethra. If you develop any pain with urination, you need to see a doctor to get an antibiotic to correct this.
Know also that your chances of developing a yeast infection increase now, because of vaginal flora being disturbed and possibly invaded by e-coli or other bacteria (sex stirs things up a bit)! Again, if this happens, it's not his fault, nothing to be embarassed about, and can be treated easily. If you have never had a yeast infection, it is also something that should be seen by a doctor.
Now, if you are really wise, and blessed with wise parents, it's time to have a talk with your mom about what happened. If for some reason you decide to keep this to yourself and as a result it makes it impossible to see your family doctor, you still should have a checkup. You can go to Planned Parenthood or your local Community Health Department and they will help you out, and should be able to do so without having to tell your parents.
About your boyfriend, you two definitely need to talk, and decide if this is where you want your relationship to go, or if you want to agree that it won't happen again until you are older and ready. If so, then nothing should change, expect that you have both engaged in something so personal that it should now be obvious why it's best shared between deeply committed couples.
Best wishes, and be proud of yourself, always!
2007-12-29 17:13:14 · answer #2 · answered by purplesometimes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute! You say your "bf got carried away". You're taking none of the blame for your actions? How very childish of you. Here is what you do:
1. Quit acting like a slut and take responsibility for yourself.
2. You look him in the face just fine, you did this to yourself. You allowed this to happen.
3. You tell your mommy so you can go to the doctor, get examined, get tested for diseases, get tested for pregnancy and get on birth control.
4. You have him go to the doctor, get examined, get tested for diseases and then go get birth control.
If you can't do any of the above, then you dump your boyfriend and hold an aspirin between your knees until you grow up enough to take responsibility for your actions. Don't do the crime if you can't do the time.
2007-12-29 17:06:57 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well ow can he look at you in the face you did it also you could have just said NO but you didnt so you got carried away also DONT end the reltionship because of this mistake relationship have mistakes all the time so DONT give up I am SORRY of that but thats all I have to say sorry!
2007-12-29 17:09:05 · answer #4 · answered by Jasmine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt really be going out with your bf if you dont love him...and if you love him it should be fine but if you do find it a bit awkward just try & blank it out of your mind hun x
2007-12-29 17:08:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How not look at his face? I don't get it.
2007-12-29 17:28:19 · answer #6 · answered by Primrose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're just another case.
2007-12-29 17:10:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋