someone make me feel better, tell me what to do, i cant tell you how much im hurting right now.
2007-12-29 08:51:26 · 46 answers · asked by Aysha. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i went through the same thing...
its gunna hurt...
and hurt...
and hurt...
and then it will get better...
at time you will feel like you will do anything to get him back to prove to him, he really does love you....
but the truth is he doesn't.
cry to your friends and cry to him.
let out all of your anger, fear, and pain.
then one day you will wake up and it will all seem sooo trivial. you will find a guy that you trust and may even love.
start dating and just consider him a memory... love yourself enough so that you dont feel that void....
i know the feeling you should've seen me a year ago....
i hope you get through this...
2007-12-29 09:04:22 · answer #1 · answered by prqueen90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough thing to go through. Love is a tricky thing. It can be the best thing ever in this world or the worst. He wasn't the right one. Most of the time you spend your life trying to find "the one". Most people have a hard time with that. Trust me, there is someone for everyone. Somewhere out there, there is someone for you. You just haven't found the person yet. Meanwhile, you'll go through heartbreaks and things like that. Everyone does so you're not alone. Just remember that: You're not alone. There are people everywhere going through the same thing. So forget about the man who broke your heart. Don't drag on the past. Just enjoy life and one day, only time will tell, you will find the man of your dreams.
2007-12-29 08:53:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Making people feel better is what I do. First, I want to tell you, this is not the end, it is just the beginning. All you need to do is know that you are the best thing that could ever happen to him, and he is missing out. His loss, not yours. Second, I am so sorry you are hurting. I know that pain. It goes away, I promise. Grab a couple of friends, have a night out, get your mind off it. Read a good book, and think about how your life will go on. Without him.
2007-12-29 08:55:43 · answer #3 · answered by Leigh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I have been through that before. I know it really hurts now, but as soon as you meet the next man that really likes you..trust me you will forget all about him. I still like that person, but I know I'd never want to go backward in life, even though now he likes me much more than before after i've moved on (which happens so often). So yea, hang out with your single girlfriends and go PARTY and mingle. You'll feel better. Just whatever you do..please don't try to make him be with you..infact act as if you don't care. Eventually you can even convince your self. and think of all the horrible things about him. Yea!
2007-12-29 08:57:34 · answer #4 · answered by ღThE OnE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be strong, acknowledge that you're a good person deserving to be loved by the right guy, and move on. You can't make someone love you, if they don't. I know the pain you feel. In time it will all make sense, I promise.......especially when you meet someone who wants to return the love you have for him!
A word of advice: never, ever let this ex-guy know that you're totally crushed. Show him what a strong, together person you are by getting on with your life!
2007-12-29 09:05:22 · answer #5 · answered by Dogchic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen this happens to me A LOT!! There are boyz in the world that are better then these guys ur crushing on now! I know it sounds cheesy but ur dream boy is out there and u will find him in some point of ur life. Maybe god is trying to say "he isnt the right guy!" In the meantime to get over it trying hanging with ur girlfriends and having fun by doing silly contests!
2007-12-29 08:56:06 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Jenni♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is full of laughter, and crying, love, and hate, pain and prospreity. I probally felt what u r feeling most of my grade school years. Just know, there are other fish in the sea. Get ur mind off the boy, hang with friends, watch a movie, just never face rejection in a negitive way. Remember, what does not kill you will always make u stronger
2007-12-29 08:56:13 · answer #7 · answered by Alex M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, we have a say in Holland, I don't know if u know it.. xD I'll translate it:
"Not a handfull of boys, but a landfull!"
You must be very upset right now, but it really is good that he's being honest. And you're (probrably) still young. So, you should just go out again and meet new guys. And if you've met one, you probrably can't remember what you it was that you've liked so much about this one!
2007-12-29 08:56:37 · answer #8 · answered by Valentina. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, My best friend of 9 years is the one that my heart tells me is the one for me, But here's the thing, She does'nt love me the way that I love her. She knows how I feel about her, But for her, the feelings just are'nt the same. I deciced that if I could'nt have her as my girlfriend, that it was more important to me to keep her as my friend.(Sometimes it"s hard, But you never know where your friendship will lead) None the less, when she needs to talk about her problems, Or if she really needs someone,I'm the one that she knows that she can trust, And can always count on When she can't count on anybody else. Good Luck, I Hope it Works Out For You
2007-12-29 09:08:23 · answer #9 · answered by ??? Waldo ??? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are a lot like gambling---you're taking a big risk opening up your heart to someone who may (or may not) reciprocate.
What you should NOT do is stick around, hoping you can MAKE him love you.
If he doesn't love you, he doesn't--BUT there is someone out there who will love you.
Love yourself first, and the rest will follow. Just be patient.
2007-12-29 08:56:01 · answer #10 · answered by HeIsMyAllinAll 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋