Family & Relationships - 29 December 2007

if i love someone so much and i let them go and they come back wanting to be with me again were we really meant to be or no?

2007-12-29 09:49:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-29 09:48:08 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-29 09:46:49 · 7 answers · asked by April 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

There's this guy that I like, he's a year older than me, and we hang out with almost completely different people. He's always surrounded by so many people, but I have my close friends that I hang out with. I have a very small school (60 in my grade), so everyone hears about everything within their own grade.

Here's the problem: His friends don't think so highly of me (which makes me wonder what he thinks) and my friends joke about dating him, and they always end with, "Gosh, I hope that never happens to me!"

My first question is: There's a dance coming up, should I ask him, regardless of what our friends might think? (We go to different schools, so he can't ask me)

Here's the second question:

I'm not sure if he likes me. My friend told me after seeing his reaction when he saw me one night, that she thought he liked me. He hugs me every time he sees me and we always have a short conversation. But, he never talks to me when I talk to him over the internet. Do you think he likes me?

2007-12-29 09:45:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK I found out a week ago that my husband was in debt by $5000.( He had tranfered balances before to a 0% APR credit card with a max of $3000. But then he went and remaxed out the cards he did the balance transfer on! ) . Ok, so this morning I get a call from the $3000 card wanting a $500 payment ! He did a cash advance ! and they are now charging 71% APR ! To make matters worse that card is maxed !

So I talked to his dad. He had me look through all his statements ( not good because my husband dont like me to do that ) and I did and we found out he owes $7500 at an average of 35% APR !

Im afraid he's gonna yell at me for telling his dad, but Im scared ! Im afraid we're not gonna make it financially ! Even though my husband told me "dont worry , I got this handled. Dont tell my parents " because he owes MORE than he told me about and its growing !!!

Any words of advice ?

2007-12-29 09:39:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

the guy that knocked her up is in another country... no chance of getting back together. we've been hanging out a lot recently, but liked her for a while and haven't said anything because i didn't want to ruin the relationship, but it would kill me to not know what might of been if i don't tell her how i feel... but anyways, do they just want friends or are they looking for relationships ?

2007-12-29 09:35:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been going out for 4 months..

This week (Christmas week) I didn't see him since I was in Chicago..

I didn't miss him and when I was home after being the hospital for food poisoning I wasn't happy to see him, just felt whatever

When I kissed him there was no spark or ANYTHING

I feel better and I just don't want to see him

What do I do?

2007-12-29 09:28:42 · 37 answers · asked by lalalala 1 in Singles & Dating

Im seeing this guy who still has feelings for his ex.
I am the reason he broke up with her, but he still has that whole 'attachment' thing with her (they were together a year).
Basically, we keep coming close to having sex, then i back out saying i want to wait until everythings abit less complicated with her.
I know i want to its just Im still a virgin, and ive explained to him that it will mean alot to me and i dont want to just throw it away.
Hes been so nice about it all & says he respects me.
But whenever we get all like that hes literally begging ha.

I think im goingto just sleep with him, i dont want him to get bored and go back to her.
But then im scared that he will end up hurting me anyway by getting back with her or something / that he'll get bored too quick.
I feel like whatever i do has consequences!

Guys mainly.. what should i do?

-Just so you know, i'm 18, im not some stupid kid and i do have enough self respect not to jump into bed with someone i didn't really like!

2007-12-29 09:25:39 · 43 answers · asked by EvaMay 1 in Singles & Dating

I need to run far far away. What is the best place to run away to start a new life away from family and friends?

2007-12-29 09:25:31 · 26 answers · asked by TheDoll 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

What do you do when...
You say you don't care about the person you really like. But it was because I wasn't having a good day and you didn't mean it. then you guys don't talk for weeks. and then they move on and find someone else. and then you're single and lonely.
and you still have alot of feelings for that person.

What do you do then? (I'm in that situation) :l

2007-12-29 09:24:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am woundering whats a big turn on for guys especially my latino boys .. dnt get me wrong i love other guys that are a different race than me but i have more of a thing for mexican guys

2007-12-29 09:22:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To revise for my A Level Business exam!!!!! I have Btec travel and tourism coursework to do as well. i am so scared that i will fail i have notes and know what to revise but i just don't know that how shall i revise and the best and how to stick the information in my brain for week!!! i want to pass but i know that the style of the answer needs to be different as well that makes me nervous as well!!!! thanks for help

2007-12-29 09:22:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

like peace out might be someones like my cuisen is "wats up my homies".

2007-12-29 09:22:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

having this pointed out to me to often i tried a different pattern. i did nt buy the gifts and spend the money like i did in the past. i was more conservative. for her b-day i took hera box of creme puffs... i havent heard the end of it yet and we arnt together anymore. shes mad because she got creme puffs and my ex got a ring on her b-day. was i so wrong ?

2007-12-29 09:21:19 · 3 answers · asked by flower4bird 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-29 09:20:16 · 3 answers · asked by amazingpag 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-29 09:20:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive known him 4 a year. the 1st day we met people thought we were bf-gf. hes 18 im turning 17. he holds my hand & is all over me we are inseperable. where i go he goes. we take classes together 2x/week. thats how we met. besides that we talk all the time bc he lives 40min away. we are planning a trip to vegas 2gthr for a few wks nxt summer bc our class is going. every1 thinks we are bf gf & he lets them think that. he accepts compliments on us greatfully & smiles. pple ask us where our gf bf is when were not together and its just an automatic that theyre talking about us, so we respond. he does 2. he had me meet his mom &parents recently, 2. people joke about us being married. but when i tell him i like him well now its love but i havent told him yet he tells me to stop bc were just friends. when i ask y hes like this he changes the subject. or if i press it he avoids me he says he misses me and we need to b 2gethr more. idk what to do. should i tell him i love him? why does he do this

2007-12-29 09:19:24 · 3 answers · asked by Millie Y 1 in Singles & Dating

im 21 years old

2007-12-29 09:17:48 · 6 answers · asked by manayjuanes 1 in Weddings

undies and grab your camera?

Would you turn this into something fun or ackward?

2007-12-29 09:16:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How does it work?Does anything go?

2007-12-29 09:16:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like my best friend!!
like alot!
what do i do?!!

2007-12-29 09:15:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont even kno y i feel like this its wayy complicated but i think hes the best thing ever idk y i mean yea their other guys and trust me ive tried getting rid of him but hes all i think about even if he doesnt treat me right still i just cant stop thinking bout him even tho he jut left me again for the millionth time i just dont kno wat to do anymore

2007-12-29 09:15:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had a crush on this guy for several months, and I thought he liked me because he always looks at me and sometimes in class he brought me a book from the bookshelfs since the teacher had the classroom set there. But 2 weeks ago i found he started a relationship with this girl. Now i'm trying to forget him but i keep seeing his name everywhere not because i want to its just always there. for example like the other day i was reading the summary of a movie and the actors name was the same. And that not the only time is it a sign or what it not like i want to see or hear his name everywhere i go and its no my imagination.

2007-12-29 09:14:42 · 7 answers · asked by princess 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a professional woman, but I barely have had serious relationships in the past. At the moment Im single and would love to meet new guys, etc. I miss being in a relationship, that is. And as I'm soon to be 30, I still haven't met someone who's worth and that is into commitment.

I've heard and read that women that have children after their 30's have less chances of having healthy kids and in many cases don't have children at all. I've been told and have read that the eggs in women by their 30's and after reproduce less and are unhealthy eggs. I don't want to be waiting to be 40, 50, etc. to have kids.

If I don't meet a man who's willing to commit by the time I reach 35, should I not have my kids, and forget about it. Should I wait to find the right man to have them with? what do you suggest?

Ps: Every woman's dream is to be professional, successful (I have acomplished that thank God), but also to find a loving husband, and of course have children, a family. Any single moms?

2007-12-29 09:13:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Just over a year ago I got in touch with my biological father, I had met up with him once when I was 17 but before that had not seen him since I was adopted by my step-dad at age 10.

The meeting went fine and he then sent me birthday and christmas presents last year but contact soon wore off again. I called him the other day - he didn't reply, just a random text telling me he couldn't talk as he had 'man flu', I got not so much as a birthday or christmas card, text or email this year!

Honestly I find him and his excuses pitiful, made all the worse by his supposed over excitement about me getting in contact with him again.

Should I really bother with him any further or just write him off for the waste of space I currently think he is?

2007-12-29 09:13:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-29 09:12:29 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its my 18th soon and i would like some ideas wot a can do..? x

2007-12-29 09:11:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-12-29 09:11:36 · 6 answers · asked by Clarom087 3 in Singles & Dating

So I have a boyfriend. He's cute, but I've only been with him a month (some heck of a month it's been, too). I don't really feel like myself around him, and he kinda gets angry easily. The thing is: through all of my relationships their's been this 1 guy who's always been there 4 me, and he's been in love w/ me for 5 years. He's had a lot more relationships than me and has never cheated, and I've never had a real relationship before this, but on Christmas, me and the guy who's loved me got together n only kissed, and I swear: sparks FLEW. I'm completely in love, and he told me he loves me that night, and I told him I love him too. He said I was the only thing he was sure about, and also that this was his first time cheating. The scary part was that for both of us, it felt right, and not like cheating.
SO: He has a girlfriend now, and I have a boyfriend. Do I ask him to break up with his girlfriend or what? (Me = not patient) My cousin says to tell him if he wants me, he has to break up

2007-12-29 09:10:33 · 10 answers · asked by Natasha M 1 in Singles & Dating

I have heard that A LOT of guys like me. but if so many guys like me y don't they ask me out all ready?! R they nervous or wat? Oh and all the guys that like me R NOT SHY!! I'm 12 and at school the guys that like me are always flirtin and stuff with me nd my friends "oh nice veiw" one of them says that all the time. So y don't any guys ask me out? oh yeah and 12 year old don't play with barbies so cut out that crap and don't say that 12 is too young to have a b/f cuz where i come from 5th graders have g/f and b/fs.

2007-12-29 09:10:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating