We've been going out for 4 months..
This week (Christmas week) I didn't see him since I was in Chicago..
I didn't miss him and when I was home after being the hospital for food poisoning I wasn't happy to see him, just felt whatever
When I kissed him there was no spark or ANYTHING
I feel better and I just don't want to see him
What do I do?
2007-12-29 09:28:42 · 37 answers · asked by lalalala 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thank you for all the answers!!
here's some more info:
1. No I'm not upset with him about anything
2. I really plan on working this out (whatever "working out" means in this case)
2007-12-29 09:35:58 · update #1
I LOVE HIM!!
lol that's why it's not easy to just end it...
2007-12-29 09:38:33 · update #2
Is it because you've been sick? Has someone else caught your eye?
Think it over a while so you don't do anything you'll regret. But don't hang on for much longer if you're sure you're over it. It seems like the newness has worn off and you're really just not into him anymore
2007-12-29 09:33:03 · answer #1 · answered by Christine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him. If there isn't any spark left for you, then move on. Let him go so he can find a girlfriend that likes him. I think something else is going on here. Did he buy you a Christmas gift before he left for Chicago? Are you mad about something else? I think so.
2007-12-29 09:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by Julie H 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If the feelings/spark aren't there, it's time to move on. If he is really into you, he will want/need a reason to help him move on. I dont have enough information to help you there. Maybe it's timing and there is something you are putting your efforts into other than a bf, maybe it's someone else, or maybe it's something he's done. Just be prepared if you think he might want to know.
2007-12-29 09:34:30 · answer #3 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what happend with me, if there's no spark left there's no relationship. End it quickly to be fair on both of you, just don't leave it coz it will get worse. Don't be totally honest as that will hurt but say you're just happy to be friends.
2007-12-29 09:34:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't feel anything when you guys kissed then he probably feels the same way you do, just tell him you guys needs to talk and try yo end things on friendly terms.
2007-12-29 09:34:22 · answer #5 · answered by askmeguru21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... Do you love him?? If you don't, then let him go. It could also be PMS. You don't really want to spend time with guys, boyfriends. You know?? Give it some time. See how everything goes. Cross each bridge as you come to it. Good luck!!
JesusFreak
2007-12-29 09:35:53 · answer #6 · answered by Muffin ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if theres nothing then break up with him...
there wont be any hope for a long lasting relationship if its already gone
just tell him that the feeling is gone..
its hard and sad..
but get out of it now before it gets even longer (trust me)
2007-12-29 09:33:00 · answer #7 · answered by Jet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don`t want to see him anymore then tell him you don`t want to see him anymore.
Do not let him keep thinking you want to be his girlfriend if you do not. That is a horrible thing to do. It may hurt him to tell him, but it is better to get it over with than to just stay around with him when you don`t want to.
2007-12-29 09:34:42 · answer #8 · answered by Blessed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that the spark is gone. Don't keep dragging him along. If it's over then it's over and it probably won't come back.
2007-12-29 09:32:06 · answer #9 · answered by zil28ennov 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont stay like that, leave him...its better then being in torture with no spark or anything. let him down easy if he does not feel the same way.
2007-12-29 09:32:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋